being good looking

[Rocco81]

Well that is they key bro...he "talks" to them..he has some kind of game. And the Italian (I'm assuming not Jersey Shore accent) is a big plus too.

I knew a guy like that from England. Dressed real well, but similar look to me in the face and structure. Most importantly he made his foreign thing work for him. He knew what to say and how to make them smile. Also the fact that he was foreign gave him extra leeway with his game. With American chics he could reach out and touch the chin, hug, kiss on cheek way quicker than I could because the girls thought it was "European" of him to do so.

 

[Giovonny]

lots of talk here about being good looking vs being average looking and blah blah blah..

The way i see it, its a simple as this...

The better looking you are the more girls are gonna like you...Girls like things that look cute, hot, sexy, furry, fuzzy, shiny, glittery, sparkely, etc.

So the moral is this, work on your looks, !!!

Take care of your body, skin, teeth, hair, etc.

Work on your fashion game and find a look that is attractive to girls. Too many guys dress like they don't care or dress to fit in with their buddies.

Have your female freinds help you to optimize your look.

Better looking guys have it much easier, we all know that.

and yes, I know, conversational skills are important too, WORK ON BOTH!

 

[HD668B]

lots of talk here about being good looking vs being average looking and blah blah blah..

The way i see it, its a simple as this...

The better looking you are the more girls are gonna like you...Girls like things that look cute, hot, sexy, furry, fuzzy, shiny, glittery, sparkely, etc.

goodlooking = eye contacts (or being approached if the girl is drunk)

thats it

i look like a model and without game I didnt get laid AT ALL in high school

 

[Kickb]

^^ same. Me not getting laid was due to being incredibly shy.

 

[FretDancer]

I agree as well, I consider myself good looking and girls rarely approach. I've learned that even if girls are attracted to you physically they will rarely approach, not even indirectly.

 

[Kickb]

This girl indirectly approached me at work yesterday.

I was putting makeup back on the shelf that people didnt buy from the day before when i saw a girl (looked like a senior in highschool) walk towards me. She briefly came by me while i put stuff up and looked around for a second and left. A few minuets later she came back and i asked her if she wanted anything out of my cart. I didnt realize that what i held in my hand and asked if she wanted it was actually a yogurt flavored...dog treat bone... pretty much ended the conversation. BUT! atleast i said something eh

 

[oldnemesis]

The better looking you are the more girls are gonna like you...Girls like things that look cute, hot, sexy, furry, fuzzy, shiny, glittery, sparkely, etc.

Different girls like different things. Being good-looking will increase your pool the same way as having status does; it will also increase your value. However this is not enough, most of those girls still would not approach you and offer to suck your dick - you still have to do some work. This also has very temporary effect - if you manage to talk to a girl for over an hour, looks typically do not matter anymore at that point.

Also looks is not something I'd waste my time working on, besides correcting major flaws like being obese, or wearing clean clothes. Better put your efforts to make more money.

 

[BB_Jenkins]

This girl indirectly approached me at work yesterday.

I was putting makeup back on the shelf that people didnt buy from the day before when i saw a girl (looked like a senior in highschool) walk towards me. She briefly came by me while i put stuff up and looked around for a second and left. A few minuets later she came back and i asked her if she wanted anything out of my cart. I didnt realize that what i held in my hand and asked if she wanted it was actually a yogurt flavored...dog treat bone... pretty much ended the conversation. BUT! atleast i said something eh

LMAO... Scooby Snacks

 

[D. Goodnuts]

Smiling and peacocking often help to enhance your looks. Just try not to use your good looks as a crutch. I tend to generally blow chicks away with charm and intellect more than I rely on my looks.

 

[Gmac]

Smiling and peacocking often help to enhance your looks. Just try not to use your good looks as a crutch. I tend to generally blow chicks away with charm and intellect more than I rely on my looks.

Agreed. Peacocking and good looks should be used for initial attraction and approaching.

 

[mangadooza]

You just have to exceed a relatively low threshold of attractiveness. As long as you're presentable and not a beast, looks are insignificant in comparison to other factors.

To really benefit from good looks to the point where you can rely on it as a crutch, you'd have to be in the top .5% percentile of men. Male model, Orlando Bloom type shit. The downside here is that tons of women disqualify themselves from entering a LTR with you out of insecurity, fear of being cheated on, and whatnot. But they do have a very easy time with flings -- plenty of girls want to be sexually validated by having a "gorgeous" guy sleep with them. Attractiveness beneath that level is only a slight advantage.

 

[Dueyz]

Visual stimulus is powerful for all of us. To say that looks mean everything is incorrect. To say that looks mean nothing is incorrect. A person's visual appearance is as important as all other factors that help us determine attraction. Western society continues to draw double standards here.

-If you're a Jew and aren't attracted to a Catholic, it's ok.
-If you want kids and aren't attracted to someone who doesn't, that's ok.
-If you enjoy eating meat and aren't attracted to a vegetarian, that's ok.


-If you aren't overweight and aren't attracted to someone who is, you're shallow.
-If you aren't unattractive and aren't attracted to someone who is, you're shallow.
-If you are someone who takes pride in their appearance and aren't attracted to someone who doesn't, you're shallow.


In a society where appearance standards are not improving, we're being told it's not ok to base any part of attraction upon looks. It's more than ok; it's natural, normal, and healthy.

 

[Dueyz]

Dont be stupid offcourse it makes a major difference but what women like is very versatile and broad compared to guys I think, so there is still room for everyone... Women are basicly freaks, who knows what they want except the obviously moviestar looks, some like skinny, some like surfer types, some like artsy type... some like huge bodybuilding, some like innocent boys..

Besides make an impression and all the sudden they think your good looking.. or bla bla, same deal with being good looking and boring, probably land you some bangs, but women will ditch you.

Where is this "Stop banging fat chicks" membership?

 

[Dueyz]

I dig Roosh's writings on this topic...It doesn't matter if you're a female stripper or a male model. Eventually, life will steal those looks away from you, and if you haven't developed your character (or game), you're fucked.

At least a few good looking men in America still develop some character. Much fewer hot women in America develop any character at all. They don't need to. Westernized men spend so much time kissing their asses that they never have the need to.

These women are so sought after that they've learned that all they need to do is eat food, breathe air, and make poop to get what they desire.

It isn't easy, but I try to follow Roosh's approach (which I trult believe in on this matter), and treat overly beautiful women no differently than anyone else. 99% of the time, they dismiss me because they know there's a long line of stupid jerkoffs waiting to kiss their ass. But I feel good knowing 2 things; (1) The other 1% will like me more for treating them this way. (2) I've done my part to help the overall cause by not supporting the other 99%.