P Dog said:Rating guys by looks is dumb. Why do you care about how other men look like? Making guys wonder if they're a "5 or a 6" is only going to make them insecure. Yeah looks do matter, but rating guys with numbers can easily make them think they are out of a girls "league" (such a thing does not exist) so they won't approach them.
I suspected that this was the reason for your double standard. My personal opinion is that if a dude starts getting insecure at the mere thought that he is only a 5 or 6 in physical attributes alone, then that dude needs to start working on his self-confidence/self-esteem/inner game.
This is not to say that looks rule everything. I am nowhere near a 9 or 10 (hell, right now, I probably float around the 5 range, truth be told), but I have been able to bang 8's, 9's, and a few 9.5's (I don't think that I have even seen more than 3 or 4 10's in person in my life). There is no reason for me to a) delude myself into thinking that I am a 9 or 10 in looks or b) delude myself into thinking that women don't care about looks. I just know from personal experience that looks are not the ONLY factor in pulling a woman.
The "I'll just ignore how I really look" mentality could explain why I see some PUAs that have clothing, and especially hairstyles that just don't match them. It is like when I see fat guys wearing skinny jeans or guys with plain doughy faces that have hairstyles worn by models with chiseled facial features.
P Dog said:Hahahah. No. That's deluded. There are tons of sweet girls out there who get little attention because they're plain, and tons of of bitchier hotties who get all the attention anyway. A girls personality does not change the strength of a man's boner. I'd still fuck Adriana Lima just as hard if she was a total cunt, and so would you."Guys that have success projecting there alphaness are no different than girls that can pull tons of guys because she is so open, friendly, and has a great personality."
Notice that I didn't say sweet. I also know tons of sweet, shy plain girls that get no attention. However, I know many outgoing, friendly, open, yet physically plain girls that get tons of attention. They just draw guys in. I am surprised that you have never seen that before.
At the same time, I can think of instances of women who are hot, but have horrible personalities that start to look less attractive. If a chick starts being super bitchy, I start noticing all of the flaws in her face and body. It as if her attitude has turned my imperfection radar on overdrive. I know that I am not the only one who has experienced that.
I know from personal experience that no matter how physically hot a woman is there are some things that she can say (besides "I have an STD") that will kill my boner.