Anyone else feel general dislike toward members of your own ethnic group?
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The difference is, Indian culture in India is ACTUALLY fucked up.
Women are treated like dog shit, hundreds of millions of lower class citizens have no prospects or rights.
I can understand being for social justice in India.
Can't compare sjws in India to faggy Indian Americans.
Women are treated like dog shit, hundreds of millions of lower class citizens have no prospects or rights.
I can understand being for social justice in India.
Can't compare sjws in India to faggy Indian Americans.
Definitely relating somewhat to the disdain towards your background being Indian myself.
The one common thing I have found with the few Indian American men I was raised around is that they were raised in an environment where they were the only Indian. At that point, they were forced to assimilate and blend in with the cool white and black guys, even playing American sports in their formative years. Most of these guys are no different from your typical cool white guy or black guy, they were also raised in more right leaning areas of the country. Indian Americans and Republicans mix well together but sadly 90%+ vote Democrat.
Most of the worst ones I have seen are those who were raised in places that had a sizable enough Indian population so they only stuck to their own while trying to blend in with American culture. Horribly insecure, love-hate relationship towards whites, and will always try to sabotage their own who don't fit the stereotype. Most of these folks will always try to call you out for "acting too white" or being a sell-out while deep down inside desperately wanting white girls, a nasty inner-conflict going on for real.
Don't ever try gaming or winging with one of these dudes, they will ruin you with their misery, it's crab in a bucket. Consistent whining of how white women do not want them, how easy white men have it, and how it is not worth it to try.
Over the years though, I've found it is not just an Indian thing, quite a few ethnic people are like this in the US. I've seen the same inferiority complex from Asian guys and browner ethnic guys (mainly Arab and Middle Eastern) in general, this envy towards white men and how easy they have it.
What really kills me in hanging with ethnic dudes is their inferiority complex towards white guys, citing a gazillion "studies", wanting you to confirm their inferiority complex, and making almost everything about race.
I'll agree with Genghis, I've had the best experiences hanging out with conservative whites compared to most other groups out there. It just becomes too much to hear "woe is me" and "be my shoulder to cry on" with ethnic dudes, I avoid gaming with them because it ends up being bad for my inner game.
The one common thing I have found with the few Indian American men I was raised around is that they were raised in an environment where they were the only Indian. At that point, they were forced to assimilate and blend in with the cool white and black guys, even playing American sports in their formative years. Most of these guys are no different from your typical cool white guy or black guy, they were also raised in more right leaning areas of the country. Indian Americans and Republicans mix well together but sadly 90%+ vote Democrat.
Most of the worst ones I have seen are those who were raised in places that had a sizable enough Indian population so they only stuck to their own while trying to blend in with American culture. Horribly insecure, love-hate relationship towards whites, and will always try to sabotage their own who don't fit the stereotype. Most of these folks will always try to call you out for "acting too white" or being a sell-out while deep down inside desperately wanting white girls, a nasty inner-conflict going on for real.
Don't ever try gaming or winging with one of these dudes, they will ruin you with their misery, it's crab in a bucket. Consistent whining of how white women do not want them, how easy white men have it, and how it is not worth it to try.
Over the years though, I've found it is not just an Indian thing, quite a few ethnic people are like this in the US. I've seen the same inferiority complex from Asian guys and browner ethnic guys (mainly Arab and Middle Eastern) in general, this envy towards white men and how easy they have it.
What really kills me in hanging with ethnic dudes is their inferiority complex towards white guys, citing a gazillion "studies", wanting you to confirm their inferiority complex, and making almost everything about race.
I'll agree with Genghis, I've had the best experiences hanging out with conservative whites compared to most other groups out there. It just becomes too much to hear "woe is me" and "be my shoulder to cry on" with ethnic dudes, I avoid gaming with them because it ends up being bad for my inner game.
@abeerisenough
Interesting you mention 'inferiority complex' so much about ethnic guys living in America.
I've been around a ton of ethnic Australians of different types my whole life, and would not use the term "inferiority complex" to describe many of them at all. Maybe the odd 5'5 Bengali or Chinese guy.
But generally the ethnics here have a great time and live their life- if they don't interact with whites or Anglos here, it's because they prefer their own culture and stay with with their own.
I wonder if the complex has anything to do with how ethnics are portrayed in Hollywood or the media. Americans don't seem that wise about people outside of their country, and there is more media and entertainment in America- that might be the reason.
One thing I would say about anglo Australians, is that any 'racism' they give out is not borne out of a superiority complex. More so a fear of the other, an awareness that they are surrounded by Asian countries, and a (perhaps rational) paranoia that their time there as a majority may be limited.
Either way, none of the racism ever made me feel inferior. Just made me realize I'm very different to them.
American racism seems to be straight out 'were better than you'. I suppose if someone hears something enough, they might start to believe it.
You gotta throw that shit off when you get to adulthood, though.
Interesting you mention 'inferiority complex' so much about ethnic guys living in America.
I've been around a ton of ethnic Australians of different types my whole life, and would not use the term "inferiority complex" to describe many of them at all. Maybe the odd 5'5 Bengali or Chinese guy.
But generally the ethnics here have a great time and live their life- if they don't interact with whites or Anglos here, it's because they prefer their own culture and stay with with their own.
I wonder if the complex has anything to do with how ethnics are portrayed in Hollywood or the media. Americans don't seem that wise about people outside of their country, and there is more media and entertainment in America- that might be the reason.
One thing I would say about anglo Australians, is that any 'racism' they give out is not borne out of a superiority complex. More so a fear of the other, an awareness that they are surrounded by Asian countries, and a (perhaps rational) paranoia that their time there as a majority may be limited.
Either way, none of the racism ever made me feel inferior. Just made me realize I'm very different to them.
American racism seems to be straight out 'were better than you'. I suppose if someone hears something enough, they might start to believe it.
You gotta throw that shit off when you get to adulthood, though.
How Many Bothans
Pigeon
To answer the original question, yes. I have a general dislike towards the people of my own race/ethnicity that I see around me everyday.
I live in NYC and, unfortunately, it is 'the mecca' for 'black culture'. Which basically means that most of the black people under 50 you see are either dumbass thug wannabees or are on that 'black person magic' nonsense, despite having nothing to back it up. Having a decent job is not 'black girl/guy magic'. It's just average person magic'.
So a few things really annoy me about the black people I see regularly here. The first is that, in my opinion, they have been used and are being used by liberals and black politicians and seem to think they are actually getting something in return. They aren't, of course, but they seem to largely be content with shitty public housing projects that are giving their kids lead poisoning and public schools that aren't able to teach their kids anything of consequence (of course, they have a hand to play in that as well). And they won't accept anyone telling them to look around them and challenging them to show what progress giving their support to the liberals has actually made with respect to their lives, their community, their overall place in this country. They get super angry like a dog protecting a bone.
The second thing that annoys me is the refusal to take any responsibility for the situation that so many urban blacks find themselves in. Like the woman who became famous telling the reporter that "somebody needs to pay for my kids" (yes, generally that 'someone' is the person who had the kids and the man to whom she allowed entry). There are so many opportunities that this country gives every citizen, especially minorities these days. And it doesn't seem like any of those opportunities are taken advantage of. Instead, the blame for any lack of advancement automatically shifts to white people, society, or racism (often a combination of all three). But in so many neighborhoods in NYC, the corner stores in the black community used to be owned by Hispanics. Now they're owned and run by Arabs and Muslims. Recent immigrants who can hardly speak English. How is it that they can move to a new country and take these opportunities, but the black people who have been here for 5 generations can't? And don't tell me it's racism because I doubt the alleged racists like Arabs and Muslims any more than they do blacks (could be wrong, don't know any racists).
The other thing that annoys me is that so many black people love to celebrate Malcolm X's birthday one day a year and then completely ignore his message the other 364 days of the year. I'm talking specifically about the importance he placed on education and self-determination. I know a lot of people see him as controversial, but at the very least that part of his message should be accepted by all.
Anyway, those are some of the things that annoy me when I think about the blacks I see around me everyday. My goal is to leave NYC soon, hopefully I'll meet enough other types of black people that my opinion changes for the better.
I live in NYC and, unfortunately, it is 'the mecca' for 'black culture'. Which basically means that most of the black people under 50 you see are either dumbass thug wannabees or are on that 'black person magic' nonsense, despite having nothing to back it up. Having a decent job is not 'black girl/guy magic'. It's just average person magic'.
So a few things really annoy me about the black people I see regularly here. The first is that, in my opinion, they have been used and are being used by liberals and black politicians and seem to think they are actually getting something in return. They aren't, of course, but they seem to largely be content with shitty public housing projects that are giving their kids lead poisoning and public schools that aren't able to teach their kids anything of consequence (of course, they have a hand to play in that as well). And they won't accept anyone telling them to look around them and challenging them to show what progress giving their support to the liberals has actually made with respect to their lives, their community, their overall place in this country. They get super angry like a dog protecting a bone.
The second thing that annoys me is the refusal to take any responsibility for the situation that so many urban blacks find themselves in. Like the woman who became famous telling the reporter that "somebody needs to pay for my kids" (yes, generally that 'someone' is the person who had the kids and the man to whom she allowed entry). There are so many opportunities that this country gives every citizen, especially minorities these days. And it doesn't seem like any of those opportunities are taken advantage of. Instead, the blame for any lack of advancement automatically shifts to white people, society, or racism (often a combination of all three). But in so many neighborhoods in NYC, the corner stores in the black community used to be owned by Hispanics. Now they're owned and run by Arabs and Muslims. Recent immigrants who can hardly speak English. How is it that they can move to a new country and take these opportunities, but the black people who have been here for 5 generations can't? And don't tell me it's racism because I doubt the alleged racists like Arabs and Muslims any more than they do blacks (could be wrong, don't know any racists).
The other thing that annoys me is that so many black people love to celebrate Malcolm X's birthday one day a year and then completely ignore his message the other 364 days of the year. I'm talking specifically about the importance he placed on education and self-determination. I know a lot of people see him as controversial, but at the very least that part of his message should be accepted by all.
Anyway, those are some of the things that annoy me when I think about the blacks I see around me everyday. My goal is to leave NYC soon, hopefully I'll meet enough other types of black people that my opinion changes for the better.
What am I, some kind of anti-Semite?
Great third post bro. Many truth bombs in here.
Interesting point about Arabs and Indians running shops in black neighborhoods.
I hear it's the same in big cities in Kenya and other African countries. Non blacks own a lot of the restaurants and businesses. Can't really blame racism there.
Surely more black ownership should be a huge priority.
Interesting point about Arabs and Indians running shops in black neighborhoods.
I hear it's the same in big cities in Kenya and other African countries. Non blacks own a lot of the restaurants and businesses. Can't really blame racism there.
Surely more black ownership should be a huge priority.
How Many Bothans said:
American_Pharaoh
Pigeon
Bm here
Where do I fucking begin!
My peoples complete lack of long term planning and goals I guess overall being stuck in survival mode for so long will lead everyone to living in the moment but that’s no excuse.
The men are chill unless they hood and then they get hostile if you bring up anything requiring your brain. It’s completely anti intellectual.
The women smh
Feminine submissive black chicks are few and far in between sadly. They’ve attached their cart to feminism and not only follow it like religion but taken it steps further than even white women. Sad thing is collectively they don’t get nearly anything out of it for all their work.
Lastly the Hoteps/woke brigade omg they have got to be the most idiotic I think I’m smart set of people ever. Their solutions are generations late and hardly suitable on an individual basis. They’re so woke they have sleep deprivation ??
Where do I fucking begin!
My peoples complete lack of long term planning and goals I guess overall being stuck in survival mode for so long will lead everyone to living in the moment but that’s no excuse.
The men are chill unless they hood and then they get hostile if you bring up anything requiring your brain. It’s completely anti intellectual.
The women smh
Feminine submissive black chicks are few and far in between sadly. They’ve attached their cart to feminism and not only follow it like religion but taken it steps further than even white women. Sad thing is collectively they don’t get nearly anything out of it for all their work.
Lastly the Hoteps/woke brigade omg they have got to be the most idiotic I think I’m smart set of people ever. Their solutions are generations late and hardly suitable on an individual basis. They’re so woke they have sleep deprivation ??
I hate how educated white people can suck the life out anything through analysis.
It's almost like all experiences in the world exist only for us to show off by telling anyone who will listen our opinion.
We will lecture anyone, even about experiences that they have had, and we have only read about.
Look at the SJWs.
They can take two hours to tell everyone that white people need to learn to listen.
Just stop talking.
Just shut up.
And don't tell anyone about it.
Stop sharing.
Stop hypothesizing.
You don't even have to listen.
Or learn.
Just shut up.
It's almost like all experiences in the world exist only for us to show off by telling anyone who will listen our opinion.
We will lecture anyone, even about experiences that they have had, and we have only read about.
Look at the SJWs.
They can take two hours to tell everyone that white people need to learn to listen.
Just stop talking.
Just shut up.
And don't tell anyone about it.
Stop sharing.
Stop hypothesizing.
You don't even have to listen.
Or learn.
Just shut up.
The last time I got pissed off by a white person was when I saw this fat, unkempt neck beard slob in a tourist area of Vancouver with a stupid sign begging for money. He literally looked like he crawled out of his parent’s basement to get money to buy video games or something stupid. Earlier that day I was on skid row and saw tons of white meth heads and fentanyl junkies and they didn’t upset me nearly as bad as that fat lazy cunt did.
American_Pharaoh
Pigeon
Oh and somehow if you have a difference of opinion on topic especially if it’s a controversial one my community wants to cancel you or outright destroy you in some cases.
One one hand we complain about being viewed the same and then attack or ridicule anyone different wtf
One one hand we complain about being viewed the same and then attack or ridicule anyone different wtf
Rorogue said:
I've read that part of the reason for this is that in African culture it's not considered acceptable to refuse to give charity to a family member that requests it, but unfortunately things like the food in your restaurant and the goods in your store count as things you are obligated to share.
Consequently foreigners end up running these businesses because when a black guy opens up a business the loafers in his family come and clean him out, and he's culturally obligated to let them. If he refuses then he'll be disowned by his family. To what extent this has crossed the ocean and remained a part of black American culture I'm not sure but apparently that's how things work in a lot of African regions.
How Many Bothans said:
Please Stop Helping Us by Jason Riley is required reading in this line of thought.
https://www.amazon.com/Please-Stop-Helping-Us-Liberals/dp/1594038414
Why is it that so many efforts by liberals to lift the black underclass not only fail, but often harm the intended beneficiaries?
In Please Stop Helping Us, Jason L. Riley examines how well-intentioned welfare programs are in fact holding black Americans back. Minimum-wage laws may lift earnings for people who are already employed, but they price a disproportionate number of blacks out of the labor force. Affirmative action in higher education is intended to address past discrimination, but the result is fewer black college graduates than would otherwise exist. And so it goes with everything from soft-on-crime laws, which make black neighborhoods more dangerous, to policies that limit school choice out of a mistaken belief that charter schools and voucher programs harm the traditional public schools that most low-income students attend.
In theory these efforts are intended to help the poor—and poor minorities in particular. In practice they become massive barriers to moving forward.
Please Stop Helping Us lays bare these counterproductive results. People of goodwill want to see more black socioeconomic advancement, but in too many instances the current methods and approaches aren’t working. Acknowledging this is an important first step.
^^ In line with what debeguiled just posted above:
Sitting at the bar last night, a couple of [white] girls were loudly discussing how much CO2 a baby will eventually generate throughout his life.
Another one was later trying to rationalize the act of dumping a newborn on the side of the road.
I thought of this thread immediately.
Sitting at the bar last night, a couple of [white] girls were loudly discussing how much CO2 a baby will eventually generate throughout his life.
Another one was later trying to rationalize the act of dumping a newborn on the side of the road.
I thought of this thread immediately.
Ah, babies and co2, yes .. great point to start a conversation about r/K selection theory 
numanist said:
I bet you're not Swedish/Norwegian. You may have a grandfather from there but if you did a DNA test you'd probably show up as a mixture of a lot of things. So no need to be embarrassed, Amerifat.
All joking aside. Never feel embarrassed about your ethnic group or where you come from. You share a history together and DNA, but in the end it doesn't define you. When you say you feel embarrassed about being Scandinavian because a lot of Scandinavians are SJWs, it is probably some form of projection. You feel beta inside and take it out on your peers instead of yourself. I am probably a lot more Scandinavian than you but I don't share an ounce of your predicaments. You just reek of lack of self respect and self esteem.
If you truly are Swedish and you need help removing doubt about your own manliness and if the lack of it stems from being Scandinavian then go read some history about the country. You should realize that empires come and go and so do good men. If you were as tough as a Swede was even a few decades ago you would do something about yourself and your people instead of sobbing and attention whoring like a chick. You are part of what's wrong with white people today. Man up and get your act together.
Kona said:
BlackLeftLeft
Sparrow
It pains me to say it, but at 42 as a Black conservative living in Los Angeles I just don't really have too many dealings with Black folks anymore.
Once I stopped being a Dem/Liberal in about 2014-2015 and once I became a Trump supporter I was completely shunned by my own kind. I'm not sure those outside of the Black community realize how impossible it is to operate in the Black community as a conservative. There are no debates or discussions. You're a coon, a sellout, a Tom, a wannabee White guy. I could be an illiterate, deadbeat Dad, lifelong convict and be accepted more readily than I am as a college grad, no kids and clean record having conservative.
I don't have any faith in the Black community anymore and I think we're a permanent underclass here in America. The criminality, the 75% bastard rate, the anti-intellectualism, etc. along with the demographic changes making Latinos the "preferred" minority, I don't see things ever getting better.
I grew up immersed in hip-hop, worked in the business on the corporate end pushing some of the biggest acts in history, used to produce myself, etc., but now that I've gotten older I recognize that the music I grew up loving/being shaped by has been a net negative for Black folks. These new cats have zero lyrics, and the content is completely degenerate. Kids that were in special ed in my day now have albums and are stars. It's a clown show. I can't even ride the train without some punk rappin' along to some nonsense, knockoff Future clone with his phone on speaker. It really is the soundtrack to the lives of idiots now.
I also never really grasped how much hatred for not only America, but for White folks, is present in the community. So many of my people think everything is about race. race is the defining factor in how they see the world. It's pathetic.
The violent crime is the biggest thing that gets me now. I never looked at the stats when I was younger. Once you look at the numbers and see how disproportianate things are, it's hard to blame folks if they are racist.
We clown the "Orange Man Bad" types but Black folks have been operating under the same delusion except it's "White Man Bad".
Once I stopped being a Dem/Liberal in about 2014-2015 and once I became a Trump supporter I was completely shunned by my own kind. I'm not sure those outside of the Black community realize how impossible it is to operate in the Black community as a conservative. There are no debates or discussions. You're a coon, a sellout, a Tom, a wannabee White guy. I could be an illiterate, deadbeat Dad, lifelong convict and be accepted more readily than I am as a college grad, no kids and clean record having conservative.
I don't have any faith in the Black community anymore and I think we're a permanent underclass here in America. The criminality, the 75% bastard rate, the anti-intellectualism, etc. along with the demographic changes making Latinos the "preferred" minority, I don't see things ever getting better.
I grew up immersed in hip-hop, worked in the business on the corporate end pushing some of the biggest acts in history, used to produce myself, etc., but now that I've gotten older I recognize that the music I grew up loving/being shaped by has been a net negative for Black folks. These new cats have zero lyrics, and the content is completely degenerate. Kids that were in special ed in my day now have albums and are stars. It's a clown show. I can't even ride the train without some punk rappin' along to some nonsense, knockoff Future clone with his phone on speaker. It really is the soundtrack to the lives of idiots now.
I also never really grasped how much hatred for not only America, but for White folks, is present in the community. So many of my people think everything is about race. race is the defining factor in how they see the world. It's pathetic.
The violent crime is the biggest thing that gets me now. I never looked at the stats when I was younger. Once you look at the numbers and see how disproportianate things are, it's hard to blame folks if they are racist.
We clown the "Orange Man Bad" types but Black folks have been operating under the same delusion except it's "White Man Bad".
debeguiled said:Kona said:
Thanks for posting this spam picture.
My people have been eatungbthis stuff for years. Ivdont understand why. One if the biggest reasons some Polynesians give for their spam live is that the White Man somehow forced it in us. Now, I live blaming the White Man for my problems, however, this argument drives me up the wall. Just stop eating the stuff.
Aloha!