All of this makes sense.Game fakes certain genuinely appealing characteristics in order to short circuit the mate seeking "algorithms" in many women's heads. Promiscuous women are more happily faked out because they too are looking for a sexual fix, though only with a good enough man to give them the validation fix they are desiring as well.
10 And there a woman met him,
With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.
11 She was loud and rebellious,
Her feet would not stay at home.
12 At times she was outside, at times in the open square,
Lurking at every corner.
13 So she caught him and kissed him;
With an [c]impudent face she said to him:
14 “I have peace offerings with me;
Today I have paid my vows.
15 So I came out to meet you,
Diligently to seek your face,
And I have found you.
The Bible clearly depicts this harlot as seeking out some man, any man almost, but when she meets the foolish man, she acts as if it was just exactly him that she had been looking for.
Anyway, women looking for men to marry will not be so easily fooled by Game, but they are looking for many of the same attributes that Game fakes.
They want a confident man who can manage difficult situations (S*** Tests from Harlots, Genuine Tests from Virtuous Women).
They want an entertaining man who is interesting and is also interested in their lives.
They want a man who doesn't put them on a pedestal, but instead, that they can imagine FOLLOWING for the rest of their life.
Since they want to FOLLOW a man, he better be able to take the initiative and lead in all sorts of situations.
Make eye contact and start a conversation in an interesting way. But, make your goal finding out about her and her life and not finding a way into her pants.
Smirks still work on all women it seems. Practice one just to have it in your back pocket. You don't have to use it to hit on a girl, you might just use it as a conversation piece or to make yourself more interesting with random everyday women. (Note: Smirks are not as useful with men and could get you punched if employed incorrectly).
Now, all of the physical aspects of Game are still empirically true, and so, if you want a solid foundation for your relationship that will last, you'll avoid as much of the physical tricks and traps as you possibly can. Don't make excuses to touch them, don't "escalate," don't do things that married couples do before you're married to her (kissing, etc.). None of that! You'll just short circuit both your brains, and believe me, you need all of both your brains working at full capacity to prayerfully figure out if you're compatible and will form a Godly union.
Demonstrate this not just by your actions, but also by your words and questions that you ask.
Interactions with Christian women can be much more open and honest. You don't have anything to hide in the sense of ulterior motives. Though, unwind your own story slowly and interestingly to give yourself the best chance to be appealing to them. I mean come on, Jesus was a master storyteller. He also had a bunch of chicks that followed Him around and took care of His needs (Godly, Holy needs obviously).
How do s*** tests and genuine tests differ?
What do you mean that you can be more open and honest?