The Prodigal son's father did not seek out the son, but was happy when he returned. Since he was in the wrong, the ball is in his court.
The Prodigal son's father was God the Father. "“But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion for him; he ran to his son, threw his arms around him and kissed him."
If you view things as who was right and who was wrong, you will remain in this situation. If that is what you want, then congratulations. If you want to improve the situation, give these ideas some thought.