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<blockquote data-quote="FactusIRX" data-source="post: 1357417" data-attributes="member: 17987">I don&#039;t know. It depends on the household. If you have a good family, yes, absolutely, stay there until marriage. If you have a toxic, destructive family, then, unfortunately, it&#039;s not so simple. I do agree that living alone is unnatural.I had to move out of my home fairly early. My dad was a raging sociopathic alcoholic. My mother had severe anxiety and paranoia. For reasons I won&#039;t get into here, an extended family member also lived with us that had severe mental and physical problems (almost entirely self-caused by the way). My mom also owned two cats despite me being allergic. Due to this family life, I developed anxiety, depression, a binge drinking and drug habit that nearly killed me, and a whole host of bizarre sexual proclivities.Moving out allowed me to slowly realize that my life was incredibly abnormal and unhealthy, which forced me to change and maintain a baseline &quot;normal&quot; personality.However, I will say that living with wife has transformed me into a better, healthier, and happier person, and when she&#039;s gone and I&#039;m alone, I revert back to old, bad habits.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="FactusIRX, post: 1357417, member: 17987"] I don't know. It depends on the household. If you have a good family, yes, absolutely, stay there until marriage. If you have a toxic, destructive family, then, unfortunately, it's not so simple. I do agree that living alone [I]is[/I] unnatural. I had to move out of my home fairly early. My dad was a raging sociopathic alcoholic. My mother had severe anxiety and paranoia. For reasons I won't get into here, an extended family member also lived with us that had severe mental and physical problems (almost entirely self-caused by the way). My mom also owned two cats despite me being allergic. Due to this family life, I developed anxiety, depression, a binge drinking and drug habit that nearly killed me, and a whole host of bizarre sexual proclivities. Moving out allowed me to slowly realize that my life was incredibly abnormal and unhealthy, which forced me to change and maintain a baseline "normal" personality. However, I will say that living with wife has transformed me into a better, healthier, and happier person, and when she's gone and I'm alone, I revert back to old, bad habits. [/QUOTE]

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