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<blockquote data-quote="mgill0600" data-source="post: 1349344" data-attributes="member: 11766">I'm married, just turned 40, have two kids and still struggle with the same thoughts you have ever since I learned I'm capable of attracting women.&nbsp; I don't think kids will necessarily make these thoughts go away as some have suggested.&nbsp; I quoted thedream's post because for me this has been the most accurate depiction of my problem.&nbsp; Love is absolutely a choice, it may start with physical attraction but in every single case that initial attraction fades.&nbsp; If you do &quot;choose&quot; to love this person, children will give you a mission and give her life a purpose.&nbsp; Also, pray, study the bible, join a church and make her do those things with you.&nbsp; Pray for God to direct your desire to your wife, and attempt to disconnect from the constant barrage of sex our modern society forces upon us.&nbsp; Seductive and suggestive imagery is damn near everywhere and makes it very hard to be happy with what you have in terms of a woman.If you choose not to love this woman and build a life with her, for all that is holy please end things with her for both your sakes and potential future children's sake.&nbsp; Whatever you do, do not have kids with this woman and a few years later decide that wasn't the answer you were searching for after all and then decide to blow up the family to go bang turbo sluts.I'll pray for you to find what you seek friend.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="mgill0600, post: 1349344, member: 11766"] I'm married, just turned 40, have two kids and still struggle with the same thoughts you have ever since I learned I'm capable of attracting women. I don't think kids will necessarily make these thoughts go away as some have suggested. I quoted thedream's post because for me this has been the most accurate depiction of my problem. Love is absolutely a choice, it may start with physical attraction but in every single case that initial attraction fades. If you do "choose" to love this person, children will give you a mission and give her life a purpose. Also, pray, study the bible, join a church and make her do those things with you. Pray for God to direct your desire to your wife, and attempt to disconnect from the constant barrage of sex our modern society forces upon us. Seductive and suggestive imagery is damn near everywhere and makes it very hard to be happy with what you have in terms of a woman. If you choose not to love this woman and build a life with her, for all that is holy please end things with her for both your sakes and potential future children's sake. Whatever you do, do not have kids with this woman and a few years later decide that wasn't the answer you were searching for after all and then decide to blow up the family to go bang turbo sluts. I'll pray for you to find what you seek friend. [/QUOTE]

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