Women's study major, with a minor in feminist dance theory.While it's unlikely that you'll respond, I hope you see this. Your responses, and a few from others here, are quite encouraging to see. You are an intelligent and respectful individual. Challenging another's ideology isn't out of line -- especially in the manner that you did, and without resorting to cheap personal attacks (because you don't need to). Iron sharpens iron. However, not every Christian is made of such. And those who break under it shows. You are not one of those Christians.
To those of you who might feel this applies to you (e.g. "not every Christian is made of such [iron]"), then it probably does. This does not mean you're not a Christian, or that your faith's weak, or that you're thought less of, or that I even disrespect or dislike you (I respect those who thoughtfully engage with me and put effort into it). Absolutely not. What this is, is an indication that more preparation is needed. Because if one can't defend their faith to a fellow Christian, they may struggle to defend it at all to one who isn't.