10 Things Western Women Can Do To Fix Relationships

lunchmoney

Woodpecker
Thoughts?


1. Stop having babies with men that are not on their purpose, unproductive men without successful futures
2. Marry before you carry.
3. Restrain from having too many sexual partners, having too many sexual partners causes sexual hyperinflation.
4. Always maintain your femininity regardless of income and education.
5. Focus on finding a husband and starting a family as a top priority in your 20s instead of your 30s.
6. Study your man before sleeping with him.
7. Be supportive of your man as long he is taking action and he is heading in the right direction.
8. Stay fit and exercise regularly,
9. Give a lady and wholesome image instead of a hyper sexual and pornstar look on your social image channels.
10. Be submissive and non confrontational to men who lead and who are productive.
 

Jaszczurka

Robin
Catholic
Thoughts?


1. Stop having babies with men that are not on their purpose, unproductive men without successful futures
2. Marry before you carry.
3. Restrain from having too many sexual partners, having too many sexual partners causes sexual hyperinflation.
4. Always maintain your femininity regardless of income and education.
5. Focus on finding a husband and starting a family as a top priority in your 20s instead of your 30s.
6. Study your man before sleeping with him.
7. Be supportive of your man as long he is taking action and he is heading in the right direction.
8. Stay fit and exercise regularly,
9. Give a lady and wholesome image instead of a hyper sexual and pornstar look on your social image channels.
10. Be submissive and non confrontational to men who lead and who are productive.

I'll share.

Roosh would probably appreciate adding as top (number 1) to be Christian although there are materialistic girls in church. This means a life structured around faith as compared to the false gods of The Workplace, consumerism, the hivemind matriarchy, and the media. With faith, she can connect with God but also ward off these demons.

I would therefore alter 5 and suggest thinking about a family even in one's teens. Not getting married then, of course, but having that in mind as the goal of one's personal development. This means developing social skills to identify quality men, thinking long term, setting reasonable goals, social skills, etc. I'm married and the woman I met, and the culture she's from, encourages women to think rationally about relationships. Yes, it's true and my grandmothers were a heck lot more rational than many today and the era of "soulmate" bullshit love.

I'd add that modern definitions of relationships are broken in that women today are conditioned to act as prostitutes. Dinner dates are caveman prostitution. Heck, women who just want a healthy relationship with a man are viewed as "losers" by other women. If a woman doesn't act like a prostitute (demand stuff from men using sex as a lure) it's easier to get men to have honorable relationships with her. So I'd sum it up as:

"If you don't want men to treat you as a prostitute, stop engaging in behavior, even so-called traditional behavior, that encourages you to act as one."

I see in the Bible women told to be submissive to men but I don't see ANYTHING that says men are ATM machines. Women worked in the field. I just read this in the story of Ruth.
 

thejoyofhate

Pigeon
Catholic
I think the onus is on men to fix things
How do men fix the fact that women want a career first before a family?

I'll add I just went on a date with a 21 year old girl I met at Church. After a great first date she proceeds to tell me right before our planned second date that she is probably going to be leaving town once she graduates for her career and doesn't want to get into a relationship. So she cancelled the 2nd date. This is a girl I met at Catholic church who is involved with various church activities.

Even the church girls who you think are trad have been deceived by the career woman lie. I don't think men can fix this as it's ingrained in many women. Which leads me (I'm 26) to either accept a career abused women likely when I'm in my 30s or reject them and stay single.

Even my sister who attends Catholic mass every week who is 28 and her boyfriend is 31 is saying she wants a career until her mid 30s. Her boyfriend wants a family as soon as possible and is just going along with this, so sad.

I legitimately don't know if men can fix this or if anyone can fix this. The other side (evil) has made so much headway, utter collapse would be the only way things change.
 

Cavalier

Woodpecker
Orthodox Catechumen
How do men fix the fact that women want a career first before a family?

I'll add I just went on a date with a 21 year old girl I met at Church. After a great first date she proceeds to tell me right before our planned second date that she is probably going to be leaving town once she graduates for her career and doesn't want to get into a relationship. So she cancelled the 2nd date. This is a girl I met at Catholic church who is involved with various church activities.

Even the church girls who you think are trad have been deceived by the career woman lie. I don't think men can fix this as it's ingrained in many women. Which leads me (I'm 26) to either accept a career abused women likely when I'm in my 30s or reject them and stay single.

Even my sister who attends Catholic mass every week who is 28 and her boyfriend is 31 is saying she wants a career until her mid 30s. Her boyfriend wants a family as soon as possible and is just going along with this, so sad.

I legitimately don't know if men can fix this or if anyone can fix this. The other side (evil) has made so much headway, utter collapse would be the only way things change.
You are right that things have already gotten way out of hand. It is not an easy fix that is for sure. The men of the past that allowed women to vote and feminism to grow like a cancer really failed. But everything you just stated points to the fact that women would be totally unable to fix things. Most of them are deceived and have bought into the Satanic lie that is feminism. On your first date with this girl she no doubt talked to some extent about her plans for career. No doubt some of her opinions as she spoke to you were very modern and feminist. Did you correct her? Of course not you didn’t want to ruin the prospects of a relationship by contradicting Her. Not to condemn you because all men do that. That is the problem we do not speak up and as a result abdicate our manhood. Not to say I haven’t been there myself.
 

thejoyofhate

Pigeon
Catholic
You are right that things have already gotten way out of hand. It is not an easy fix that is for sure. The men of the past that allowed women to vote and feminism to grow like a cancer really failed. But everything you just stated points to the fact that women would be totally unable to fix things. Most of them are deceived and have bought into the Satanic lie that is feminism. On your first date with this girl she no doubt talked to some extent about her plans for career. No doubt some of her opinions as she spoke to you were very modern and feminist. Did you correct her? Of course not you didn’t want to ruin the prospects of a relationship by contradicting Her. Not to condemn you because all men do that. That is the problem we do not speak up and as a result abdicate our manhood. Not to say I haven’t been there myself.
While she did not talk about her career much, she did talk about all of the classes she was taking. I should have put the two together.

You are right, men need to put their foot down. I guess since it seems so difficult to even go on dates these days I, and probably men in general, tend to have oneitis and try to ignore certain flaws or viewpoints we should automatically reject.

I wonder what would have happened if I just said "I don't care about your schooling or career." Might have ended it sooner but same result and less wasted time.
 

Lawrence87

Woodpecker
Orthodox
How do men fix the fact that women want a career first before a family?

By not overlooking absolutely everything in interests of an easy lay.

If men got their act together and stopped pursuing career oriented 'liberated' women, you'd soon notice a change.

Women by their nature are programmed toward being mothers. As things stand men are sending out the message that they can be a mother and fulfill the role of a man at the same time. If men started to insist that their partners want to be a mother and not be interested in career goals things would change rapidly. The problem is that modern "men" don't really care as long as they are getting their end away, and so it persists.
 

thejoyofhate

Pigeon
Catholic
By not overlooking absolutely everything in interests of an easy lay.

If men got their act together and stopped pursuing career oriented 'liberated' women, you'd soon notice a change.

Women by their nature are programmed toward being mothers. As things stand men are sending out the message that they can be a mother and fulfill the role of a man at the same time. If men started to insist that their partners want to be a mother and not be interested in career goals things would change rapidly. The problem is that modern "men" don't really care as long as they are getting their end away, and so it persists.
Correct. Most of these men are worldly and plugged in. So unfortunately they won't be changing anything. Us Christian brothers can try and do our best but we'll need a great revival to see any drastic change.
 
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