TigerMandingo said:
How are Brit Indians different from Indian-Americans? Just curious. I watched Bend It Like Beckham and they seemed pretty similar.
Here's a few comments:
UK - Indians are about half Punjabi and half Gujarati. People from other parts of India are very rare. I grew up in a town where every Indian was Punjabi.
US - has a lot more South Indians.
US - tend to come from more educated backgrounds on the H1B visa and worked in medicine or engineering etc. A lot came in the 80s and are still arriving.
UK - mostly came from villages in the 60s and 70s to work in factories.
US - Lots of Indians still coming in from India on via family sponsorship or H1B. An Indian US Citizen can sponsor siblings and their kids. Therefore there's a continuous flow of FOBs from India.
UK - Indian emigration ended in the early 70s, so just about every Indian you come across in the UK under the age of 50 was born and raised there. I didn't know a single Indian person of my age who wasn't born in the UK. A UK Citizen cannot sponsor his siblings and their kids. There's been some illegal immigrants and students coming over in the last decade, but the numbers are small compared to the overall Indian population. Therefore, not a huge influence of FOBs.
US - since their parents are educated, the kids tend to be raised to study hard, and a lot of them are raised as nerds. The dream is to have the kid be a doctor.
UK - parents are not as strict on education. They want their kids to do something e.g. get a job, start own business, go to college. Education is not everything to them. A lot of boys get enrolled in martial arts classes. They don't give a fuck about spelling bees.
US – some tend to have an inferiority complex regarding white women and feel like they can never bang one. I never heard anyone in the UK say this.
UK – white women are not pedestalised and when I was kid, every Indian guy I grew up around with was banging a white girl. It’s simply not an issue.
US – Regarding Muslims, they tend to have a deluded attitude. They think that all Muslims are like the rich Persian kids or liberal Arab kids they grew up with. I used to work with a Sindhi guy in the US whose family fled what is now Pakistan from the Muslims. Even after that, he still thinks Muslims are OK with Hindus.
UK – they get on well with Muslims in general, but they will never kiss their arses like Indian Americans do. They’re very well aware of some of the bad shit they do.
US – politically pro-Muslim (totally clueless about Hindu/Sikh vs Muslim issues), pro-illegal immigration, pro LGBT.
UK – politically they used to be more left wing, but many have switched to the Conservative party because the Labour party sucks Muslim dick too much. They're against illegal immigration and not fans of LGBT stuff.
US – tends to be a lot of vegetarians and non-drinkers. However, there are some who drink.
UK – basically everyone drinks, nearly all Punjabis eat meat, and a lot of Gujuratis do too. I didn’t grow up around vegetarians.
US – socially, they tend to socialize with other Indians and go to their houses, so are not very well assimilated.
UK – they go to bars and pubs and get along with everyone else.
US – Many girls are raised so they think that their shit doesn’t stink and suffer from Princess Jasmine syndrome. Also a lot of feminists. Many can’t cook.
UK – girls are raised traditionally and many are taught to cook by their mothers when very young. There’s a few women with a massive ego, but in general they’re way more down to earth than women raised in the US.
US - many men have an identity crisis - they either tend be in exclusively Indian circles or they're embarrassed to be Indian and only hang out with non-Indians. I remember talking to an Indian guy who was born and raised in Los Angeles, he told me he had never dated a non-Indian girl. I found that very surprising.
UK - tend to be more well balanced. They're proud of their Indian background, but also proud to be British.