30 year old roastie gets pumped and dumped by Chad she met through Tinder and now wan

RE:

In case you can't bear to endure the whiny article... I've done it for you

To put this in football terms: "She fell for the head-fake."

For all you basketball fans: "He broke her ankles."

Baseball: "He stole home plate."

Boxing: "ROPE-A-DOPE!"


And then she was all butt-hurt when she figured out that she actually is not very special at all. Fin.
 

godfather dust

 
Banned
Gold Member
Good thing about this article:
Look up her name, she's ugly as shit. She also writes articles about getting pumped and dumped and expanding the definition of rape. Now all you have to do is type her name in a search engine and see she's not even worth a slump break she'll say you raped her. Psycho averted.
 
debeguiled said:
She's the one with the head fake. This is exactly what she wanted. A good story. And the chance to brag that men still want her.

OH SHIT! THE DOUBLE HEAD-FAKE! In real life!

(**In football: No defensive back falls for that anymore... Us receivers tried the "triple head-fake" and realized it took far too long to execute and doesn't work. Like trying to outsmart someone in "Paper-Rock-Scissors." Better: one head-fake--shoulders and eyes are most important--go with speed and QB accuracy/timing)
 

DarkTriad

Ostrich
Gold Member
Days of Broken Arrows said:
^^^
Not the best description, but thanks for bringing this to our attention.

Summary: A guy meets a woman on Tinder and apparently puts on an act to get her into bed. (Admit it, we've all done this to some degree.) He pretends to really, really care about her feelings, asks for consent every step of the way, etc.

In short, he turned himself into the exact kind of trendy, New Age Sensitive Guy liberal women crow about online. I'm guessing this took weeks of reading #metoo literature and learning how to do some serious Dustin Hoffman-style method acting. The O.P.'s comment about wanting to accuse the guy of rape is a stretch, but at one point, he even plays into her rape fantasy.

The ploy worked. He got her into bed.

And then he completely disappeared. In this New York Times article, the (pretentious, exhibitionist) writer, Courtney Sender, says the guy should be held accountable by some new #metoo standards that require men to, you know, care about the woman.

"A culture of consent should be a culture of care for the other person, of seeing and honoring another’s humanity and finding ways to engage in sex while keeping our humanity intact. It should be a culture of making each other feel good, not bad."

I say the guy should be nominated for an Academy Award. Because from what I can tell, he gave a performance of a lifetime. Encore! Bravo!

I've got to question how much of this is an act. A lot of young guys are beat down and indoctrinated, he might think this is a legit modern romance and "the right thing to do".

He's blowing himself out so often, he's thrilled to get a 30 year old girl. She puts out in spite of his terrible game because he's young and good looking. He does a couple of rounds with her, gets a little confidence, and now he's getting young girls his own age. He doesn't want to hurt her, but lacks the balls for an honest heart to heart, so he ghosts.
 

Days of Broken Arrows

Crow
Gold Member
OK, I've moved on. Forget the pump and dump. Forget the New York Times article.

What's bothering me so much about this whole Courtney Sender article is something that's not apparent at first. It's that by writing this article, she as a professor is courting danger for both her and her students.

This woman is having Tinder sex with random guys, then "revenge writing" articles in the New York Times. Should one of her "randos" decide to take revenge in the form of a violence, both she and the New York Times will be complicit in how the lives of her and her students were negatively affected.

This is why we used to hold teachers and college professors to a high standard. We entrust them to our kids. She's playing with fire here.

I assumed at first the guy who seduced her was a smooth operator. But what if he's a nut with a short temper who feels embarrassed about what she wrote? He's not named, but she makes it clear her social circle knows who he is.

This occurred to me about an hour after reading the article. Shouldn't a New York Times editor have thought of this?

One final thing: Had this been a male professor writing about his one night stands with women, they'd be calling for his resignation. We should call for hers.
 

Thersites

Kingfisher
Days of Broken Arrows said:
This occurred to me about an hour after reading the article. Shouldn't a New York Times editor have thought of this?

When did the NYT editors care about consequences of their actions in the past couple of years. The only things that matter for them is the supporting the narrative du jour and getting paid for it.
 

DarkTriad

Ostrich
Gold Member
Days of Broken Arrows said:
OK, I've moved on. Forget the pump and dump. Forget the New York Times article.

What's bothering me so much about this whole Courtney Sender article is something that's not apparent at first. It's that by writing this article, she as a professor is courting danger for both her and her students.

This woman is having Tinder sex with random guys, then "revenge writing" articles in the New York Times. Should one of her "randos" decide to take revenge in the form of a violence, both she and the New York Times will be complicit in how the lives of her and her students were negatively affected.

This is why we used to hold teachers and college professors to a high standard. We entrust them to our kids. She's playing with fire here.

I assumed at first the guy who seduced her was a smooth operator. But what if he's a nut with a short temper who feels embarrassed about what she wrote? He's not named, but she makes it clear her social circle knows who he is.

This occurred to me about an hour after reading the article. Shouldn't a New York Times editor have thought of this?

One final thing: Had this been a male professor writing about his one night stands with women, they'd be calling for his resignation. We should call for hers.

Lol, good point about the reversed roles "I'm a thirty something professor and I banged out this young 19 year girl a couple of times. She ghosted me, and I wish there were some law that compelled her to keep servicing me or she would be disgraced and imprisoned.". But making sexual stuff more litigious is a battle men are never going to win so I would take a pass on this.


I disagree on your other point. A lot of things they write are offensive to somebody, I highly doubt this is more dangerous than a host of other political topics and such. Hell, if she was an actual good reporter, she could be exposing genuine dangerous criminals or something. She's talking about someone that dumped her, not the other way around.
 

placer

Kingfisher
Protestant
RE: 30 year old roastie gets pumped and dumped

Here is her picture:

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Those arms and lack of seeing her full body, along with her making it a matter of public record that she puts out with Tinder first dates, make me conclude "Secret Internet Fattie" Would only bang if her BMI is 24 or less.
 

Solitaire

Robin
placer said:
Here is her picture:[/img]

Those arms and lack of seeing her full body, along with her making it a matter of public record that she puts out with Tinder first dates, make me conclude "Secret Internet Fattie" Would only bang if her BMI is 24 or less.

First post, just registered. So this chick is out there having hook-up sex and writing articles about it? Wow her parents must be proud. Add this to 3rd wave feminism, the gender fluidity bullshit, and persecution of white males, and it all is beginning to feel like the death of our culture.
 

stugatz

Pelican
Catholic
This is horrifyingly evil. I laughed when reading this, and wanted to high-five the Chad who pumped and dumped her smug ass...but then I thought about it. She can't stand that she has tenuous power over men, and is willing to put them in second-class status to remedy it.

We need to definitely continue what Trump is doing and take the culture back, but after reading stuff like this, we need to go back even further - I don't think they can ever be trusted with the vote.
 

N°6

Hummingbird
So consent is required “to ghost”, yet no such consent is required in the no fault divorce era when (usually) the wife decides to cash in, destroy the lives of children and future grand children, renege on holy oaths and “move on”?
 

Belgrano

Ostrich
Gold Member
I quickly went through her Twitter.
Here's a summary of what I found:

  • Muh Holocaust
  • Why am I still single?
  • Muh Holocaust
  • All my friends are gettig married, why am I still single?
  • Muh Drumpf
  • I wrote a story where a guy, who's very much like my ex, gets gruesomely murdered by a woman, who's very much like me. Hehe.
  • Drumpf is literally Hitler
  • Don't say we can still be friends if you really don't want to be my friend
  • Why can't I find a publisher for my brilliant first novel?
  • Muh Holocaust
  • My dad bought me a 6 month membership on eHarmony
  • I'm not a cat lady, I have houseplants instead
  • Muh Feminism
  • I hate having to write scenes where a couple first meets and the flirting starts. I can't relate to that. I'm always looking forward to write all the juicy breakup drama.
  • Muh Holocaust
  • I forgot to hire a babysitter for my plants
  • When the guy who broke your heart writes about how important it is to care for other human beings. Jerk.
  • I took my plants with me while travelling
  • Muh Drumpf
  • I don't care about your wedding
  • I'm an amazing human being and a talented writer. Why am I still single?
  • Muh Drumpf
  • How are harassers so persistent yet the guy you went on four dates with is like ak shit sorry I keep forgetting you exist
  • Every guy I know just can't believe I don't have a boyfriend. They would, like, totally date me, if not for....
  • Muh Holocaust

Didn't make anything up, it's all there.
 

Aurini

Ostrich
There's a second rule she's not mentioning.

Rule No. 1 is that, if you blow her off after a ONS, that's rape.

Rule No. 2 is that if she blows you off after a ONS, but you still try and pursue her, that's also rape.
 
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