Chick describes never having had an orgasm

[MrXY]

On topic:

I've noticed the more feminine girls I've been with have come easier. Somebody else mentioned it, girls who are submitting will have better sex.

Girls orgasm more easily and often with a dominant man. They also are more vocal when having sex with a dominant man

 

[MidniteSpecial]

Yup. I've also come across a few girls who claimed they never had an orgasm.

One was a Xanax popper so that made sense to me.

The others had few previous sexual partners.

A lot of times it's in there head. I got a girl to cum who never had before by telling her (while I was fucking her) "it's okay if you don't come. It's okay if you don't. It's not a big deal. There's no pressure on you to cum right now." Etc. basically I was reverse mind fucking her while fucking her. Worth a shot if your girl is the type who can't cum.

Also if you care about this kind of thing keep in mind girls take longer to cum than dudes and rely on more mental stimulation sometimes rather than physical.

 

[Nascimento]

What are some signs she is being submissive/sees you as dominant in sex?

I know it seems obvious. But I'm looking to hear some specifics. Surely some women have sex with men they don't submit to/see as dominant?

I want to be able to maximize my dominance and her submission. I know all girls love this, but it might take different strokes for each one. Wondering what are the sure signs/feedback you are expressing dominance properly.

 

[cardguy]

A good one is to pull on her hair.

It works.

 

[Timoteo]

I wonder if she's really had a pro go to work on her. Has she only tried to orgasm from intercourse (some can't just from dick, but need strong clitoral stimulation), or has she had a dude try to eat/finger her off? Has she had a dude to get in there with two fingers and get at that G-spot?

 

[iknowexactly]

What are some signs she is being submissive/sees you as dominant in sex?

I've had different experiences. One girl who was about 20 remarked that she had fantasized about being tied up ever since she was a young child and saw people tied up on TV! (Which would have been about 35 years ago) She had a lot of trouble orgasming, and said she'd only come once while tied up by a guy.

Another didn't realize she was a submissive until she was about 40. i was fucking her when she was 50.

She said she realized she was a sub when her boyfriend was fucking her up the ass, she decided she didn't like it and asked him to stop. He wouldn't stop, and she said it turned her on hugely being quasi-raped.

All this was pre pervasive internet porn. It was a lot more fun to treat a girl filthy because it really was something new to the participants.

 

[cardguy]

Women enjoy being dominated.

How many more copies of 50 Shades of Grey need to be sold before guys realise this?

 

[MidniteSpecial]

There is a fine line between dominating and being too rough. You still have to have a nice touch.

Be a bear but a gentle one. Think of father bear throwing around kiddie bears.

 

[cardguy]

Yeah - I agree.

That is why pulling a chicks hair is just the right balance. Just stop doing it a couple of seconds after it starts to hurt.