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(12-19-2011 12:26 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  "...A good father can do everything a mother can and more. Being a single father is a lot of work, but if you want kids it will be worth it. Hire a nanny to help out."

This is another trueism that I lay on my boys. I tell them the only things a woman can do for a kid that a man can't is carry, give birth and breastfeed. Those things are biological that we can't change. After that's done, men that want to can raise a kid as good as any woman. Women don't like to hear this because they believe their gender makes them better "nurturers" to children. Human women don't have nurturer instincts, just like they don't automatically know how to care for young. Humans have to learn that, and tons of bitches either aren't cut out for it, or really don't want to.

A woman should give the child unconditional love. A man should give it conditional love, discipline and direction.

Both are valuable, but the latter is probably more essential.

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(12-18-2011 06:37 PM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  As you get older trawling the bars gets old,you won't have many if any friends similar age doing the same and it will be a lonely existence.

Marriage or shacking up together is just the next stage,if you're into somebody.
You can't go into every relationship thinking how badly it might turn out!

If you haven't sown your oats by 45 then you probably never will.

If I turn 45 without a girl and kids I'll feel I've wasted time.

It's the law of diminishing returns,when you're young you think it's going to last forever..It doesn't !

And if you're not careful you end up as that sad case in the supermarket buying that Christmas TV dinner for one!

Take heed Smile

^^^ I know this might be an unpopular view to have on a sex/game forum, but I have to agree with what you said. You know what really brought this issue home to me in an emotional way? It's when I was watching the unfolding spectacle of those Chilean miners being rescued one by one. Every one of them had their teary-eyed wives and kids waiting for them at the top after being trapped underground for weeks. What could be better after such an ordeal than having your kids running up to jump in your arms? If that didn't bring home what it means to have a family, I don't know what would. I couldn't imagine anything more depressing than being the lone 45 year old bachelor
being rescued that has nobody waiting for him up top while all the other men are celebrating with their families.

I have to think that at a certain point in the future, the loneliness that comes from a life of endless one night stands will become harder to bear than losing the novelty of chasing new women. Maybe that realization will come to some guys at 25, for others maybe 55, but I think most guys at some point will decide that they've had their fun and they're ready for something more permanent in their life. Eventually, having to "play the game" perpetually is going to get tiring. At 35 I'm already now starting to feel my age at some bars and clubs. Can't imagine being there at 50. If you've had your fun and then found a great woman who takes good care of herself and would make a good mother, I think marriage is something to consider.

Also as Pilgrim said, the friendship issue comes into play. I have friends that are married and since they've gotten hitched, I'm not as close to them as we used to be. Not due to any avoidance, it's just a lifestyle difference. Whereas we used to go out hunting for girls in our mid 20s, now he's inviting me to his kid's birthday party at Chuck E Cheese. I go because he's one of my best friends and I known the dude since I was in elementary school. I like his kids and I'm fully supportive of his family life. But while there, I'm surrounded by a sea of young families with small kids, and of course everyone is talking about their kids and family life and I just can't relate. As you get older, more and more of your friends are going to cross that line and you will have fewer people you can relate to. Maybe the exception is the rich, playboy bachelor always surrounded by young hotties like Hugh Hefner or Richard Branson, but needless to say, that lifestyle isn't realistically attainable for most men.
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(12-18-2011 09:55 PM)MiXX Wrote:  
(12-18-2011 09:51 PM)garygroundwork Wrote:  the only reason i can see for marriage is for kids






Still wanna have kids?


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Laugh That's pretty damn funny.
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(12-18-2011 07:02 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  What these whores do with the help of the f-up legal system is nothing short of criminal and make the actions of OJ, an heroic act.

Whoah - easy bud. I agree with your views on this, but wow. Big Grin

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For all of you guys that are thinking about mercking chicks...take a deep breath. They ALWAYS suspect the husband/ex first, and they'll probably catch you. I understand WHY you'd to have these chicks whacked, be you need to talk yourself down...

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(12-19-2011 04:26 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  
(12-18-2011 07:02 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  What these whores do with the help of the f-up legal system is nothing short of criminal and make the actions of OJ, an heroic act.

Whoah - easy bud. I agree with your views on this, but wow. Big Grin

(12-19-2011 05:05 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  For all of you guys that are thinking about mercking chicks...take a deep breath. They ALWAYS suspect the husband/ex first, and they'll probably catch you. I understand WHY you'd to have these chicks whacked, be you need to talk yourself down...

lol To be clear, I meant I agreed with the views on the marriage thing, not the OJ statement. Smile

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Well said TudoBem.

It comes down to being a good "lifestyle architect" (as much as I hate that word) - or bad at building your life. If you're good at it you can be a playboy.

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(12-19-2011 12:26 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  "...A good father can do everything a mother can and more. Being a single father is a lot of work, but if you want kids it will be worth it. Hire a nanny to help out."

This is another trueism that I lay on my boys. I tell them the only things a woman can do for a kid that a man can't is carry, give birth and breastfeed. Those things are biological that we can't change. After that's done, men that want to can raise a kid as good as any woman. Women don't like to hear this because they believe their gender makes them better "nurturers" to children. Human women don't have nurturer instincts, just like they don't automatically know how to care for young. Humans have to learn that, and tons of bitches either aren't cut out for it, or really don't want to.


I don't think this is true. There are things women can do better than men and viceversa. Have you guys ever seen a really good mom and a really good dad? Its better for kids to see the healthy feminine energy of a good mom and the strong masculine energy of a good dad who leads.

I also think grandparents should be essential to raising kids. The wisdom that older people have can be very enriching.
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(12-18-2011 06:45 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  
(12-18-2011 06:37 PM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  As you get older trawling the bars gets old,you won't have many if any friends similar age doing the same and it will be a lonely existence.

Marriage or shacking up together is just the next stage,if you're into somebody.

If you haven't sown your oats by 45 then you probably never will.

If I turn 45 without a girl and kids I'll feel I've wasted time.

It's the law of diminishing returns,when you're young you think it's going to last forever..It doesn't !

And if you're not careful you end up as that sad case in the supermarket buying that Christmas TV dinner for one!

Take heed Smile
What if she leaves you and takes your house when you're 47? Then you just really wasted time. Don't be afraid to be single in your 40s it's good.

I don't want to be mistaken for my kids grandfather!

Waiting if you've met the right girl just leads to regret.
Got to take your chances in this life!
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(12-18-2011 07:02 PM)Vacancier Permanent Wrote:  I look at guys around me, be it relatives or guys I know or have known and I have yet to see one of them encouraging me to get married. During family gatherings with relatives and all, the only people who bring up the topic of getting married and always ask me why I haven't settled down yet are always, without fail, the women and never ever the men. I wonder why...

The only way marriage could be a viable option is :
a) to get married to a girl from Asia, Eastern Europe or Latin America.
b) keep her there and don't you think of bringing her in feminazi infested North America where within a year or two, she will be turned into a mean feminazi bitch by the females she would meet and will take you to the cleaners within 5 years or less. Guaranteed and unlike the usual saying in business, NO money back here.

Stay there, lead a happy life, have kids and you can be happy. But in North America, that is unfortunately not possible.

Each time I hear or read these kinds of stories where the bitch took the house and raped the guy in the courts make my blood boil. What these whores do with the help of the f-up legal system is nothing short of criminal and make the actions of OJ, an heroic act.

Well,I had your idea of living in Latin America,but I couldn't make it work up in Fortaleza.
Perfect girl, but I couldn't make a living there and she didn't want to move to London.
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(12-20-2011 06:34 AM)Riker Wrote:  
(12-19-2011 12:26 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  "...A good father can do everything a mother can and more. Being a single father is a lot of work, but if you want kids it will be worth it. Hire a nanny to help out."

This is another trueism that I lay on my boys. I tell them the only things a woman can do for a kid that a man can't is carry, give birth and breastfeed. Those things are biological that we can't change. After that's done, men that want to can raise a kid as good as any woman. Women don't like to hear this because they believe their gender makes them better "nurturers" to children. Human women don't have nurturer instincts, just like they don't automatically know how to care for young. Humans have to learn that, and tons of bitches either aren't cut out for it, or really don't want to.


I don't think this is true. There are things women can do better than men and viceversa. Have you guys ever seen a really good mom and a really good dad? Its better for kids to see the healthy feminine energy of a good mom and the strong masculine energy of a good dad who leads.

I also think grandparents should be essential to raising kids. The wisdom that older people have can be very enriching.

You misunderstood the post. I don't state that women CAN'T be good parents. I'm merely saying that women aren't automatically better parents just because they're women. Men are every bit as capable of nurturing their children, and it's only certain biological functions that separate men and women with regard to child rearing.

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(12-20-2011 01:20 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  
(12-20-2011 06:34 AM)Riker Wrote:  
(12-19-2011 12:26 AM)Timoteo Wrote:  "...A good father can do everything a mother can and more. Being a single father is a lot of work, but if you want kids it will be worth it. Hire a nanny to help out."

This is another trueism that I lay on my boys. I tell them the only things a woman can do for a kid that a man can't is carry, give birth and breastfeed. Those things are biological that we can't change. After that's done, men that want to can raise a kid as good as any woman. Women don't like to hear this because they believe their gender makes them better "nurturers" to children. Human women don't have nurturer instincts, just like they don't automatically know how to care for young. Humans have to learn that, and tons of bitches either aren't cut out for it, or really don't want to.


I don't think this is true. There are things women can do better than men and viceversa. Have you guys ever seen a really good mom and a really good dad? Its better for kids to see the healthy feminine energy of a good mom and the strong masculine energy of a good dad who leads.

I also think grandparents should be essential to raising kids. The wisdom that older people have can be very enriching.

You misunderstood the post. I don't state that women CAN'T be good parents. I'm merely saying that women aren't automatically better parents just because they're women. Men are every bit as capable of nurturing their children, and it's only certain biological functions that separate men and women with regard to child rearing.

Yes I understand that guys can do it too. Just saying I think its better to have both male and female parents nurture a kid (as long as they both do it well). I think a father can do things for their children that a mother can't and mothers can do things that a father can't.
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(12-19-2011 02:45 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  when I was watching the unfolding spectacle of those Chilean miners being rescued one by one. Every one of them had their teary-eyed wives and kids waiting for them at the top after being trapped underground for weeks. What could be better after such an ordeal than having your kids running up to jump in your arms? If that didn't bring home what it means to have a family, I don't know what would. I couldn't imagine anything more depressing than being the lone 45 year old bachelor
being rescued that has nobody waiting for him up top while all the other men are celebrating with their families.

What about being the 45 year old bachelor miner that has 7 teary eyed, slim, smoking hot women ranging in age from 18-26 throw their arms around him before dragging him off for a gangbang?

You think the guy with the emasculating, dragon lady, chubby wife has it better?
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(12-21-2011 07:39 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  
(12-19-2011 02:45 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  when I was watching the unfolding spectacle of those Chilean miners being rescued one by one. Every one of them had their teary-eyed wives and kids waiting for them at the top after being trapped underground for weeks. What could be better after such an ordeal than having your kids running up to jump in your arms? If that didn't bring home what it means to have a family, I don't know what would. I couldn't imagine anything more depressing than being the lone 45 year old bachelor
being rescued that has nobody waiting for him up top while all the other men are celebrating with their families.

What about being the 45 year old bachelor miner that has 7 teary eyed, slim, smoking hot women ranging in age from 18-26 throw their arms around him before dragging him off for a gangbang?

You think the guy with the emasculating, dragon lady, chubby wife has it better?

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(12-19-2011 12:30 AM)MiXX Wrote:  
(12-18-2011 10:01 PM)Samseau Wrote:  A good father can do everything a mother can and more. Being a single father is a lot of work, but if you want kids it will be worth it. Hire a nanny to help out.

I was thinking about going this route, and will do the nanny thing, BUT in a foreign country until they are ready for College.

The gov't also gets in your way of raising your kids the right way....you can't so much as scream at your kid today without having social services knocking on your door to file charges.

Mixx

On top of that you can educate your children in international schools. Top notch education before university is possible and affordable in some countries. We all know how the public school system is going down the tubes here, so if they miss the prom by being in a foreign country well it's no big deal.

The social connections you get by being involved in such an environment can work in your favor. All the big shots in that society will send their kids to these schools. You and your kids will make important social circle contacts.

As for not marrying, just don't do it in the west. Do it in a country where you aren't treated below a dog.
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I understand why some people are antagonistic towards marriage when all you see around you are failed marriages. I sympathize with some of these statements.

Your post describes pretty thoughtless and controlling women. I know plenty of those exist. But I would like to think that there are nurturing women out there who would also make good life-long partners.

There's definitely a sense of comfort that comes from a partner that I don't think you can get anywhere else. A good wife is like a good life-long friend, plus some, if it's done right. Unfortunately, we live in a "me society" and people don't very well understand the concept of putting others before self.

Another thought I had touches on your ideas of monotony. This might be a crazy thought but do you think that some women are opening to experiencing "variety" with you? Surely women are just as concerned with getting bored in bed as we are. I'm sure that given a good wife you can think of ways to diversify things. Hell, some people are cool wife-swapping and group sex from time to time just to get things moving again. Doesn't sound like a bad idea.

Honestly, I am looking forward to getting married. I do have exceptional standards for the girl I'll be committing to however, something that I think a lot of people lack. I think the key is openness, honesty, and genuine respect for each other. If you can't talk to each other about anything and if you don't truly love each other, then there is no sense in both of you making a life-long commitment.
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(12-22-2011 10:59 AM)CupCake Wrote:  Honestly, I am looking forward to getting married.

Baaah humbug!!


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(12-21-2011 07:39 PM)Lumiere Wrote:  
(12-19-2011 02:45 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  when I was watching the unfolding spectacle of those Chilean miners being rescued one by one. Every one of them had their teary-eyed wives and kids waiting for them at the top after being trapped underground for weeks. What could be better after such an ordeal than having your kids running up to jump in your arms? If that didn't bring home what it means to have a family, I don't know what would. I couldn't imagine anything more depressing than being the lone 45 year old bachelor
being rescued that has nobody waiting for him up top while all the other men are celebrating with their families.

What about being the 45 year old bachelor miner that has 7 teary eyed, slim, smoking hot women ranging in age from 18-26 throw their arms around him before dragging him off for a gangbang?

Now that's realistic...When poor Chilean miners start having harems, it'll be my time to move to Chile.
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Here's one from yesterday..My cousin got into an arguement with his wife and she said she's leaving with the kids. So he tries to stop her and she called tried to call the cops and he took her cell phone. When she got it back she called them and they came and arrested him for domestic violence and tampering with a witness (taking phone from her) Now he can't see his kids or go to his house that he just did a quarter mil in upgrades to. I'm sure she cleaned out his bank accounts. I told him not to get married and I told him to file on her when she went up north to visit her parents and threatened to stay there with the kids. Now look at him. He's fucked.

I can write another story about this every other day....Don't marry here

Speak...Remember those miners were working so their families could eat. Girls here will continue to eat like pigs regardless and take your shit from you as well

My daughters mother just called me and told me her car needs a fuel pump or something ya know 5 or 6 hundred dollars. I said well I'm kinda busy do you have the money? No? Ok bye.

Point is I went through the motions with this bitch and guess what? She got shit from me. I even fucked her on her taxes. No marriage=male power Always play your strongest hand brothers
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(12-22-2011 12:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Here's one from yesterday..My cousin got into an arguement with his wife and she said she's leaving with the kids. So he tries to stop her and she called tried to call the cops and he took her cell phone. When she got it back she called them and they came and arrested him for domestic violence and tampering with a witness (taking phone from her) Now he can't see his kids or go to his house that he just did a quarter mil in upgrades to. I'm sure she cleaned out his bank accounts. I told him not to get married and I told him to file on her when she went up north to visit her parents and threatened to stay there with the kids. Now look at him. He's fucked.

Damn. Going to jail because you took a cell phone from your wifes hands. What a bunch of fucking bullshit!

My question is: why did he admit to taking teh cell phone? He could of just called bullshit on all her allegations, and told the cops he did no such thing and it was she that took it from his hands. Of course this is America, and women are innocent on every count even when proven to be guilty.

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(12-22-2011 12:18 PM)MiXX Wrote:  
(12-22-2011 12:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Here's one from yesterday..My cousin got into an arguement with his wife and she said she's leaving with the kids. So he tries to stop her and she called tried to call the cops and he took her cell phone. When she got it back she called them and they came and arrested him for domestic violence and tampering with a witness (taking phone from her) Now he can't see his kids or go to his house that he just did a quarter mil in upgrades to. I'm sure she cleaned out his bank accounts. I told him not to get married and I told him to file on her when she went up north to visit her parents and threatened to stay there with the kids. Now look at him. He's fucked.

Damn. Going to jail because you took a cell phone from your wifes hands. What a bunch of fucking bullshit!

The funny thing is we had our kids on the same day in the same hospital. Our kids have seen eachother twice because she doesn't like me even though we live a mile apart. Now look at him. The only difference between us is he said I do and I said fuck no

My question is: why did he admit to taking teh cell phone? He could of just called bullshit on all her allegations, and told the cops he did no such thing and it was she that took it from his hands. Of course this is America, and women are innocent on every count even when proven to be guilty.

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White knight cops Mixx. The girl is hot as fuck= he goes to jail
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(12-22-2011 12:18 PM)MiXX Wrote:  
(12-22-2011 12:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  Here's one from yesterday..My cousin got into an arguement with his wife and she said she's leaving with the kids. So he tries to stop her and she called tried to call the cops and he took her cell phone. When she got it back she called them and they came and arrested him for domestic violence and tampering with a witness (taking phone from her) Now he can't see his kids or go to his house that he just did a quarter mil in upgrades to. I'm sure she cleaned out his bank accounts. I told him not to get married and I told him to file on her when she went up north to visit her parents and threatened to stay there with the kids. Now look at him. He's fucked.

Damn. Going to jail because you took a cell phone from your wifes hands. What a bunch of fucking bullshit!

My question is: why did he admit to taking teh cell phone? He could of just called bullshit on all her allegations, and told the cops he did no such thing and it was she that took it from his hands. Of course this is America, and women are innocent on every count even when proven to be guilty.

Mixx

People think of so many lies to say after marriage. Solution; don't get married in the first place as you said. Marriage was probably invented by a beta male if i could guess.

In addition, something that you see commonly is people with families enjoy Christmas and Easter time like there is no tomorrow because the rest of the 11 months of the year, they live in misery.
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RE: 7 Logical Reasons Not To Marry
We can all do like Tony Gonzales and just push for "commitment ceremonies" all of the bells and whistles of an actual wedding without it being LEGALLY BINDING!!! BRILLIANT!!!


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12-22-2011 12:31 PM
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RE: 7 Logical Reasons Not To Marry
Happy New Year Everyone! I just registered.

This is Winston of HappierAbroad.com.

Vacancier Permanent, thanks for posting my anti-marriage essay here, but you posted the wrong URL. You forgot to add a 5 at the end of the link. This is the correct URL:

(unable to post URL's here, just add a 5 to the end of the URL you have)

Also, I've updated the 7 reasons to 10 now, and added many more logical points and arguments. Can you update the version in this thread to the new updated version at the link above?

Thanks for sharing my essay here.

Regards,
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01-01-2012 02:04 AM
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RE: 7 Logical Reasons Not To Marry
(12-18-2011 11:53 PM)BackToBasics Wrote:  Mainstream Science is finally starting to notice this trend:

"Why young couples aren't getting married -- they fear the ravages of divorce"

http://www.physorg.com/news/2011-12-youn...vages.html

Took long enough.

Young couples are avoiding marriage because most are broke.

If the economics for Generation Y changed, then we'd see different results.
01-01-2012 04:38 AM
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