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<blockquote data-quote="zatara" data-source="post: 811003" data-attributes="member: 5046">You absolutely can weigh your 40s (or 50s, or 60s) against your 20s when talking about career priorities. Being realistic about things, for most men, whatever lifestyle choices they make involve making sacrifices. If you fuck around in your 20s partying/traveling you'll be unlikely to be retiring at 40. And vice versa, if you're working your balls off to retire at 40 its unlikely you'll be spending your 20s partying/traveling the world. The dream is of course finding something in the middle. A job thats fun, gives you enough time off to travel extensively, pays well, and develops your career. But that's a rare beast. Most men absolutely will want to &quot;socialise and fuck foreign girls when you're in your 40ies&quot;. But its a hell of a lot harder to do that in your 40s than in your 20s, regardless of financial success. Ignoring the possibilities of life getting in the way as mentioned above; socially, all of your friends will likely be married with kids by this stage, so off the scene. Girl-wise, is it possible to game 21 year old girls as a successful 45 year old? Absolutely. But its orders of magnitudes harder than doing so as a fit 25 year old. In the vast majority of party/travel environments I would not be betting on the older man in that 1v1.Plus, 90% of people traveling the world/partying are aged 18-30. I just don't believe being surrounded by people 20 years younger than you would be half as much fun on any level, when compared to partying/traveling with your peer group. Aside from getting laid, its just much easier to make friends, have drunken conversations with randomers etc.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="zatara, post: 811003, member: 5046"] You absolutely can weigh your 40s (or 50s, or 60s) against your 20s when talking about career priorities. Being realistic about things, for most men, whatever lifestyle choices they make involve making sacrifices. If you fuck around in your 20s partying/traveling you'll be unlikely to be retiring at 40. And vice versa, if you're working your balls off to retire at 40 its unlikely you'll be spending your 20s partying/traveling the world. The dream is of course finding something in the middle. A job thats fun, gives you enough time off to travel extensively, pays well, and develops your career. But that's a rare beast. Most men absolutely will want to "socialise and fuck foreign girls when you're in your 40ies". But its a hell of a lot harder to do that in your 40s than in your 20s, regardless of financial success. Ignoring the possibilities of life getting in the way as mentioned above; socially, all of your friends will likely be married with kids by this stage, so off the scene. Girl-wise, is it possible to game 21 year old girls as a successful 45 year old? Absolutely. But its orders of magnitudes harder than doing so as a fit 25 year old. In the vast majority of party/travel environments I would not be betting on the older man in that 1v1. Plus, 90% of people traveling the world/partying are aged 18-30. I just don't believe being surrounded by people 20 years younger than you would be half as much fun on any level, when compared to partying/traveling with your peer group. Aside from getting laid, its just much easier to make friends, have drunken conversations with randomers etc. [/QUOTE]

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