I agree with this, but I don't think making it a rule or policy is the best thing to do. Some men who don't know how to handle women yet might read this and take it too literally. A lot of the time the problems are HER problem, and you just need to give her some space to let things run their course. If you come from the mindset that you always need to take responsibility and ( fix ) work out those issues together you can end up pushing too much and just creating a whole new set of problems that wasn't there in the first place.It's the other way around. If you can't control something as little as a woman, how are you going to control something as big as a country? And seriously, it's not that hard to keep your woman under control. All you have to do is be firm. It's not like you have to play any mind games or do MKULTRA-level mind control. They will naturally fall in line if you're not a cuck.
Case in point, how many married men just give up and go sleep on the couch when their wife is mad at them? That's the wrong thing to do. You stay in your bed, because it's your damn bed. If she has a problem with that, she can go sleep on the couch. Of course, don't be unempathic; you should both have a strict, agreed-upon policy that the two of you never go to sleep mad at each other, so you can work out those issues. She's your wife, and you should love her and treat her well, but it also goes the other way. You're her husband (and thus head of the family) so she should love you, treat you well, and respect you.
Thinking you can't stop until you have worked it out can do more damage than good. With this rule backing off would be considered failure.
9 times out of 10 if you offered your logical input and shes still stuck/angry/sad then things get resolved just from withdrawing yourself. sidestep the drama. I do recommend just going to bed and sleep if that is what you feel like, just be real. Men need to stop caring so much and put themselves FIRST if they want their girl to start following.
Its just like with children, a child that falls down will look to their parents to see how it should respond to the event. If you make a big drama out of it the child is going to scream and cry, the same will happen with your girl. By saying we can't go to sleep until something is resolved automatically puts it into very serious problem category and her emotions will be amped up.
This only works if you have a feminine, submissive girl that is invested in not loosing you though. If you don't have this then you messed up already long before going to bed angry.
Let her keep ruminating in whatever shes feeling until she cracks and opens the floodgates, she will not let you fall asleep because she needs your attention to resolve her emotions, all you have to do is just receive whatever she needs to get out and be a shoulder to cry on. If i'm mad at her the first thing i will do is just go to sleep and withdraw if that is what i want to do.
For that 1 out of 10 potentially relationship ending discussions no one will be thinking about going to sleep because its clear that would be the end, if you care about each other you stay until its concluded or agreed to continue at a later time, you don't need a rule for this.