The fact that your mother is even involved here brings up a red flag to me. Also, a question, is she someone you think would be a healthy person to marry? Another question, what does her insecurity bring up within you?I suppose she left me when she left the hotel and got her own. I did stonewall her when she acted up and demanded her own room, which she argued was me "forcing her to leave."
When I told her "to ask for money whoever she is sleeping with and leave me alone" she acted as if I tried to "hurt her."
She obviously has her own point of view, I think Roosh's article about complaining is very relevant here. Don't think it would have mattered if I got her everything she asked for, as her complaining comes from internal insecurity. She obviously turned out unready for marriage or even a serious relationship. Her comment about wanting "to have fun" for a few years are the best indicator of this, she even told this to my Mother, saying that I am too serious.