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<blockquote data-quote="Coja Petrus Uscan" data-source="post: 1500692" data-attributes="member: 12967"><p>To complain is to communicate you are better than the subject of the complaint. It is delivered with a tone that denotes the lower position of the other. If they object in the same manner, it becomes an argument - two people who think they are better than the other.</p><p></p><p>I believe there are two primary drives here:</p><p></p><p>1) to establish oneself over someone else, this act provides a temporary relief from ones material torment. I find this is extremely common. Just having one person below you in material-social terms is used to avoid seeing oneself and ones material position. They can at least say they are better than they who accept being below them. For materialists there is nothing else in the world. No other way to view social dynamics.</p><p></p><p>2) people are addicted to these negative states, as they are also addicted to drugs, sex out of wedlock and self harm. One who does not want to be in such a state, is not. I know of a rabid atheist. Christianity is his target. Something that has no bearing on his secular life, with such highlights as stealing his best friend's girlfriend when the friend was ill. If Christianity was vanquished would he be sated? Would he suddenly feel a great burden removed? No, after a brief euphoria he would require a new target for him to continue this negative state. A state in which he can see himself as superior; a source of wisdom, morality. It is much the same as 1), but can be done from the comfort of ones own mind - merely telling yourself how stupid others are, to avoid looking at yourself.</p><p></p><p>1) ropes others into this perversion. Others are bent, like sacrifice, to maintain the illusion of the annoyed.</p><p></p><p>All you have to do is disagree with them and they will turn on you.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Coja Petrus Uscan, post: 1500692, member: 12967"] To complain is to communicate you are better than the subject of the complaint. It is delivered with a tone that denotes the lower position of the other. If they object in the same manner, it becomes an argument - two people who think they are better than the other. I believe there are two primary drives here: 1) to establish oneself over someone else, this act provides a temporary relief from ones material torment. I find this is extremely common. Just having one person below you in material-social terms is used to avoid seeing oneself and ones material position. They can at least say they are better than they who accept being below them. For materialists there is nothing else in the world. No other way to view social dynamics. 2) people are addicted to these negative states, as they are also addicted to drugs, sex out of wedlock and self harm. One who does not want to be in such a state, is not. I know of a rabid atheist. Christianity is his target. Something that has no bearing on his secular life, with such highlights as stealing his best friend's girlfriend when the friend was ill. If Christianity was vanquished would he be sated? Would he suddenly feel a great burden removed? No, after a brief euphoria he would require a new target for him to continue this negative state. A state in which he can see himself as superior; a source of wisdom, morality. It is much the same as 1), but can be done from the comfort of ones own mind - merely telling yourself how stupid others are, to avoid looking at yourself. 1) ropes others into this perversion. Others are bent, like sacrifice, to maintain the illusion of the annoyed. All you have to do is disagree with them and they will turn on you. [/QUOTE]
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