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53yo guy needs advice on asking out college girl?
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53yo guy needs advice on asking out college girl?
I am a 53yo guy who has his own business, a café. 1 of my regular customers is a girl (18-19) who attends the local university.

I would like to ask her out but am worried about coming across as 'creepy/pervy".

Any guidance on how I should approach this?
11-26-2019 12:31 AM
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RE: 53yo guy needs advice on asking out college girl?
At your age, it is best to not beat around the bush. If you make a big deal of it, she'll be more likely to say no. At your age, she'd expect you to have the confidence to just ask for her number and roll with it. Tell her you think she's cute, ask for her number and go from there. Give her a hard time first that she keeps coming back for the coffees just as an excuse to come see you. Keep it lighthearted, then get to the point and ask for her digits.

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11-26-2019 12:45 AM
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RE: 53yo guy needs advice on asking out college girl?
(11-26-2019 12:31 AM)BronzedAussie Wrote:  I am a 53yo guy who has his own business, a café. 1 of my regular customers is a girl (18-19) who attends the local university.

I would like to ask her out but am worried about coming across as 'creepy/pervy".

Any guidance on how I should approach this?

Does she take out, or drink in?

If she drinks in, have a seat with her for one minute. Next week, two minutes, until you're finally feeling comfortable enough to ask.

If she takes out, make conversation with her and go for it. But be prepared to lose her as a customer if she says no.

If you use social media, exchange that so she feels safer with you.

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11-26-2019 12:56 AM
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RE: 53yo guy needs advice on asking out college girl?
Since it is insinuated that you want her for sexual purposes, the forum cannot help you with this matter.

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11-26-2019 01:11 AM
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