4 Reasons Why Lifting In Gyms Is A Bad Idea

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Woodpecker
Protestant
Ideally I would have a home gym but I'm in a similar situation to you, and struggle to find a dedicated space at home.
I live in an apartment, and they have a gym here. It obviously has less machines than the other gym, but it's probably enough for normal workouts. But, like I said on the reply, I probably can't use it because my parents don't want to waste the 1 year subscription I have on the other gym.
 

Akaky Akakievitch

Kingfisher
Orthodox
I live in an apartment, and they have a gym here. It obviously has less machines than the other gym, but it's probably enough for normal workouts. But, like I said on the reply, I probably can't use it because my parents don't want to waste the 1 year subscription I have on the other gym.

In my case, I don't need the machines, I just need space for a workout. Everything else is a bonus. Once I'm more set up I might invest in equipment to do a bench-press and deadlift, but for now I already have some kettlebells i can use.

I'm going to contact some independent gyms in my area to see if they're any better. At least if they are male-oriented and more focused on strength training or competition, it has a chance of being more bearable. Although I have to be honest and admit that going to a gym is not really an ideal situation anyway, but if it's temporary then I might bear it for a short while.
 

rainy

Pelican
Other Christian
There’s negatives to the gym environment. But I’ll bring up a positive as someone who has spent a lot of time in gyms.

I have met many great men there. Received valuable life and business advice. Closest thing to mentors.

Reason being is the gym is one of the few places where you find men who put a priority on health, hard work, consistency and routine. They understand there aren’t shortcuts in life, just as with exercise you get out of it what you put into it.

And they’re generally more conservative in values than most other places.

If you’re a motivated and hard working individual you are likely to have more in common with someone who shows up to the gym no matter what and is committed to his routine than the guy who drinks a 6 pack and watches football after work because he’s tired and lazy.

And the men who have done it for decades will generally have the rest of their life in order.

Food for thought.
 

chestmilk

Pigeon
Protestant
If you're a commercial gym goer and want to avoid most of the downsides, early morning is the only way to go. Leave house in gym clothes and pack your work clothes in your gym bag. If you're there at 5AM, you might encounter 5 or 6 other people, none of which are sluts or fuccbois, who just went to bed three hours before.
 

JCSteel

Pigeon
Other Christian
I struggle with all the negative aspects of commercial gyms that Roosh listed. I need exercise to function mentally and spiritually, and going for walks and hikes isn't enough. I work out at a Planet Fitness that is full of undergrads and the temptations to stare and lust are great. What I really hate about Planet Fitness are all the TVs vying for your attention, many of them showing vulgar and violent television and movies. The distractions and the sensory overload is unbelievable. It's such an annoying aspect of modern western culture.
 

bucky

Hummingbird
Other Christian
I struggle with all the negative aspects of commercial gyms that Roosh listed. I need exercise to function mentally and spiritually, and going for walks and hikes isn't enough. I work out at a Planet Fitness that is full of undergrads and the temptations to stare and lust are great. What I really hate about Planet Fitness are all the TVs vying for your attention, many of them showing vulgar and violent television and movies. The distractions and the sensory overload is unbelievable. It's such an annoying aspect of modern western culture.
I've always disliked gyms for the reasons everyone's listed here and more. Fortunately I've managed to build up a modest workout room at home with some interlock exercise mats to cover the floor, some adjustable dumbbells that go up to 70 pounds each and some other weights, a door frame pull-up bar, and a sturdy stability ball I can use as a bench. Not possible for everyone, but I'd say shoot for that. You can do all you need with just a chair and bodyweight if you have to.
 

Roosh

Cardinal
Orthodox
I struggle with all the negative aspects of commercial gyms that Roosh listed. I need exercise to function mentally and spiritually, and going for walks and hikes isn't enough. I work out at a Planet Fitness that is full of undergrads and the temptations to stare and lust are great. What I really hate about Planet Fitness are all the TVs vying for your attention, many of them showing vulgar and violent television and movies. The distractions and the sensory overload is unbelievable. It's such an annoying aspect of modern western culture.
St. Paul does tell us to "flee fornication" instead of trying to withstand temptation directly.
Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body. -1 Corinthians 6:18
 

get2choppaaa

Crow
Orthodox
I struggle with all the negative aspects of commercial gyms that Roosh listed. I need exercise to function mentally and spiritually, and going for walks and hikes isn't enough. I work out at a Planet Fitness that is full of undergrads and the temptations to stare and lust are great. What I really hate about Planet Fitness are all the TVs vying for your attention, many of them showing vulgar and violent television and movies. The distractions and the sensory overload is unbelievable. It's such an annoying aspect of modern western culture.
Completely get the gym as mental health extension. It's second to Church of course, but maintaining a physical culture and activity is crucial in health and also mental health as well ....So my suggestion firstly would be to become financially capable of having your own home gym in your garage. Might take some time or life changes but it's really important that you make a commitment to doing this if you want to try and avoid the temptation.

If you save up $2000 you can get a professional power rack, bar, bench and plates and horse stall mats and can do anything you need to with a barbell routine. A sled willl allow you to do upper body and lower body movement and can be had for $100.
With 3-5 k you can pretty much fill a two car garage with quality equipment and avoid the temptation all together.

You don't have to dump $10k in it like I have over the last several years unless you're really really into it for sports purposes (I do powerlifting) and have expensive tastes.

But... If you're gonna keep going to a gym, find something more in the "hardcore" Gym style. These tend to have less Thots and are more barbell/dumbbell oriented and less bootymaster machine.

For myself, I can't work out at a public gym at all with out having a lustful thoughts. When I was single I used to meet girls in the gym, all of that, and it was really not healthy for me in viewing my fellow person as an Icon of Christ....this became clear when I started dating my now wife, we worked out 1x together at a public gym, and I realized i couldn't do it anymore. I mean I have a gorgeous woman right in front of me and still my eyes wandered. It's probably because I struggle with the lust issues already, but 1x was all I needed to make me realize that was not an option anymore.

Now if I'm traveling and it's the only option I'll opt for a gold's or LA fitness if I can't find something reccomended in my powerlifting groups... But in general, all the big box gyms are going to push filth in both their tv presentations and the people (namely women) there. In general it is getting worse and worse. Last time I had work travel and used a n LA I felt like I had just been to a strip club with the level of vulgar displays of female anatomy.

Roosh is absolutely right. It's best if you avoid the situation all together. I used to not think it was a big deal but even in 5 years I've noticed a worse and worse trend.

Frankly I also find that, because I have certain goals physically in mind, a public gym usually is a distraction. If I'm spending 1/4 of my time watching thots how productive am I being in my work out routine and accomplishing my goals?
 

MeaningfulMan

Kingfisher
Catholic
Went to the gym with the Mrs. yesterday. Really surprised at the attire of the women. They never wore much, but with the warm weather, many were wearing these yoga pant short type things that's skin tight and not even black, so you can see every curve. Then as a top literally just a bra. My wife had to comment on it. This was much more rare at the more male oriented gym I used to go to. This is an LA Fitness. I think we might have to cancel the gym membership which is a shame. I'm imagining the conversation with the gym manager "Why are you leaving us?" "The women here are naked." ":hmm:... [no programmed response found in database] Okay sorry to see you go!"
Same situation at my gym.
 

SeekingTruth

Kingfisher
Catholic
I struggle with all the negative aspects of commercial gyms that Roosh listed. I need exercise to function mentally and spiritually, and going for walks and hikes isn't enough. I work out at a Planet Fitness that is full of undergrads and the temptations to stare and lust are great. What I really hate about Planet Fitness are all the TVs vying for your attention, many of them showing vulgar and violent television and movies. The distractions and the sensory overload is unbelievable. It's such an annoying aspect of modern western culture.

This exactly. I often wonder if being locked into my AirPods is any better as I snub the TVs.
 

Mr Freedom

Woodpecker
Orthodox Inquirer
Went to a commercial gym for the first time in a year (over in the UK)

My home bench broke so I had no where else to workout bench & lats.

Most annoying thing has to be the amount of timewasters with phones (even guys) and teenagers who occupy the place with poor form, generall shithousery & leaving weights lying on the ground.

Thots I can easily ignore so its not a problem. However I found out that Thots delibratley try to walk into you if they see you are concentrated on your own mission. Feel sorry for them in all honesty. Only When they hit their 30s they will finally understand but by then it will be far too late..
 

andy dufresne

Pelican
Other Christian
Thots I can easily ignore so its not a problem. However I found out that Thots delibratley try to walk into you if they see you are concentrated on your own mission. Feel sorry for them in all honesty. Only When they hit their 30s they will finally understand but by then it will be far too late..

The old gym double standard! Two or three times this past month I have been working out in my corner of the gym and a woman has come and worked out exceedingly close to me. If I had done the same I would be labeled a creep but they get a pass. Of course it's very satisfying to play 'ignore the THOT' and not give them the attention they crave.
 
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