5 Reasons Why You Should Never Experiment With Casual Sex

Roosh

Cardinal
Orthodox
Originally posted on RooshV.com

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Some people state that it has been easy for me to turn away from sex because I had my fill or got bored with it, not understanding the nature of addiction and that there is no bottom to sexual desire. You can spend your whole lifetime pursuing new forms of sexual gratification and never feel satisfied. The real reason I was able to stop fornicating was because I repented before God, and was given strength by Him to break the cycle of sin, not because—as if often claimed—I ran out of sex partners or because my testosterone was depleted. Pre-marital sex is simply not compatible with a life in Christ, and so I made my choice. To add to that fact, I offer five practical reasons why you should preserve your purity until marriage.

1. Once you start, you may never be able to stop​


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You open a bag of potato chips and think you can have just a couple, or you open a pint of ice cream and say you’ll only have a few spoons, but next thing you know, half of the bag is empty, the entire pint is gone. Sex is more pleasurable than bagged snacks and ice cream. The physical ecstasy, dopamine rush, and personal validation from even loveless, drunken sex is such that you can get attached to it immediately, as I did.

Many men argue with me that they want just a little bit of experience with sex to make them “confident” or “experienced,” but these lame excuses were put into their minds by the evil one. The only confidence and experience it gives you is with fornication and other sins, not love or marriage. And since you were weak enough to listen to Satan to fall for such a trifling excuse, to dance in intimate embrace with him without thinking that you would get burned, it will be effortless for him to convince you to sleep around with even more easy women for “valuable experience” while “waiting for the one,” which will never come because your mind has been turned into mush from being in a state of continual lust and sexual passion. For every one man who returns to chastity, a dozen more are still cruising dating apps, haggling with “Sugar Babies” over a soy-laden meal in Applebee’s, or planning trips to Southeast Asia or South America to sleep with prostitutes. Once you start lusting after women, your fallen flesh is on auto-pilot to seek it more and more.

2. It taints you for a pure mate​


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If you destroy your sexual purity and later repent, that’s enough for God, but will it be enough for a virgin partner to accept you as a spouse? Look at me as an example. What percentage of female Orthodox virgins with a proper upbringing would select me as a husband? Would their fathers allow me to marry their daughters? If I had a pure daughter, and she brings home a middle-aged man who went on a decades-long sex bender around the world, I would chain her up in the basement until she changed her mind, because while that man is a Christian now, I do not want to be anxious that he will simply go back to his old ways and harm my lovely daughter.

Staying away from sex keeps you in the running for women who are doing the same, because I tell you that faithful young women have their pick of Christian men to choose from. If you’ve fallen hard in the world then you should be paired with someone who also fell hard. The excuse “There are no good women” should not be uttered by depraved masturbators and fornicators like myself who were anything but good for most of their adult lives.

3. It permanently damages you​


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God may heal your soul from sexual sin but your body and mind remain damaged for the remainder of your life. Your memory remains tainted and you have flashbacks of your sin at the moments you least desire. Your emotions become disordered due to uniting in one flesh with a multitude of harlots who played games with your heart for their amusement. Your mind becomes more perverted and attached to carnal and profane ways of behavior. You develop relationship habits that are suitable for secular pairings but damaging for a Christian marriage. Your discernment disappears as you find it difficult to evaluate potential partners without objectifying them sexually or focusing on skin-deep traits.

Another severe form of damage is wasted time. All those years I spent perfecting my “game” could have been spent building my faith and becoming part of a parish where I could’ve found a wife and already had children. Where is my game now to help me when it’s the last thing I need to find and land a wife? What use is my “cold approach” skills to chat up random girls, of which I no longer do? And if you disagree with those statements, thinking that game is needed, then your faith is not where it should be to believe that you need a modality designed solely to satisfy your passions to help you within the Christian institution of marriage. You need to be a man, and know what that means, but you don’t need game.

4. It haunts you later​


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You will continually feel a multitude of negative emotions stemming from your sexual experiences: shame, foolishness, mourning, guilt. Through your behavior, Satan paved an asphalt highway to your heart that he will use to tempt you in the future at will, in a way he simply couldn’t if you had remained pure. He will fill your mind daily—and sometimes hourly—with sexual ideas you experienced firsthand and give you the filthiest of dreams that won’t be unfamiliar to you. The amount of sexual sewage that Satan sends in my dreams is reason alone to wish I never took on the “sexually liberated” path. Do you think all these downsides will have a positive effect on a future relationship? I have to work much harder than men who struggled to maintain their purity just to keep foul images and temptation at bay.

5. It distances you from God​


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This should be reason alone to avoid pre-marital sex but we are weaker than Christians of the past and may need worldly encouragement. If you have sex outside of marriage, a mortal sin, and fail to repent, God turns away from you. He can not stand to see His creatures participating in behaviors He did not intend. You are no longer working with God when committing such behaviors so He will not work with you. He still loves you, and will forgive your sins if you seek Him out and confess, but you need to claw your way back to His grace through a tearful process of repentance which will still leave you with permanent damage.

Conclusion

It’s extremely difficult to turn away from sex after a period of even short involvement, because the demons you empowered through your behavior do not want to let you go, thinking that they were so close to dragging you to hell. I am now able to control the sexual urges that I have fed for so long with God’s help, but I know I’m only a couple of prideful steps away from falling backward into the same behavior, or even worse behavior, and thus must spend an inordinate amount of energy and prayer at keeping my passions at bay. In other words, I must be admitted as a lifelong patient in the spiritual hospital, whereas other men who remained a virgin can live as an outpatient, visiting the doctor and speaking to him less frequently. It would have been far better if I did not start this behavior at all. There is no amount of casual sex that is healthy, moderate, or safe. Stay away from it completely, and may you be blessed by God with a suitable spouse if that is His will for you.

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Lawrence87

Woodpecker
Orthodox
Despite what the sexually liberated feminists would say, it actually demeans women to promote sexual liberation. Getting men hooked on casual sex just demotes the relation of men and women to that of drug dealer and user. Feminists will complain about being objectified, but they don't link this to their desire to be sexually liberated. Getting men hooked on sex at an early age might give women a certain degree of power over weak men, but it just makes men view women as a source of their hit, and literally contributes to their own objectification. To a man hooked on sex a woman is either too unattractive to bother with, or a potential source of their drug, and neither of those is a particularly nice place to be as a human being. They complain about men only wanting one thing, they complain about men being manipulative, they complain about being unable to form friendships with men because it always turns out that they are just hoping for sex, they complain when men have sex with them and then don't want to know them afterwards... But this is because a generation of men have become addicted to sex and women are the drug dealers. The only way to increase value as a woman is to stop this, adopt modesty and chastity, and seek only men who have the same values. You're not going to be respected by desperate addicts seeking a hit.

It's such a shame that people don't see this, that women who have all the depth and complexity that being created in the image and likeness of God entails, are reduced to living as a piece of meat, and they are vocal about the fact that they don't like this, but cannot see that their unchaste, sexually liberated lifestyle is the cause.
 

Wammer44

Pigeon
Timely article for me, unfortunately.
Despite being a big follower of Roosh via Babylon Road, American Pilgram, and articles / streams, and cleaning up my life personally; I still recently lost myself via the sin of premarital sex.

I have since repented of this sin though private confession with my Priest. However, rooshv article is spot-on in that the negative affects linger & last after repentance.

Why did this happen? Imo, probably a lack of Faith. Since confession, I have doubled my prayers, sought guidance from my Priest, & removed the negative influences from my life.

I wish I could have just listened to Roosh’s advice on this before, but I seem to always have to try things on my own . It seems that I need to learn how to date from a Christian perspective. I need to be a MAN and set boundaries from the start, that I will not entertain sex before marriage. If the woman I date are opposed to that, they aren’t the right one anyways. Please include me in your prayers Kings / Queens
 

triplechoc

Pigeon
Woman
Orthodox
Despite what the sexually liberated feminists would say, it actually demeans women to promote sexual liberation. Getting men hooked on casual sex just demotes the relation of men and women to that of drug dealer and user. Feminists will complain about being objectified, but they don't link this to their desire to be sexually liberated. Getting men hooked on sex at an early age might give women a certain degree of power over weak men, but it just makes men view women as a source of their hit, and literally contributes to their own objectification. To a man hooked on sex a woman is either too unattractive to bother with, or a potential source of their drug, and neither of those is a particularly nice place to be as a human being. They complain about men only wanting one thing, they complain about men being manipulative, they complain about being unable to form friendships with men because it always turns out that they are just hoping for sex, they complain when men have sex with them and then don't want to know them afterwards... But this is because a generation of men have become addicted to sex and women are the drug dealers. The only way to increase value as a woman is to stop this, adopt modesty and chastity, and seek only men who have the same values. You're not going to be respected by desperate addicts seeking a hit.

It's such a shame that people don't see this, that women who have all the depth and complexity that being created in the image and likeness of God entails, are reduced to living as a piece of meat, and they are vocal about the fact that they don't like this, but cannot see that their unchaste, sexually liberated lifestyle is the cause.
If only you would tackle male culture as much as you tackle feminism... We would be living in a completely different world! Roosh has apparently changed, but his audience not so much. As much as I hate feminism, it isn't exactly it's fault that secular men are whores. This has been the case since before feminism or even the 70s sexual revolution. The first Playboy edition was lauched in the early 50s, a time where double standards were still very strong, most women were still highly expected to be virgins while promiscuity among men was not only accepted but even encouraged. Promiscuous men are not whores or whoremongers anymore but "womanizers", "chads", etc. It is ridiculous to blame women for secular men being whores. Porn was created by and for men. Men make up 70% of porn consumers. Depravity and promiscuity are rampant, encouraged and deeply rooted in male culture much more than they are in female culture. Promiscuity among women is only recently starting to become accepted. I've come across statistics that show that men apparently also cheat on at higher rates than women. The double standards when it comes to promiscuity is not only pathetic but also useless. You're never gonna have a christian society or traditional women as long as promiscuity among men is accepted, because it is an inevitable outcome that a time will come where rates of promiscuity are also gonna increase among women in such society
 
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SingularityOne

Robin
Orthodox
Great article. Just wondering though, are there any aspects of “game” that are “truths” that are expressed in one who is faithful? I wonder about qualities such as confidence, etc. since we as men still need to approach women we are desiring to get to know. Thoughts?
 

Viktor Zeegelaar

Ostrich
Orthodox Inquirer
During my ''PUA days'' the most striking characteristic of me was dissatisfaction. It didn't matter what I'd ''achieve'' in the material world, it was never enough and I was in a sort of daze, gasping like a dog for more, more, more What I found was that the deeper I got into the PUA stuff, the more I started to look at other fields of my life that previously I had been satisfied with (for me it was only about the women initially), but now I had to ''improve'' that too leading to the hamster wheel of status building, money, travel and so on. Experience, also a big one. What was the end result? I was dissatisfied with basically my entire life whereas I wasn't when I started. It brought me miles and miles backwards, instead of forward. Thankfully around that time the corona stuff started and I was forced to look other ways, leading to the next step in the quest to truth, now I realize it was just a phase inbetween, but a necessary one to experience, see the destruction of yet gain tremendous insight in the dynamics of the secular world, which could prepare me to understand what we're talking about today.
 

Lawrence87

Woodpecker
Orthodox
If only you would tackle male culture as much as you tackle feminism... We would be living in a completely different world! Roosh has apparently changed, but his audience not so much. As much as I hate feminism, it isn't exactly it's fault that secular men are whores. This has been the case since before feminism or even the 70s sexual revolution. The first Playboy edition was lauched in the early 50s, a time where double standards were still very strong, most women were still highly expected to be virgins while promiscuity among men was not only accepted but even encouraged. Promiscuous men are not whores or whoremongers anymore but "womanizers", "chads", etc. It is ridiculous to blame women for secular men being whores. Porn was created by and for men. Men make up 70% of porn consumers. Depravity and promiscuity is rampant, encouraged and deeply rooted in male culture much more than it is in female culture. Promiscuity among women is only recently starting to become accepted. I've come across statistics that show that men apparently also cheat on at higher rates than women. The double standards when it comes to promiscuity is not only pathetic but also useless. You're never gonna have a christian society or traditional women as long as promiscuity among men is accepted, because it is an inevitable outcome that a time will come where rates of promiscuity are also gonna increase among women in such society
I'm perfectly aware that it's on men's shoulders to take responsibility and change things, and my post was not intended to deny this. I was merely pointing out that feminists want to have their cake and eat it too. You cannot have sexual liberation and expect that men don't turn you into sexual objects. The one follows from the other.

Yes its down to men to stop watching porn and pursuing meaningless sex. I am not saying that women ought to take care of that for us. However it still stands that feminists cannot have sexual liberation without being objectified, that doesn't amount to blaming them or putting it on them to fix the situation. Its just pointing out how blinded feminists are to the harm they are doing to themselves with their views. I don't see where you read all that stuff into my post.
 

triplechoc

Pigeon
Woman
Orthodox
I'm perfectly aware that it's on men's shoulders to take responsibility and change things, and my post was not intended to deny this. I was merely pointing out that feminists want to have their cake and eat it too. You cannot have sexual liberation and expect that men don't turn you into sexual objects. The one follows from the other.

Yes its down to men to stop watching porn and pursuing meaningless sex. I am not saying that women ought to take care of that for us. However it still stands that feminists cannot have sexual liberation without being objectified, that doesn't amount to blaming them or putting it on them to fix the situation. Its just pointing out how blinded feminists are to the harm they are doing to themselves with their views. I don't see where you read all that stuff into my post.
I agree with you 100%. I think we all need to change things and ourselves. I'm sorry for misinterpreting your post. It is that for the most part I come across people who critize feminism and female promiscuity but say nothing about male culture and male promiscuity that I wrongly thought you were one of them. God bless you
 

Roosh

Cardinal
Orthodox
If only you would tackle male culture as much as you tackle feminism... We would be living in a completely different world! Roosh has apparently changed, but his audience not so much. As much as I hate feminism, it isn't exactly it's fault that secular men are whores. This has been the case since before feminism or even the 70s sexual revolution. The first Playboy edition was lauched in the early 50s, a time where double standards were still very strong, most women were still highly expected to be virgins while promiscuity among men was not only accepted but even encouraged. Promiscuous men are not whores or whoremongers anymore but "womanizers", "chads", etc. It is ridiculous to blame women for secular men being whores. Porn was created by and for men. Men make up 70% of porn consumers. Depravity and promiscuity are rampant, encouraged and deeply rooted in male culture much more than they are in female culture. Promiscuity among women is only recently starting to become accepted. I've come across statistics that show that men apparently also cheat on at higher rates than women. The double standards when it comes to promiscuity is not only pathetic but also useless. You're never gonna have a christian society or traditional women as long as promiscuity among men is accepted, because it is an inevitable outcome that a time will come where rates of promiscuity are also gonna increase among women in such society
It seems like you're attacking general "PUA" ideas that are not longer part of this forum's culture. I don't give men a pass or make them more angelic than women. Both sin before God, often in the same ways.

Your post does suggest pain. If you were damaged by participating in secular relationships with cads, the Orthodox Church can offer healing through the sacraments. (Edit: I see your tag says Orthodox.)
 

Lawrence87

Woodpecker
Orthodox
I agree with you 100%. I think we all need to change things and ourselves. I'm sorry for misinterpreting your post. It is that for the most part I come across people who critize feminism and female promiscuity but say nothing about male culture and male promiscuity that I wrongly thought you were one of them. God bless you
It's fine, I probably should have made more of a point that I think men do hold a lot of the responsibility to change the landscape so far as sexual relations are involved.

However. If I am an alcoholic for instance, and you, for whatever reason decide that your way to connect with me is to offer me a limitless supply of booze, then you can hardly complain that I merely treat you as the source of my addiction and disrespect you as a person. The addiction is my responsibility to fix and has nothing to do with you, but if you want to stop being mistreated by an alcoholic then it's in your best interests to stop giving me booze. A weird analogy, but you get my point.
 
"All those years I spent perfecting my “game” could have been spent building my faith and becoming part of a parish where I could’ve found a wife and already had children. Where is my game now to help me when it’s the last thing I need to find and land a wife? What use is my “cold approach” skills to chat up random girls, of which I no longer do?"

We have to take responsibility for our behaviour, however, it's only fair to point out that our generations (Gen X, Gen Y, Millennials etc) never had a chance. We were born into this rotten culture. I'm Gen X and I'll take ownership of my behaviour, but the rot started long before I came on the scene. The Catholic Church saw all this coming down the tracks, which is why Pope Paul VI wrote the encyclical letter 'Humane Vitae' back in 1968.
 

triplechoc

Pigeon
Woman
Orthodox
It's fine, I probably should have made more of a point that I think men do hold a lot of the responsibility to change the landscape so far as sexual relations are involved.

However. If I am an alcoholic for instance, and you, for whatever reason decide that your way to connect with me is to offer me a limitless supply of booze, then you can hardly complain that I merely treat you as the source of my addiction and disrespect you as a person. The addiction is my responsibility to fix and has nothing to do with you, but if you want to stop being mistreated by an alcoholic then it's in your best interests to stop giving me booze. A weird analogy, but you get my point.
Yes. I agree with you it is very stupid for one to complain about sexual objectification while sexually objectificating oneself. Or complain about promiscuity while participating in hook up culture. I would like to give an insight on some of the reasons women are caught up in this trap and my own testimony, but that would require time and better articulation and english skills
 

IXPater

Chicken
Great article. Just wondering though, are there any aspects of “game” that are “truths” that are expressed in one who is faithful? I wonder about qualities such as confidence, etc. since we as men still need to approach women we are desiring to get to know. Thoughts?
Game fakes certain genuinely appealing characteristics in order to short circuit the mate seeking "algorithms" in many women's heads. Promiscuous women are more happily faked out because they too are looking for a sexual fix, though only with a good enough man to give them the validation fix they are desiring as well.

Proverbs 7:10-15
10 And there a woman met him,
With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.
11 She was loud and rebellious,
Her feet would not stay at home.
12 At times she was outside, at times in the open square,
Lurking at every corner.
13 So she caught him and kissed him;
With an [c]impudent face she said to him:
14 “I have peace offerings with me;
Today I have paid my vows.
15 So I came out to meet you,
Diligently to seek your face,
And I have found you.

The Bible clearly depicts this harlot as seeking out some man, any man almost, but when she meets the foolish man, she acts as if it was just exactly him that she had been looking for.

Anyway, women looking for men to marry will not be so easily fooled by Game, but they are looking for many of the same attributes that Game fakes.

They want a confident man who can manage difficult situations (S*** Tests from Harlots, Genuine Tests from Virtuous Women).
They want an entertaining man who is interesting and is also interested in their lives.
They want a man who doesn't put them on a pedestal, but instead, that they can imagine FOLLOWING for the rest of their life.
Since they want to FOLLOW a man, he better be able to take the initiative and lead in all sorts of situations.

Make eye contact and start a conversation in an interesting way. But, make your goal finding out about her and her life and not finding a way into her pants.

Smirks still work on all women it seems. Practice one just to have it in your back pocket. You don't have to use it to hit on a girl, you might just use it as a conversation piece or to make yourself more interesting with random everyday women. (Note: Smirks are not as useful with men and could get you punched if employed incorrectly).

Now, all of the physical aspects of Game are still empirically true, and so, if you want a solid foundation for your relationship that will last, you'll avoid as much of the physical tricks and traps as you possibly can. Don't make excuses to touch them, don't "escalate," don't do things that married couples do before you're married to her (kissing, etc.). None of that! You'll just short circuit both your brains, and believe me, you need all of both your brains working at full capacity to prayerfully figure out if you're compatible and will form a Godly union.

Demonstrate this not just by your actions, but also by your words and questions that you ask.

Interactions with Christian women can be much more open and honest. You don't have anything to hide in the sense of ulterior motives. Though, unwind your own story slowly and interestingly to give yourself the best chance to be appealing to them. I mean come on, Jesus was a master storyteller. He also had a bunch of chicks that followed Him around and took care of His needs (Godly, Holy needs obviously).
 

messaggera

Kingfisher
Woman
Despite what the sexually liberated feminists would say, it actually demeans women to promote sexual liberation. Getting men hooked on casual sex just demotes the relation of men and women to that of drug dealer and user. Feminists will complain about being objectified, but they don't link this to their desire to be sexually liberated.

Agree. Men and women are not created equal, and secular women promoting sexual liberation are not only placing themselves as the temptation for sin, but as you pointed out in your post are indirectly presenting all women to be the weaker sex. Sexual liberation is just a means to being a slave to sin (lust, pride, vanity).

Satan will use women for his snares; as evident in the Bible - he went through Eve.
Eve should have consulted with her husband instead of being easily manipulated.
Why did Satan go through Eve and not Adam? Was she weaker and easier to manipulate?

It is that for the most part I come across people who critize feminism and female promiscuity but say nothing about male culture and male promiscuity that I wrongly thought you were one of them.

As a society we should criticise female promiscuity. How many times has female promiscuity resulted in abortions?

Personally, more effort placed on shaming female promiscuity produces better results and possibly less abortions.
And for secular men? Men if a woman is willing to murder your child in the womb is it worth sleeping with her for sexual gratification alone?

Women could hold men accountable by not behaving like a [term used for a promiscuous female], but it seems vanity, and pride are characteristics valued more than chastity and modesty.
 

paternos

Pigeon
Great psot
Game fakes certain genuinely appealing characteristics in order to short circuit the mate seeking "algorithms" in many women's heads. Promiscuous women are more happily faked out because they too are looking for a sexual fix, though only with a good enough man to give them the validation fix they are desiring as well.

Proverbs 7:10-15
10 And there a woman met him,
With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.
11 She was loud and rebellious,
Her feet would not stay at home.
12 At times she was outside, at times in the open square,
Lurking at every corner.
13 So she caught him and kissed him;
With an [c]impudent face she said to him:
14 “I have peace offerings with me;
Today I have paid my vows.
15 So I came out to meet you,
Diligently to seek your face,
And I have found you.

The Bible clearly depicts this harlot as seeking out some man, any man almost, but when she meets the foolish man, she acts as if it was just exactly him that she had been looking for.

Anyway, women looking for men to marry will not be so easily fooled by Game, but they are looking for many of the same attributes that Game fakes.

They want a confident man who can manage difficult situations (S*** Tests from Harlots, Genuine Tests from Virtuous Women).
They want an entertaining man who is interesting and is also interested in their lives.
They want a man who doesn't put them on a pedestal, but instead, that they can imagine FOLLOWING for the rest of their life.
Since they want to FOLLOW a man, he better be able to take the initiative and lead in all sorts of situations.

Make eye contact and start a conversation in an interesting way. But, make your goal finding out about her and her life and not finding a way into her pants.

Smirks still work on all women it seems. Practice one just to have it in your back pocket. You don't have to use it to hit on a girl, you might just use it as a conversation piece or to make yourself more interesting with random everyday women. (Note: Smirks are not as useful with men and could get you punched if employed incorrectly).

Now, all of the physical aspects of Game are still empirically true, and so, if you want a solid foundation for your relationship that will last, you'll avoid as much of the physical tricks and traps as you possibly can. Don't make excuses to touch them, don't "escalate," don't do things that married couples do before you're married to her (kissing, etc.). None of that! You'll just short circuit both your brains, and believe me, you need all of both your brains working at full capacity to prayerfully figure out if you're compatible and will form a Godly union.

Demonstrate this not just by your actions, but also by your words and questions that you ask.

Interactions with Christian women can be much more open and honest. You don't have anything to hide in the sense of ulterior motives. Though, unwind your own story slowly and interestingly to give yourself the best chance to be appealing to them. I mean come on, Jesus was a master storyteller. He also had a bunch of chicks that followed Him around and took care of His needs (Godly, Holy needs obviously).
Great post.

I loved playing the game back in the days.

Personally I was looking for acceptance, sex was the ultimate proof I was worth something, and worth more than the other guys around.

I felt like a master, but ended up being a slave to the sexual appreciation of women. And here it went wrong for me.

In modern day psychology it is called sexual addiction, but today I see it as choosing the devil as my god.

I was following the devil, the feeling of the girl was so good, that I couldn't imagine it was something wrong, the only thing that betrayed it was the hangover afterwards, the feelings of doubt, do I really want this? What do I want in life? Is this all there is? Guilt to the girls? Hubris. And then I didn't know where to go and I just repeated my game over and over again.

I don't really feel guilty today, but I feel sad about it, a man completely on the wrong path and having no clue where to go.

God, Jesus, the Bible are for me today the light in my life, people told me before and I knew they were right.

I just felt, I need to enjoy the women just a little bit more. Today I see I wasted my time and plainly followed the devil.

I'm just a sinner looking for light today. Can't change the past, today the 1st day of the rest of your life.
 

paternos

Pigeon
As a society we should criticise female promiscuity.
Personally, more effort placed on shaming female promiscuity produces better results and possibly less abortions.

I think you shouldn't blame women and society for your own weakness.

What you are doing in your post is just showing your resentment to women and society. You have no power over them. And you will still be the same man.

Focus on yourself and pray to god. And the chances are there will be a beautiful lady will coming to your realm when you are ready for it.
 
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