I WILL SAY, based on the quoted text, that it sounds to me as though you contracted the services of someone who would have likelier been considered the village WITCH rather than the village midwife (in predominantly Christian communities, these would have often been nuns, and women under their tutelage/standards).
And since the system whereby people are able to essentially BUY the credentials which allow them legally to sell such services to anyone and everyone (no matter how unknown they are to a particular person or community) is the foundation for this experience you had, I don't see how arguing that the same system could prevent this or make it better makes sense.
That would only be the case if this system were geared toward wellness and correct order, and not toward maximum profits for everyone who gets a cut. (Which is the "banker" tie-in that IMO makes this not totally a thread-jack even though we're off in the margins a bit.)
I agree, closer to a witch than what the Bible would have referred to as a midwife. However, here lies the problem:
-we, unfortunately, do not live in predominantly Christian societies. When hiring this woman I was aware she was not a Christian. My mistake was thinking "secular" means "secular" instead of "pagan undertones". Lesson learned. Now I'm apprehensive of seeking help from any alternative medicine providers, since now I wonder if "holistic" (as this midwitch described herself) really means "pagan".
- in all the research I had done prior to hiring, nowhere did the internet even say that it was even a thing. I must have read dozens of articles and they talked about the safety risks, but nowhere was this sex aspect mentioned as an almost requirement. It's hard to be on the lookout for something when we don't know there is something to beware of, and all I ever heard from Christians was positive things.
As for a tie-in to the original banker topic, I do believe there is some serious money going towards this. As I mentioned a few posts ago, in recent times states have been making it easier for unqualified individuals to offer midwife services. If the bankers wanted to shut down any alternatives to the medical industrial complex they would Shut It Down with the full power of the State. The fact that they have not, and if anything have made it easier for it to exist - while these midwives claim persecution - can only mean that they want it to exist as the flipside of the coin.
What they DO NOT want is to overhaul the medical system. They are perfectly fine with a "controlled opposition" parallel system existing. Make the peons think they have options (even though both suck) and all...
(Speculation, of course. Unlike the statistics I posted.)