Attractive and Successful 27yo NYC Woman Commits Suicide
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I was halfway done writing a response to her suicide note but then I said fuck it.
This is just sad man.
We hardly know this chick beyond the basic chick photos she took, I'll giver her a bit of doubt but things have to be said.
I gotta admit even her note sounded something like a basic chick would say.
She was "tired" - I mean come the fuck on, look at how much she traveled and ate.
At least she even admitted it was a first world problem.
She wasn't your "haaaapy", I'll never understand this.
You live in America, you might be struggling to make ends meet, but you're in America.
Unless you prefer Somalia?
Every single fucking day above ground is a goddamn blessing.
You have the choice to change things, life isn't a broken record (only if you let it be).
Desperate times can call for drastic changes.
I can never forgive a perfectly healthy in mind/body/spririt young person taking their own life, bar something at the far end of the spectrum.
It's absolutely selfish, and I guarantee she had people she could talk to.
She could've worked this out, she was stuck in a rut, all she needed was a bump in the right direction.
I still to do this day, do not understand depression, I just don't.
Even if it's clinical I truly believe in my heart that it's a mindset no matter what, even if you have to battle it every single day, you still win, it only makes you stronger.
This is just sad man.
We hardly know this chick beyond the basic chick photos she took, I'll giver her a bit of doubt but things have to be said.
I gotta admit even her note sounded something like a basic chick would say.
She was "tired" - I mean come the fuck on, look at how much she traveled and ate.
At least she even admitted it was a first world problem.
She wasn't your "haaaapy", I'll never understand this.
You live in America, you might be struggling to make ends meet, but you're in America.
Unless you prefer Somalia?
Every single fucking day above ground is a goddamn blessing.
You have the choice to change things, life isn't a broken record (only if you let it be).
Desperate times can call for drastic changes.
I can never forgive a perfectly healthy in mind/body/spririt young person taking their own life, bar something at the far end of the spectrum.
It's absolutely selfish, and I guarantee she had people she could talk to.
She could've worked this out, she was stuck in a rut, all she needed was a bump in the right direction.
I still to do this day, do not understand depression, I just don't.
Even if it's clinical I truly believe in my heart that it's a mindset no matter what, even if you have to battle it every single day, you still win, it only makes you stronger.
Kona said:
You're onto something here, Kona. Interracial kids are only about 50% more likely to engage in destructive behavior.
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3292211/
She could have filled that void with my penis and we both would be happy.kaotic said:
kaotic said:
Of course it's environmental, she grew up in a soul-sucking Crowleyan do what thou wilt culture of spiritual enslavement and atomized alienation. She would have actually been better off in a shithole like Somalia, where she would have been surrounded by her extended family and married with children by her 20s. She would have been involved in deeply rewarding feminine pursuits that would have filled her days, like taking care of her children, making pies for her family instead of making pie charts in her corporate cubicle farm. Women are much better off in countries like Saudi Arabia than in the West. They (and the rest of us) have been brainwashed to believe the opposite.
The main difference between this happa girl and the majority of strong, independent womyn is that their depression usually sets in later in life, once the wall looms larger and the carousel loses its appeal, that poor girl here was just a little precocious.
Dietitian my ass! What; bread, pasta, pizza, cappuccino`s, wine, beer, pretzels...intuitive eating
No wonder she needed meds. (probably) I feel sorry for her, but it`s a shame that quacks like that can get away with calling themselves dietitians, or any title related to health and medicine.
I noticed also that the only pictures where she looked genuinely happy where the one`s with small children involved. There`s a hint for you as to what was missing in her life.
No wonder she needed meds. (probably) I feel sorry for her, but it`s a shame that quacks like that can get away with calling themselves dietitians, or any title related to health and medicine. I noticed also that the only pictures where she looked genuinely happy where the one`s with small children involved. There`s a hint for you as to what was missing in her life.
We can expect more of these in the future.
"She had everything going for her"
Bottom line is chicks are lied to about what will give their lives meaning and fulfillment.
"She had everything going for her"
Bottom line is chicks are lied to about what will give their lives meaning and fulfillment.
Buddydowrongright2
Woodpecker
RIP. There is a lot here that we can probably dissect regarding so-called Women's Empowerment and the Instagram Generation, but the fact is, you never know someone's demons, and the fact she ended her life tells me this was probably not done for attention. If she wanted attention she could go on Tinder - five minutes later, problem solved. She was from San Francisco which is the thirst capital of the universe. For an attractive woman to commit suicide there, of all places, tells me her pain was real and that we probably shouldn't mock it. Depression is something a person's looks can give you no insight to. It is usually rooted in the individual's brain chemistry or trauma from their childhood, neither of which are affected by how good looking that individual appears to be once they grow up. Could this have been avoided if she settled down, reproduced with a good man, and lived the trad life instead of a Sex and the City one? I say, almost certainly no. And in that case her needless death would've traumatized her children in the bargain. Hope she found whatever peace she was looking for in the end.
I feel really uncomfortable speculating, such is the nature of modern times, that I feel like it plays into what's wrong with modern society, millisecond based judgements on limited facts, Instagram photos, etc.
It was only yesterday I was thinking of how bad it's going for people right now in the US--just so many people feeling empty and lacking larger purpose. This goes doubly for larger cities that are pressure-cookers for feeling like you're unable to keep up. That being said, no one is shedding tears for the Carnage happening to working class, and younger males in Middle America right now. It's indicative of a malaise in society. We've completely debased everything into consumerism and status contests. Anyway, the spirits of many in the cities are crushed. There's no meaning in their lives.
I keep drawing parallels to Russia after fall of the soviet Union. Massive alcoholism, drug use, suicides, violent crime, and people feeling utterly crushed. Theres really no excuse for this shit to be happening in the US. No one cares, politicians don't care, families are broken, there's no cohesion and anxiety and depression are increasing massively. Job market is screwed, and no I'm not gonna fucking code. It won't be long until coding is redundant too. The trend is disturbing and it will get much worse.
SSRIs and Xanax are being handed out like candy but they don't treat the root cause, which is a decline society where there is no spiritual, no metaphysical, no grand narrative. Self hating nihilism and a lack of proper traditionalist values were pushed by marxists, deviating us from our path to meaning and truth. I encourage everyone to do themselves a favor, and call up friends family, etc. Support systems are there for a reason. Get off social media, Netflix, etc; volunteer and help someone out, maybe an old person. Change starts at the individual level, and we have to bring back some cohesion rather than callous indifference to our neighbors and fellow humans.
My condolences.
It was only yesterday I was thinking of how bad it's going for people right now in the US--just so many people feeling empty and lacking larger purpose. This goes doubly for larger cities that are pressure-cookers for feeling like you're unable to keep up. That being said, no one is shedding tears for the Carnage happening to working class, and younger males in Middle America right now. It's indicative of a malaise in society. We've completely debased everything into consumerism and status contests. Anyway, the spirits of many in the cities are crushed. There's no meaning in their lives.
I keep drawing parallels to Russia after fall of the soviet Union. Massive alcoholism, drug use, suicides, violent crime, and people feeling utterly crushed. Theres really no excuse for this shit to be happening in the US. No one cares, politicians don't care, families are broken, there's no cohesion and anxiety and depression are increasing massively. Job market is screwed, and no I'm not gonna fucking code. It won't be long until coding is redundant too. The trend is disturbing and it will get much worse.
SSRIs and Xanax are being handed out like candy but they don't treat the root cause, which is a decline society where there is no spiritual, no metaphysical, no grand narrative. Self hating nihilism and a lack of proper traditionalist values were pushed by marxists, deviating us from our path to meaning and truth. I encourage everyone to do themselves a favor, and call up friends family, etc. Support systems are there for a reason. Get off social media, Netflix, etc; volunteer and help someone out, maybe an old person. Change starts at the individual level, and we have to bring back some cohesion rather than callous indifference to our neighbors and fellow humans.
My condolences.
Lunostrelki
Kingfisher
Living in New York is a soul-sucking experience. I spent four years there getting a little more worn out every single day from the sheer ugliness of it all -- the dysfunction of the subway, the crap everywhere on the streets, the mindless pedestrians who cause traffic jams because they can't be bothered to wait five seconds for a red light, the antlike character of its globalized population -- and the fact that there's basically no escape from it if you're a person of ordinary means. Sure, there's lots of nice places to eat out. Lots of places to go shopping, if that's what you like. Then what? You're still an atomized Deep Fried Human Nugget in a fetid cage of urban grid.
It's not even like some big Asian cities where things are neat, the public transit works properly, and people behave themselves (or at least stay quiet and courteous).
It's not even like some big Asian cities where things are neat, the public transit works properly, and people behave themselves (or at least stay quiet and courteous).
Goldin Boy
Pelican
RIslander said:This story is pretty much made for this forum. NYC Dietitian, single and childless, posts a dramatic suicide note on her website before hanging herself. She had a great job and in my opinion nice looking. She has a slew of photos on her instagram and even her suicide note was a clear attempt at post death attention whoring.
I feel bad for her and her mother. I imagine she was medicated with anti-depressants and brainwashed into believing being an "independent childless woman" was the key to her happiness. Had she been born into a traditional patriarchal society she would probably be a happy wife and mother.
It also brings the issue of how many men commit suicide because they can't find a a healthy relationship with even a 6 like the girl from the article.
This is a story of a society in full decline.
https://www.foxnews.com/us/new-york-dietitian-27-hangs-herself-after-posting-suicide-note
https://www.taracondell.com/
https://www.instagram.com/taracondell/?hl=en
Read about this on Fox News this morning and wondered why this was newsworthy?
More importantly why this death so important? I don't get what's so sad about someone taking the coward's way out.
Rhyme or Reason said:
Humans have been conditioned for 10's thousands of years to to deal with real fear (aka physical danger) while societies have been striving to reduce if not eliminate all the sources of said fear.
Western societies have been extremely successful in accomplishing that without really ever considering what would fill that existential void. Hence the rise of fear of ego and manufactured "problems".
Without the ability to appreciate * the positives of living in the safest, healthiest, easiest, era in the history of human kind people like this woman are often left to ruminate themselves into believing their lives "lacking"
* I wrote in another post
Appreciation is a critical component that is often overlooked and or mis-defined
Ive often used the following analogy when discussing the nature of appreciation*
Imagine if you will a glass of water. Now in that water there are a few particles of something floating around. Maybe just a little dust the wind kicked off the kitchen window sill.
Would you drink it?
Of course not. Youre in the kitchen. You simply dump it, rinse the glass and pour another glass from the filtered water port on the fridge
Most on the forum will recognize this as having "abundance mentality".
But lets change up the hypothetical scenario. Your car breaks down on some remote stretch of road of the Mojave Desert. Your stranded with no cell reception, no provisions and no civilization for 100 miles so you have no choice but to walk out. So you walk for the next 3. 5 days, without food or water and finally stumble across and old abandoned shack. You are at the end of your endurance, cracked tongue and lips from dehydration
You stumble in and there on the counter:
Would you drink it? Of course. Anyone would. And in that extreme moment that less than pristine glass of water would be the best tasting, most satisfying, most appreciated glass of water of your life. Wouldn't it ?
kaotic said:
kaotic said:
I think this speaks to the heart of the depression epidemic. Food, travel, etc. are often tantamount to entertainment as opposed to nourishment although Eat/Pray/Love Thots actively deny this fact. Entertainment is nice but it does not bring fulfillment.
She reminds me of several girls I've dated or been close friends with. They are 100% focused on gratifying their material wants and ultimately wind up lonely and miserable. I think this woman just couldn't lie to herself like most women (and men) do.
re: living in Somalia, comedian Doug Stanhope has a bit about why kids in Somalia don't commit petty crimes like vandalism: "That 12 year old with an AK-47, he's got bigger fish to fry than how to kill time with his buddies" or something to that effect. Humans' neurological reward system is based on filling our basic needs, like food, shelter, defense, reproduction. Take away the process of earning these things, and we go haywire.
Also, OP says she's a 6? I say she's a 7. WB.
The thing that gets me the most is I like her face. Shes cute enough but that's not what I'm talking about... she seems to have a pleasant aura about her. If I saw her at a party I would definitely approach... not so much for the bang but because she has some sort of intrigue that I would want to learn about. She was obviously introverted and a bit nerdy; That's not a bad thing in the modern thot world.
This story has been gnawing at me all day. Not because some random woman hundreds of miles away from me died... but because this shit is happening every single day. Young people who normally would have happy lives, especially intelligent ones such as this woman, are killing themselves in droves. Whether it be intentional or unintentional... Most of the time it is through drugs, alcohol or prescription medication, while other times its more acute. Its becoming more and more difficult in Western society to find a purpose in life... and more and more easy to become nothing more than a materialistic drone.
Sad fucking state of affairs.
This story has been gnawing at me all day. Not because some random woman hundreds of miles away from me died... but because this shit is happening every single day. Young people who normally would have happy lives, especially intelligent ones such as this woman, are killing themselves in droves. Whether it be intentional or unintentional... Most of the time it is through drugs, alcohol or prescription medication, while other times its more acute. Its becoming more and more difficult in Western society to find a purpose in life... and more and more easy to become nothing more than a materialistic drone.
Sad fucking state of affairs.
PapayaTapper said:Rhyme or Reason said:
Humans have been conditioned for 10's thousands of years to to deal with real fear (aka physical danger) while societies have been striving to reduce if not eliminate all the sources of said fear.
Western societies have been extremely successful in accomplishing that without really ever considering what would fill that existential void. Hence the rise of fear of ego and manufactured "problems".
Without the ability to appreciate * the positives of living in the safest, healthiest, easiest, era in the history of human kind people like this woman are often left to ruminate themselves into believing their lives "lacking"
* I wrote in another post
Appreciation is a critical component that is often overlooked and or mis-defined
Ive often used the following analogy when discussing the nature of appreciation*
Imagine if you will a glass of water. Now in that water there are a few particles of something floating around. Maybe just a little dust the wind kicked off the kitchen window sill.
Would you drink it?
Of course not. Youre in the kitchen. You simply dump it, rinse the glass and pour another glass from the filtered water port on the fridge
Most on the forum will recognize this as having "abundance mentality".
But lets change up the hypothetical scenario. Your car breaks down on some remote stretch of road of the Mojave Desert. Your stranded with no cell reception, no provisions and no civilization for 100 miles so you have no choice but to walk out. So you walk for the next 3. 5 days, without food or water and finally stumble across and old abandoned shack. You are at the end of your endurance, cracked tongue and lips from dehydration
You stumble in and there on the counter:
Would you drink it? Of course. Anyone would. And in that extreme moment that less than pristine glass of water would be the best tasting, most satisfying, most appreciated glass of water of your life. Wouldn't it ?
That's a totally wrong take, it totally misses the mark.
Young women and men in America weren't committing suicide and getting depressed at the same rates 50 years ago, back when material abundance was at least as great as it today, and the world and urban environment were actually safer than today.
The difference is not that the world is too safe and too materially rich, the difference is that the social environment is significantly poorer today than it was 50 years ago. And this decline is not a consequence of material satiation, as college debt, spiraling housing costs, underemployment and lack of career prospects are recent problems that have made the economic prospects of young people more precarious than those of their predecessors.
It's the cultural changes that are creating depressed young women and men, and those changes have been deliberately created by social engineering.