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Any former PUAs/Red Pill guys manage to get married and have Christian marriages?
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<blockquote data-quote="awesome14" data-source="post: 1534324" data-attributes="member: 18137"><p>It helps if you live a Christian life. If you just want innocent flesh to sate your loins, it's probably not going to get you a worthy wife. You have to be deserving in the eyes of Almighty God. That means your desire must be pure toward all women. There's a way you can practice. Get some images of a woman who displays superior reproductive and infant-feeding potential.</p><p>When you view the images invite God to be there with you, so He can show you the proper disposition of the male toward the female. Sensual beauty is God's promise silently spoken to what is masculine. The physiological, male reaction is anticipation of fulfillment of that promise: new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of God. </p><p>So, when the male is exposed to sensual beauty, God is communicating with him through that sensual beauty! Number one, the woman is not the ultimate source of her goodness. God is, because He is the source of all Good! He created the woman, so He is the ultimate source of her goodness!</p><p>The Catholic Bishops proclaim, 'The woman must never be viewed in terms of the pleasure she can give and/or the children she can bear.' Way to go, strip the woman of her most valuable assets! But, God's promise is new life, so the man must keep foremost in his consciousness that his desire is to give the woman a baby, not to use her as barren meat to sate his primal urge. </p><p>If you can view the sensual woman knowing you want her as a wife, then it's permissible to get turned on by her. It's the intention that counts. The logistical problems involved in actually marrying the woman cannot be overcome in that moment, so the proper intention suffices. </p><p>But if your aim is one of of superiority, control and domination, to sate your lusts on beauty, and extract its goodness on your own terms, then the image becomes a mirage for emptiness and evil.</p><p>I developed a few ways to meet Christian girls, one of which is to be a Christian. When I met my wife I introduced myself, and invited her to the sanctuary at my church, to recite the daily Rosary. There's something about a man who honors the Eternal Blessed Virgin Mother--Mary Most Holy, and kneels before Jesus Christ in meditative prayer; that makes a woman want to have his babies! So, I told her the truth. "I'd love for my kids to look like you!" She took my hand and said, "I'd love to have your baby." </p><p>It was like love at first sight. But, I'm also a Christian, so I don't fornicate. That makes a woman feel secure. If she knows the guy will try anything to get up her skirt, she's going to be defensive and guarded! </p><p>I didn't proclaim my intention to perform and endless litany of selfless acts on her behalf right away. I never did, in fact. I raised her needs for security and commitment above my own base urges, elevating her person-hood above my passion, making a true equal of her, because I love her more than I love my own body! </p><p>That is the essence of male-female equality, and the only context in which it will be found.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="awesome14, post: 1534324, member: 18137"] It helps if you live a Christian life. If you just want innocent flesh to sate your loins, it's probably not going to get you a worthy wife. You have to be deserving in the eyes of Almighty God. That means your desire must be pure toward all women. There's a way you can practice. Get some images of a woman who displays superior reproductive and infant-feeding potential. When you view the images invite God to be there with you, so He can show you the proper disposition of the male toward the female. Sensual beauty is God's promise silently spoken to what is masculine. The physiological, male reaction is anticipation of fulfillment of that promise: new life in the image of married lovers and in the image of God. So, when the male is exposed to sensual beauty, God is communicating with him through that sensual beauty! Number one, the woman is not the ultimate source of her goodness. God is, because He is the source of all Good! He created the woman, so He is the ultimate source of her goodness! The Catholic Bishops proclaim, 'The woman must never be viewed in terms of the pleasure she can give and/or the children she can bear.' Way to go, strip the woman of her most valuable assets! But, God's promise is new life, so the man must keep foremost in his consciousness that his desire is to give the woman a baby, not to use her as barren meat to sate his primal urge. If you can view the sensual woman knowing you want her as a wife, then it's permissible to get turned on by her. It's the intention that counts. The logistical problems involved in actually marrying the woman cannot be overcome in that moment, so the proper intention suffices. But if your aim is one of of superiority, control and domination, to sate your lusts on beauty, and extract its goodness on your own terms, then the image becomes a mirage for emptiness and evil. I developed a few ways to meet Christian girls, one of which is to be a Christian. When I met my wife I introduced myself, and invited her to the sanctuary at my church, to recite the daily Rosary. There's something about a man who honors the Eternal Blessed Virgin Mother--Mary Most Holy, and kneels before Jesus Christ in meditative prayer; that makes a woman want to have his babies! So, I told her the truth. "I'd love for my kids to look like you!" She took my hand and said, "I'd love to have your baby." It was like love at first sight. But, I'm also a Christian, so I don't fornicate. That makes a woman feel secure. If she knows the guy will try anything to get up her skirt, she's going to be defensive and guarded! I didn't proclaim my intention to perform and endless litany of selfless acts on her behalf right away. I never did, in fact. I raised her needs for security and commitment above my own base urges, elevating her person-hood above my passion, making a true equal of her, because I love her more than I love my own body! That is the essence of male-female equality, and the only context in which it will be found. [/QUOTE]
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