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Message: <blockquote data-quote="questor70" data-source="post: 1299227" data-attributes="member: 12560"><p>You don't want to set such a low bar that you begin to feel your wife is an interchangeable part with nothing about her that makes her compatible or interesting outside of SMV.  Women are women but there are still differences.  I think time pressure being what it is (even for men) that the tendency is to settle.  It's not that I say I believe in a one and only soulmate but I really do think being selective can net you someone who you'll find more engaging and interesting over time rather than just a glorified roommate and f-buddy.  Even if you go out with the guys you're gonna spend enough time with your wife that you want there to be something there besides a warm body.</p></blockquote><p></p>