Not agreeing about the gay sex thing would be a deal breaker for me if this can't be resolved with her priest. It's just as much a sin as fornication.Well howdy fellers, I have a bit of an update for you. I have went on two dates since beginning this project.
The first was last Sunday. Nice girl, met on Upward, she seemed pretty in her pictures. She alluded that she was tall, which didn't bother me, because I was still taller than her. When she shows up she was ginormous, definitely taller than she said and very big boned, plus a little chubby. Nice girl, but basically catfished me. She also reversed her stance very quickly to align with mine over trivial matters which I found odd.
Second date was earlier today. This girl looked as good or better than her pictures so I was happy with that. She was really sweet and pleasant, good conversationalist and had good perspectives which I really appreciated. The huge, major sticking point for me, is that she is Orthodox and proclaimed that she does not believe gay sex is a sin. I am not making this up. It was brought up because she mentioned that she is liberal and I invited her to explain, no judgment from my end.
I am probably gonna go on another date with her, because I did enjoy my time with her, but I feel like this is ultimately a suicide mission because if she basically writes off doctrine because of her feels, I think we will have bigger problems later on down the road.
I have begun entertaining the idea, that if I don't get married by 35 that I may become a monk.
Usually when a woman tells you something about them, you should listen.
If she says she is liberal she probably is.
I am hopeful for you... But doubt this one will work out to be the trade wife you seek.