It's hard to say without knowing her and based on the general description, but by sessed up do you mean she has a high notch count? Or just average, whatever that is? The old RVF wisdom was, of course, that a notch count over three is a deal breaker, but it seems like the new mentality is that all can be forgiven if she's repentant and sincerely accepts Christ. I have no idea, although I'd like to believe that. I was lucky enough to meet a Latina who was essentially married to the Catholic church before she met me and had a notch count of zero.If I end up en los paises de la hola-hola personas I hope I can sport something a little less droopy on my arm. She's got a Hillary Clinton thing going on.
Query for you guys. What are your gneral thoughts of the marriage-worthiness of Latinas? Particularly interested in las Cubanas. My experience is they are super-low in attention span on the whole. How forgiving do you think you should be with a belleza mas dulce if she is very feminine, but maybe a bit too sessed up or given to pop culture?
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You know I'm a big fan of Latinas in general, but obviously there are many, maybe even most, who aren't marriage material. You can easily find Latinas who would be as much of a nightmare as a wife as a typical gringa or Eastern Slav, or even worse. I just feel like you've got a better chance of finding a good wife south of the border because Latinas are far more likely to be sincerely Christian than Anglo and Russian-speaking girls and therefore more likely to prioritize having kids and being the ama de casa (housewife, but I like to translate it as "the soul of the home"). Also, Latin guys set the bar very low, so a good Latina is likely to highly prize basic things like your not being a drunken womanizer and not hitting her.
When my wife's priest was interviewing us before agreeing to marry us, he told her to remember when she finally goes to the US with me that "feminism is a tool of Satan and has no part in Christian family life." Imagine saying that to an American woman, even one who's allegedly "conservative and traditional." I'd imagine an Orthodox priest could get away with saying something to that effect to a devout Russian or Ukrainian girl, there just aren't nearly as many devout Eastern Slavic girls as there are Latinas.
About Cubans, I'm in the wrong part of the US to know many of them but it seems like others are saying that they tend to not be quality women. This is just speculation, but if that's true maybe the blame goes back to communism. I suspect that much of what's wrong with Russian and Ukrainian girls ultimately goes back to that, so it could be the same with cubanas if they're noticeably different from other Latinas.