American girl "dates" her way across Europe after getting a divorce at 26

Aquiles_Baesta_Parada

Aquiles_Baesta_Parada

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I thought that was a bad photo, gave the dude the benefit of the doubt...
no no, he really does look like that.








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CleanSlate

CleanSlate

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Aside from hitching up with that turd (do you even lift?), I can’t hate on her too much for dating her way through foreign countries after a divorce... because hell, I do the same thing.
 
Wutang

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Some analysis about the game of the guys she described: German guy that got sex literally after what seems to me no more then 2-3 hours of time with her was what stuck out to me the most out of all the guys. He was jacked ("chiseled" was the specific word the girl used to describe him) and seemed to realize his value and knew that since he already had demonstrated value by merely being fit, he didn't have to spend time building attraction in the beginning. Instead he was aggressive right with touching ("We sat with our feet in the water and he moved closer to me and kissed me.") and then straight up asked for sex right away, which he got.

The other guy she talked about having sex with, the Portuguese, on the other hand had to invest a lot more time and also had to put a lot more effort into displaying value and building attraction, taking her on a motorcycle ride and then a coffee date by the beach followed by hours of comfort building on the roof of her AirBnb. She didn't mention anything about him being particularly handsome or chiseled so I'm assuming he was just an average looking guy.

In both cases, the model of attraction is pretty much the model that has been put out by Mystery and Roosh in Bang, with each guy making adjustments to suit his own characteristics: German guy didn't really have to spend time building attraction and comfort since his physical characteristics already did so much work, so the only thing he had to worry about was to keep escalating. The Portuguese guy had to invest more time in attraction and comfort via stuff like the motorcycle ride, as opposed to just sitting in a pool together which is all the German guy had to do. There's lots of talk about game being completely different these days but I don't really see how the rules or principles have changed. Rather, it's just that the buy in is higher now for the reasons many people have discussed here (dating apps, ease of travel, etc). It's like the difference between a poker tournament that has a $75 buy in and one that has a $400 buy in; both games play by the same rule but a lot more guys are locked out from playing in the first place with the latter tournament.
 
Rocha

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CleanSlate said:
Aside from hitching up with that turd (do you even lift?), I can’t hate on her too much for dating her way through foreign countries after a divorce... because hell, I do the same thing.
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Actually she is very prude by western standards. From the article she only banged 2 guys on a 10 week trip to 11 countries...

Guess she also had no action at all in Central and Northern Europe (except Germany), Czech, Poland, Sweden, Austria and Norway where visited, along with the mentioned Denmark.

But for me the hero of the story is Pablo the Spaniard

There wasn’t much activity on Bumble, but on Tinder I met Pablo*, a biologist from northern Spain with a beard and ponytail and sexy accent. He took me to a hidden “secret bar” for tinto verano (chilled red wine with lemon-lime soda) and vino de pasas (raisin wine) — both were surprisingly good.

That weekend, we went to a music festival with his friends and danced to DJs and bands. His friends were nice, but didn’t really English, and he made little effort to include me in their conversations. His friends seemed more willing to help me translate in restaurants than Pablo, who seemed more interested in flirting with the scantily-clad girl sitting next to him. He couldn’t even help me order lunch, when he was the only one who spoke both languages fluently? I was fed up.
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Beyond Borders

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Once I attended an international business and intercultural communication program in Europe - class was half American students, half Swiss, and a small sprinkle of Italians.

This fat American dykish teacher, who was supposedly an expert in intercultural differences, once remarked how the "myth" of American girls being easier must just be wishful thinking among men (cue females around the room snickering in agreement). Dumb twat's entire lessons were based on all the major and minor differences among cultures, which she often exaggerated to comic proportions without realizing, but apparently we were supposed to believe that in this one single regard, American women were no different than other women.

I doubt I need to tell you which demographic in that group was the one doing all the putting out to guys from other countries that summer.
 
kmhour

kmhour

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I looked back through her Instagram - like Aquiles almost word-for-word I wanted to give the guy the benefit of the doubt on that picture. but nope.

I think this story doesn't stray far from red pill trope. she seems to have lost weight and I'll bet she started getting attention from higher caliber guys. the high school romance cratered when she realized she had cashed her chips in too early in the game, and made up for it by Eat Pray Loving around Europe.

I'm just glad the next guy who considers putting a ring on it can find this cautionary tale via Google.

Rocha said:
Actually she is very prude by western standards. From the article she only banged 2 guys on a 10 week trip to 11 countries...
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are we suddenly forgetting the rule of three just because this was published in a major magazine? this article was purposefully written to flirt with touching a bunch of controversy buttons, but not to slam them. just because she didn't explicitly allocute doesn't mean it didn't happen.
 
Going strong

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Captainstabbin said:
Alternative title: How to travel for free by exchanging sex for food and lodging.
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travel for free by exchanging sex for food and lodging: You've just described the Couchsurfing experience of most (reasonably slim) females. Except, many couchsurfing bitches don't even give sex... :dodgy:

So I guess for them the title should be, Couchsurfing, travel for free by denying or occasionally granting sex, for food and lodging
 
N°6

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ivansirko said:
Someone is bragging about riding the carousel? If the rule of 3 applies here.......carry the 4......
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A Cosmopolitan article alluding that modern women can fuck for food and lodging is the equivalent of a manosphere article saying that a man can travel the world with travellers' cheques and a credit card.

Or a blog writer 'boasting' that he can buy different women flowers everyday.
 
Kid Twist

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yankeetravels said:
I've been saying this for a while now and I'm calling this trend, more women are going to start having sex trips abroad. It won't get like the romance tours for men, but it'll become more mainstream and I think eastern European men and Latin American men will benefit from it. Men going abroad for women and having a problem with feminism is becoming a more popular thought, so women have to respond if the good men are looking somewhere else and getting divorced 40-50% of the time.
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There's one problem with that: Women are too lazy.
 
Suits

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I met Max*, a 28-year-old British Student (a Tinder match), for lunch. The very first thing I noticed was that he not as attractive as his photos. But he was friendly, and we had fish and chips, then café-hopped and each bought rounds of drinks.

By dinner, I was out of cash (and the restaurant was cash-only); we agreed to find an ATM, but after a few rounds of drinks I forgot and he didn’t mention it, either.

The next day, he texted, asking if I was free for coffee. I wasn’t interested and didn’t respond.

“We never settled the bill from dinner! And I can’t afford the 22 quid,” he texted. At first, I was confused, until I remembered he paid the bill. He then asked me to PayPal him the money from my half; I didn’t respond. Funny how he only wanted the money after he knew I wasn’t interested. He kept texting, so I blocked him.
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Someone needs to make a dating app designed so that when you meet up for your date, one party scans a QR code from the other's phone. Dates are at a series of venues that have a relationship with the company offering the dating app, so the bill is automatically charged to the account of the host (whoever offers the invite). However, if the host invites his/her guest on a second date and he/she declines, the guest is automatically charged for his/her half of dinner.

Also, if anyone flakes (no QR code scan), the flaking party (if they don't reschedule at least 48 hours in advance) buys dinner for the person who showed up (with a set maximum spend of $50 or something) to compensate them for having their time wasted.

Of course that will never fly, because women hate accountability.
 
Kid Twist

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They were similar in SMV even early on, she was chubby and both were nerds. She told him probably to take that toxic masculinity class, and the more he obeyed, the less she respected him.
 
questor70

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Kid Twist said:
They were similar in SMV even early on, she was chubby and both were nerds. She told him probably to take that toxic masculinity class, and the more he obeyed, the less she respected him.
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I'd say she was still a good two points higher even factoring in her chubbiness. I've gotta assume young women just starting out are not experts at crunching relative SMV and so that presents some serendipity.

The guy should never have put a ring on her and just treated the time he had with her as a gift from heaven knowing full well it wasn't gonna last. Now he's gonna spend the rest of his days replaying his memories with her while he bangs 3s and 4s.
 
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questor70 said:
I'd say she was still a good two points higher even factoring in her chubbiness.
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We don't know, the dude could have been a star football player or, judging by all of the travel pics, his dad might be rich.

I might get slammed for this, but this is one of the few chicks who's much hotter when she's chubby. Her face just doesn't work as well in the bikini pic. Maybe that's the weight loss or the carousel...who knows.
 
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