^ I hear this loud and clear.
Among all the other outlandish, not so brilliant things we used to get up to, my younger brother and I used to run across the slightly domed railing of this bridge down the road from our house on boring summer afternoons:
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I believe it spans few hundred feet in the air. There were two bridges there in succession and we'd run down both of them.
Thinking back sometimes, I often feel a bit of horror pondering the risk we were taking for a cheap adrenaline rush - mostly thinking what if my younger brother had slipped and fallen because he was emulating my crazy ass. I doubt I'd have ever forgiven myself. I doubt my hard-working mother would have ever forgiven herself to think we could be responsible for each other without adult supervision.
Then again, Jordan Peterson talks in 12 Rules for Life why this type of daredevil activity is important for young males in a society like ours, or any society, for that matter. I think we should find ways to channel it that aren't quite so risky and pointless, which is largely owed to our culture's inability to properly guide male development, but I also largely agree with him.
I remember one time in Laos, a kid younger than these ones served as my GUIDE in a cave. They'd wait outside caves that were completely undeveloped and take travelers through for a fee - there were passages we had to crawl through with the rock scraping our backs, and there were pits the kid would toss a rock down so we could listen to it fall and fall and fall before maybe hitting bottom. At times he would jokingly disappear and act like he was going to abandon me there...little fucker. lol
Point being that youngsters in this part of the world often live very daring lives and take a lot of risks with little oversight from adults. Highly dependent on social class, of course.
It might be hard to imagine it if you didn't spend your childhood outdoors. But if I'd have grown up around caves, I have no doubt my circle of brothers and friends and I would have been burrowing around in them, pushing the limits and going places we really shouldn't go. If you grew up in an urban area you probably challenged yourself in other ways.
It's the nature of young males to do so.
In any case, none of this is to detract from the important part here: I hope someone a lot smarter than me comes up with a way to get these kids, and the coach, out of there safe and sound. It's not looking very hopeful, but there are a lot of top minds getting involved, and I'm really keeping my fingers crossed for a happy ending here.