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<blockquote data-quote="dasDude" data-source="post: 1549319" data-attributes="member: 16982">Keeping virginity as a man is not the same as being virgin as a woman. Assuming both have some value (a decent look, a masculine man and a feminine woman), they won&#039;t face the same challenge. For the man, providing he&#039;s geniune, has faith and with minor adjustment (remove all distractions like social media, avoid checking out women, spiritual life..) it&#039;s easy to stay virgin since he is the initiator of the seduction process. Conversely, the virtuous woman face a bigger challenge, since she receives propositions from multiple men, there&#039;s a social pressure for her, unless she&#039;s living in a strong christian (or muslim) environment where families protect the kids since childhood from secular values. Though this pressure is true and exists, a young and feminine woman who keeps her virginity still has a high value. This is the paradox. She has a tremendous choice among men of value. It&#039;s a burden that is rewarded.The man, on the other hand, cannot rely on his virtue alone. Adding to the burden of virginity, he must carry the performance one. He must proof himself as a good and masculine provider, specially if he wants to marry a virtuous woman (since she&#039;s rare and has value). Unfortunately, being virgin as man is not rewarded per se.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="dasDude, post: 1549319, member: 16982"] Keeping virginity as a man is not the same as being virgin as a woman. Assuming both have some value (a decent look, a masculine man and a feminine woman), they won't face the same challenge. For the man, providing he's geniune, has faith and with minor adjustment (remove all distractions like social media, avoid checking out women, spiritual life..) it's easy to stay virgin since he is the initiator of the seduction process. Conversely, the virtuous woman face a bigger challenge, since she receives propositions from multiple men, there's a social pressure for her, unless she's living in a strong christian (or muslim) environment where families protect the kids since childhood from secular values. Though this pressure is true and exists, a young and feminine woman who keeps her virginity still has a high value. This is the paradox. She has a tremendous choice among men of value. It's a burden that is rewarded. The man, on the other hand, cannot rely on his virtue alone. Adding to the burden of virginity, he must carry the performance one. He must proof himself as a good and masculine provider, specially if he wants to marry a virtuous woman (since she's rare and has value). Unfortunately, being virgin as man is not rewarded per se. [/QUOTE]

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