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<blockquote data-quote="MovingForward2050" data-source="post: 1350932" data-attributes="member: 18126">From what the OP said, his wife did not cheat during the separation. Instead, he was the one who cheated. Reading his words, it makes me think of my biological father, who was cut from the same cloth. An attractive guy, good with women, who found monogamy to be painfully constricting and boring.OP, what I have to say to you, is that your life experience is probably going to mirror my father. That is, to be happy, you will leave your wife, but then as an older/old man, you will feel deep regret at what you did with your life.It is far better for you to be single, than being married and bringing children into the world, if you are extremely unhappy and likely to divorce their mom. You need to make the hard right choice...Are you screwed? Well, yes, but that is who you are, and so that is your probable fate. I just don't see how you can avoid it, short of a deep religious conversation and meeting a different woman who is a better match and can keep you on your toes and captivated, which is unlikely.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="MovingForward2050, post: 1350932, member: 18126"] From what the OP said, his wife did not cheat during the separation. Instead, he was the one who cheated. Reading his words, it makes me think of my biological father, who was cut from the same cloth. An attractive guy, good with women, who found monogamy to be painfully constricting and boring. OP, what I have to say to you, is that your life experience is probably going to mirror my father. That is, to be happy, you will leave your wife, but then as an older/old man, you will feel deep regret at what you did with your life. It is far better for you to be single, than being married and bringing children into the world, if you are extremely unhappy and likely to divorce their mom. You need to make the hard right choice... Are you screwed? Well, yes, but that is who you are, and so that is your probable fate. I just don't see how you can avoid it, short of a deep religious conversation and meeting a different woman who is a better match and can keep you on your toes and captivated, which is unlikely. [/QUOTE]

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