Bumble bans male user

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porscheguy

Ostrich
I don't like it when the first question from a woman's mouth is "what do you do for a living?" It is a form of pre-qualifying. OTOH, it's been so ingrained in them, that they can't really help doing it. You can play it to your advantage to build their interest while also training them to understand that it comes off as gold digging. Ideally, you can work them into a frenzy not knowing if you're the guy who cleans up dog shit at the park, or if you've got a high paying, high profile career.

This guy sperged the fuck out when he started calling her a whore and whatnot.
 

N°6

Hummingbird
I hate being asked about what I do for a living during the first few messages. It definitely displays a lack of class.

I hate it even more when banter or rapport is suddenly broken with, "So...what do you do for a living?"

It is the first question a woman's friends will ask her if she informs them that she's met someone.
 

N°6

Hummingbird
¨^thanks, I am just out of bed. Edited. Well the woman clearly has no class. I would have reacted to that or just deleted her. I got tired of having my CV analysed on dating apps a long time ago. At least in a real job interview, there is a prize on the table.
 

Speculation

Kingfisher
Protestant
Asking WDYD in such a clumsy way for a girl is like a guy straight up asking if she's got any more pics.

She acted as autistic as he did.
 
He didn't deserve to be banned. That's ridiculous. Free speech entitles men to be a cunt in much the same way it entitles blue haired SJW's to be a cunt online as well.

It is a private platform. There's no free speech protection. They can and should choose who they want or don't want on their platform. Let the free market decide.

Nobody should be a cunt to anybody else. If you don't approve of the management of a particular site or app, then find an alternative.
 
This guy has a cringeworthy meltdown. I often ask girls what do they do - if they're artists, yoga teachers, actors, writers then I use that as an interesting topic of conversation.

But fuck Bumble. Exposing a user like that is very unprofessional. They must be a failing company if they're willing to show user chat logs for a bit of attention.
 

HankMoody

 
Banned
Any guy who feels the need to get upset over online dating drama is a loser.

If you don't like the interaction, simply don't engage in it anymore like a man. Females get upset and motional.
 

Graft

Kingfisher
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Gold Member
The guy fucked up by letting himself be exposed. But i'm not going to sit here and pretend that my frame has been 100% when some sloot acts like an asshole.

The women are playing with us on these dating apps. I've gotten hundreds of matches and numbers and single digit bangs. The sloots just use it as a pipeline for attention.
 

Graft

Kingfisher
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Gold Member
Rush87 said:
He didn't deserve to be banned. That's ridiculous. Free speech entitles men to be a cunt in much the same way it entitles blue haired SJW's to be a cunt online as well.

I'm surprised so many people are backing 'Bumble' on this. An adult, or as a minimum, someone resembling a normal human would just block and move onto the next one. Thousands of men do this daily when 'Sarah Silverslut' gets opened on Tinder & acts like a pretentious twat.

He should absolutely have the right to call her out on this. I don't trust women with the screenshots, the pics, the doxxing, could end bad if a girl pisses you off too much, as seen here.

Bumble did the smart thing by "protecting" the woman in public, but it was a sinister move to completely doxx the guy.
 

Gustavus Adolphus

Kingfisher
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I don't know how many there are in total, but I see shit all the time on Instagram in the Explore section where anonymous women put a ton of guys on blast for anything and everything- they don't blur out names or faces, complete disregard for anonymity if they don't like the guy. They encourage people to submit their "worst offenders", all for attention, likes, and followers. All in the name of Online Dating Problems.
 

aletheia

Chicken
I'd take even unfriendly odds that this was staged.

Evidence that it's staged:

-'Connor's' utter lack of tact. Autistic levels of straightforwardness/bluntness. How many aspergies are pulling down 300k in finance? It's clearly a very bad trait to have in such a field.
-Misuse of the word 'prescribe' - unlikely with a ND education and a 300k/yr gig. 'Adhere' or a synonym was the proper diction.
-'neo liberal, Beyonce, feminist cancer which plagues society' - just way too much anti-PC cliche/mustard in this sentence for it to be authentic.
-A few too many spelling/diction/stylistic blunders from both. The idea being to make the 'exchange' seem authentic.
-Her maintenance of state control. An actual woman would react more defensively to a dude being that much of a dick. But she continues on as a meek, oppressed little flower just trying to explain herself and give 'Connor' a chance.

Wolfe is extremely ambitious and a snake. And in today's environment, documenting an 'incident' like this would definitely raise Bumble's profile.
 

Saweeep

 
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kaotic said:
Dude lost it, it's simple as that.

Never take a bitch like that seriously, you tease her.

"Oh I'm just a stripper, paying off student loans"

"I'm unemployed, playing video games in my mommy's basement"

"I actual work the corners from 9PM to 4AM"

I mean I can go on and on on shit I've replied with to bitches who ask me.

I've given vague statements about my job description and immediately change the subject.

Half the girls don't know what I really do until I'm on the first date with them.

I even tell some of them that I don't really tell people what I do until I meet them in person.

To take this even further, women love not knowing what you do, as long as you interest them.
 
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