Alpha skinny guy

[GlockTrigga]

I don't understand why there is so much back and forth, "quippy banter" and attitude on this post. Are we Women? The guy asked a simple question just answer it. If you don't want to, piss off his fucking post. And nah brah, I ain't mad.

Zelcorpion is the only guy who has provided a legit answer.

Anyways, Alpha to me is about achieving your best self and excelling at whatever it is your natural talent is in. If you are a great pianist, seek to become better than Mozart. If you are a great mathematician, seek to become better than Einstein. Alpha is about being a rising Phoenix and having a "Fuck the haters" mentality. Those who are also on the path to betterment will recognize your efforts and respect you for it. And when Women see you are highly regarded by fellow bros she will follow suit, as she is a follower by nature.

Seek to provide unique contributions to your industry or trade, or create a solution that fills a societal need. This is how many entrepreneurs become Alpha. By creating utility where none exists before or making a process more efficient. Make everyone's lives easier in some way, shape or form but of course motivated by your own financial and social gain.

 

[Dusty]

:troll:

 

[Fortis]

I don't understand why there is so much back and forth, "quippy banter" and attitude on this post. Are we Women? The guy asked a simple question just answer it. If you don't want to, piss off his fucking post. And nah brah, I ain't mad.

Zelcorpion is the only guy who has provided a legit answer.

Anyways, Alpha to me is about achieving your best self and excelling at whatever it is your natural talent is in. If you are a great pianist, seek to become better than Mozart. If you are a great mathematician, seek to become better than Einstein. Alpha is about being a rising Phoenix and having a "Fuck the haters" mentality. Those who are also on the path to betterment will recognize your efforts and respect you for it. And when Women see you are highly regarded by fellow bros she will follow suit, as she is a follower by nature.

Seek to provide unique contributions to your industry or trade, or create a solution that fills a societal need. This is how many entrepreneurs become Alpha. By creating utility where none exists before or making a process more efficient. Make everyone's lives easier in some way, shape or form but of course motivated by your own financial and social gain.

I think he's getting hazed becuase this topic has been done to death.

clifftones: too skinny and think it's making you less attractive (less alpha)? Put on some muscle.

You'd think this forum's search feature was down. Also, he's a very poor writer and it makes me think he's some sort of troll.

But seriously, this whole "omg i'm skinny. Does that make me less manly/alpha/attractive" thing has been done to death. Roosh looks like a naturally skinny dude, but he gets women, so there goes that question.

 

[LINUX]

He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

 

[civpro]

If he's facially handsome and masculine, and can socially hold his own, then yes.

 

[Pontifex Maximus]

Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.

 

[samsamsam]

Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.

30 skinny alphas?

 

[Dusty]

Now... now let's calm down guys. I recall a certain young grasshopper named Little Dark who we doubted and prematurely ejected. Maybe OP will reiterate that this thread is not about being a skinny Alpha but something more profound.

30 skinny alphas?

30 skinny alphas and one cheeky bitch.

 

[Phoenix]

Assuming by 'alpha' you mean 'socially dominant', yes I've seen tall skinny guys like this. Muscularity helps, but you see many muscular guys who are clearly insecure inside. Anyone can play the game of social influence, you just have to be assertive and savvy. In general, the dominant men I've seen are in that position because of their mouths (and non-verbal communication), not their muscles.

 

[The_CEO]

i've known alphas who were 5'3", others who were tall and skinny, and one of the best bar/street fighters I ever saw was 5'7" with an average build.

Stop worrying about what you can't control and get working on improving what you can.

 

[vorenus]

He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

 

[The Beast1]

He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and individuals.

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

 

[vorenus]

He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and .

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

sure i like sports, music, science, history, movies, videogames, etc
Its just that too many "normal" social interactions, like clubbing or pub crawls deplete me energy wise. I'm not that fond of them...

 

[The Beast1]

He's not a troll. Read his post. I gather that he is a 35 year old, skinny, IT computer guy with no friends and no luck with women and he feels alone.

I think he honestly wants some help and guidance from people more experienced than him on this forum. I admire people who ask for help.

Vorenus, If you can stand your ground alone in this world without worrying what anyone else thinks, not wanting to follow people, not wanting to lead, but doing your own thing under your own terms. Life has endless possibilities. If you will pm me your mailing address before I leave the country, I'll send you a video that will change your life. No PUA bullshit either. It's straight up about how to be a man.

Thanks, im not a troll , i just want to improve myself. thats it. I dont understand why there are some posts so agressive to what i have asked. Anyway my problem is that i lack empathy with people, i see them as too basic or too false , and honestly i know that its creating me problems. Bluntly im not a social person, im just too picky, have a very small set of friends 4-5 maybe. I'm a computer geek, but im not shy, the problem is that i really dont care being social. I know that is bad, but its really hard to pretend to be another person at least for myself...

Sound a lot like myself. And it isn't bad, it means you seek authentic experiences and .

Do you have any interests, passions, or curiosities outside of computers?
This thread would be better served in the game forum.

sure i like sports, music, science, history, movies, videogames, etc
Its just that too many "normal" social interactions, like clubbing or pub crawls deplete me energy wise. I'm not that fond of them...

So do what I do and don't go clubbing or to pubs Meeting people isn't exclusively limited to bar and nightlife venues (contrary to where most gents on this forum go). I don't have the patience for bars and clubs anymore.

Instead, why don't you find clubs or groups that have similar interests as yourself. For me, I joined a church and hit the gym regularly. I meet people between both venues.

On valentines day there was a children's museum "grown up" night. All with a DJ and cash bars. Lots of girls showed up hilariously.

I also really enjoy classical music and museums. In my town, I can go to a "young professionals" group that meets at a private lounge after the concert. There are also First Friday events at the Museum of Art where you can grab a drink, listen to live music, and look at art.

Mind you, all of these are one off commitments that at best last 2-3 hours tops. As an introvert you should have a well of energy that should last that long at the bare minimum. If the people you are interacting with drain you, find others and move on. Good friends shouldn't exhaust you.

The trick is breaking out of the routine you've set up. Meeting and talking to people should first and foremost be fun. Knock notions of "getting the bang" until your comfortable just holding casual conversations. Once you get this far, check out some of the forum literature from Roosh.

 

[Simeon_Strangelight]

Don't take it personally OP.

It's just a basic topic of the 'sphere that has been covered broadly. Check out some of the soures I mentioned above. Sometimes guys make fun of something because it is funny to men well-versed in the Red Pill, but outside you simply don't know. Usually here it's only done in friendly jesting and some harmless trash-talk.

 

[Menace]

Yes OP, it is possible. Now what?

 

[heavy]

Mystery is the obvious person

Brad P...You can find his stuff online. I just googled and only found one pic of him, but I've met him, and whatever you see, he's even more tall-skinny-dorky looking in real life. Think Mystery only bigger nose and dorkier looking...and the guy can clean up.

 

[Cobra]

I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. :dodgy:

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

 

[The Beast1]

I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. :dodgy:

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

When I first joined, I got mocked a bit. It took me some time to get into the jive of how things work here.

Nothing wrong with a little vetting. It brings out the real trolls.

Welcome to the forum vorenus.

 

[vorenus]

I'll admit I get overly cautious and somewhat dickish on the first of the month given the troll infestation on that particular day. :dodgy:

Maybe I need to ease up these days.

Welcome to the forum OP.

When I first joined, I got mocked a bit. It took me some time to get into the jive of how things work here.

Nothing wrong with a little vetting. It brings out the real trolls.

Welcome to the forum vorenus.

Thanks guys!