26 year old doctor ...two years post graduation... lost drive and confidence

Svoboda

Kingfisher
Btw, did you start doing light therapy and significantly increase vitamin D intake?

It seems your positive mindset takes a hit every winter.
 

thedarkknight

Kingfisher
Update.

Great thread by the way.

All was going well . I might be getting married next year and just got my second house.



Then on monday.......


"Sexual discrimination."

Narrowly avoided formal investgation but apparently some of the female doctors feel i treat male doctors differently.

There you have it gentleman: be too nice and you're vunerable to sexual harassment, treat them like you would a man and boom, misogynist.

TDK
 

thedarkknight

Kingfisher
Moving forward

1) No social media ( done anyway)
2) Never have 1-1 meetings with women without a third party
3) Examining any woman who isn't menopausal requires a chapperone
4) Few if any women on my whatsapp. Either my GF, family members and maybe 10 female co-workers.
5) If it aint about work, I aint about the conversaiton. Thats the policy with conversations with women

They just run to HR without any hint of intent.
You walk into the office and then wham.
All these accusations come out of nowhere.
No dates, no names, no times just he said this and it made me feel this way.
No idea why the hell you're being brought into an office and then boom.
Like turning on the lights and being covered in red-dot sights.


I didn't treat women drs any different to male drs but I sure will now.


TDK
 

The Beast1

Peacock
Gold Member
Moving forward

1) No social media ( done anyway)
2) Never have 1-1 meetings with women without a third party
3) Examining any woman who isn't menopausal requires a chapperone
4) Few if any women on my whatsapp. Either my GF, family members and maybe 10 female co-workers.
5) If it aint about work, I aint about the conversaiton. Thats the policy with conversations with women

They just run to HR without any hint of intent.
You walk into the office and then wham.
All these accusations come out of nowhere.
No dates, no names, no times just he said this and it made me feel this way.
No idea why the hell you're being brought into an office and then boom.
Like turning on the lights and being covered in red-dot sights.


I didn't treat women drs any different to male drs but I sure will now.


TDK
I swear, when I went to John Radcliffe Hospital for a hand cut, the nurses there were absolutely miserable!

I come from a medical family of doctors and nurses so for me I grew up in hospitals and am astoundingly comfortable in them.

Nurse walks in all huffy puffy and angry, and im all happy go lucky, " how ya doing?'

Mind you, this was after I was driving around in circles because the idiots that run the council in Oxford never bothered to build a parking garage. I parked in the employee lot. More impressed I didn't lose my shit from the Uks incessant need to have 40 million cripple parking spots and zero normie spots.

This was around 2016 so I hope things have changed. From the sound of it, probably not.
 
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