Being a scrub after college again?

[Lime]

I became a "scrub" after college, that, is the reason I joined this forum.

Because I was an athlete, I got lots of quality p*ssy in college. After college, I got a regular construction job and all the p*ssy was gone. I went from being surrounded by young girls to being surrounded by old men. (This is the access that Scorpion describes)

The frustration began to set in... Where could I meet hot, young girls? How could I seduce them if I'm not in their social circle?

I would work all day and come home tired. I was making money but I would literally go days and weeks without talking to pretty young girls.

This went on for 2 years, my frustration grew and grew. I did not have much sex for those 2 years.

Eventually, I went back to graduate school and my sex life returned.

But, then, after graduate school, the problem returned..

I was back in the working world and I did not have regular access to pretty, young girls.

My sexual frustration began to set in again. I was 30 years old and I had practically zero access to hot college girls. I felt trapped. I didn't have much sex for a few years.

Finally, I went to Brazil for 6 months to try and relieve my frustration. As a tourist in Brazil, things were much better.

I returned home and my sex life again dried up.

I got a job on a college campus and I was surrounded by hot girls but I was too scared to try and bang them, I didn't want to get fired.

After about 2 years of that, I said "fuck it". I decided that I would start trying to bang the students at my college and I didn't care if I got fired or not. I was sick and tired of being lonely and sexless.

I started banging students. It was a lot of fun. Thank God I never got in trouble.

Then, that very same year (2010) I joined the forum and started doing "approaches".

I decided that I was going to do whatever it takes to start banging college girls.

I started going to university and college campuses a few times a week, sometimes, I went 5 days a week.

Gio,

you had fame and a lot of girls on high school and early college years.

Yet, in your later years, you had a lack of sex with cute girls and decided to work for it to get more.

What is it worth to get a lot of girls when young if you don't get much when you are older? Something to reminisce on, sure.

But the fact that you actively decided to pursue them says enough.

Do the memories of sex with hot college girls in your youth still make you happy, or do you live in the moment where it is not so important what you did in the past but more what you are doing now?

In other words, what does a lot of good sex in your youth means when you are older? A person may have had 50 lays in college but if he is trapped in a shitty lifestyle not conducive to meeting girls afterwards, what is it worth?

While I didn't do bad, regrets of underachieving game-wise due to different factors (including serious schoolwork) haunt me. But I try to understand that it is more important to get girls now than what I did in the past.

It's difficult to put these thoughts into writing, but I can beat myself up so badly about underachieving in college that I wonder I can ever repair that feeling. I sometimes do as if having had a good sex life in college is the most important thing in the world, and if I fail that, it will fill me with regret all my life.

 

[scorpion]

It's difficult to put these thoughts into writing, but I can beat myself up so badly about underachieving in college that I wonder I can ever repair that feeling. I sometimes do as if having had a good sex life in college is the most important thing in the world, and if I fail that, it will fill me with regret all my life.

Fuck off with this attitude. It's toxic. Somewhere in the world a few guys your exact age are going to die prematurely today. Other men your age are living with crippling disabilities or disfigurement. You don't get to wallow in self-pity because you didn't get laid in the past as much as you'd like. Disgustingly solipsistic. Slap yourself across the face a few times, you need to snap out of it.

The past is dead. The only thing that matters is your mindset moving forward.

 

[Lime]

^ you are right scorpion, and I havent had it that bad (30+ notches including quite some cute girls now in mid 20s).

Maybe I need some perspective as I maybe had it pretty good actually. Sometimes difficult to understand. If anyone has a technique to get rid of this mindset please share.

 

[dallasguy]

Get over it and live for the present and future. There is more to life than banging dozens of college chicks. If you can still game them then fine. If not then girls 23 to 28 still look fine if all you want is pussy. We all get older. Will you be crying when you're 70 and can't bang college girls?

 

[Giovonny]

Gio,

What is it worth to get a lot of girls when young if you don't get much when you are older?

Yes, it was worth it -- but, I would also say that it's better to get girls when you are older versus when you are younger because when you are younger you don't appreciate it as much.

Do the memories of sex with hot college girls in your youth still make you happy,

Yes.

But, I don't have to rely on "memories"... I have a vast collection of X-rated pictures and video.

do you live in the moment where it is not so important what you did in the past but more what you are doing now?

Yes, I live in the present.

I don't really care about the past.

In other words, what does a lot of good sex in your youth means when you are older?

I have some good memories to jerk off too.

A person may have had 50 lays in college but if he is trapped in a shitty lifestyle not conducive to meeting girls afterwards, what is it worth?

Sex life in college should have no effect on professional success.

Your work today should not be limited by your sex life in the past.

But I try to understand that it is more important to get girls now than what I did in the past.

Ummm, yeah, the present is more important than the past!!

I wonder if I can ever repair that feeling.

You CAN repair it!

How??

Banging college girls!!!

Dude, you are in your 20s!!!

Stop living in the past and go learn how to fuck girls!!!

When I was in your position I was approaching college girls everyday!!!

How many college girls are you talking to everyday?!?!?

 

[Thrill Jackson]

I spent my whole 20's working and making money.

It's the biggest regret I have.

What I should of done is made just enough money to eat and travel.

And have all my possessions fit into 2 suitcase.

But what about stability? That is my biggest fear when it comes to saying fuck it and traveling the world. (I'm 22 btw)

 

[Conquerer7]

I spent my whole 20's working and making money.

It's the biggest regret I have.

What I should of done is made just enough money to eat and travel.

And have all my possessions fit into 2 suitcase.

But what about stability? That is my biggest fear when it comes to saying fuck it and traveling the world. (I'm 22 btw)

In what context does stability come for you? In terms of a job you could have no experience or all the experience in the World today there is no job security.