hydrogonian said:To generalize (as in I know I'm generalizing), that's why I consider them to be too much work. That requirement to "put them back in their place" seems to be unceasing. No matter how you act or who you are, you'll get constantly challenged. I'm just too laid back for it, although I can manage it for a while if motivated. The other part of that is that most black women seem to be used to simps or making simps out of men. If a man won't yield to that power dynamic, eventually, it seems to casue an irreparable division in the relationship. I'll never be a simp. It's just not in me.
They can be fun, though. And when you get a hot one, there's nothing else that matches that overall experience. They do like me based on intitial compatability (mostly based in fun, dancing, fucking, and other activities). However, in the end, we seem to be incompatable.
This is EXACTLY my point of view. I've honestly come to conclude that I am largely incompatible with Black american women.
It isn't a lack of attraction-on the contrary, most of my college dating career has been focused on Black girls. At the end of the day, however, we really just can't get along for more than a short while. If it isn't because I'm too "white" or "lame" for them personality wise, then its because I a) never yield to their constant, never-ending tests or b) get tired of facing said tests. Even when they like you, they seem to feel this undying need to avoid just letting things flow, lest they appear at all "submissive" (and we all know they "ain't takin' shit from no man", much less a black one).
Like Hydro, I'm just FAR to laid back for this. Pussy isn't worth that kind of effort in my world.
hydrogonian said:Again, you don't know what WASP culture is, apparently. I went to the WASPiest of WASP prep schools, and I have some WASPS in my family through marriage, and trust me, it in no way shape or form did my school or extended family members embody the broader culture of black america.
Most WASPS form traditional WASP culture see poor whites, or new money, as separate from their culture (or uncultured). Most white neither apsire to true WASP culture nor are they particullary aware of it. If they become more status conscious, then perhaps they gain some awareness. Many poor blacks seem to be more status conscious then poor whites, and therefore perhaps they take it upon themselves to be more "WASP aware" and they mirror what they believe that culture to be (how its advertised to them). However, the deeper cultural mechanisms of that culture remain a mystery to most whites (and most people not raised in it). I'm still learning myself, if for no other reason but to interact with my broader secondary school alumni network. You have to be raised in it, or trained, to get it, generally, and they are experts at recognizing outsiders. If you miss a social cue, then you've fucked up.
Precisely.
Some people in here are misunderstanding and/or misusing the term WASP quite blatantly. As someone who is at an Ivy League school ( one that is the whitest and arguably WASPiest of the ancient 8), I 100% back this description.
True WASPs (defined properly by the terms colloquial meanings/origins) and their socio-economic compatriots (many wealthy Jewish, Catholic and even Hispanic families who, though not technically White Anglo-Saxon Persons, have adopted most of the cultural traits and are similarly socio-economically elite) are a whole different breed of people. They have very little to do (and quite frankly want very little to do) with black culture.