Does anyone have any advice on how to attract a
specific woman? I tried looking into Roosh's earlier works, but they were mostly for hooking up with women in general, and I'm looking more for a long term relationship.
How do I get this girl to notice and like me?
To be honest I don't have a lot going for me. I'm kind of ugly and not exceptionally funny, plus I don't see her that often (we sit nearby in two classes and that's it).
I'm also pretty much socially retarded.
Does anyone have anything that can help me out?
Any tricks to stand out from the crowd, make myself desirable, or get closer to a specific person without coming off as weird? For context I am a young teenage guy who's still in high school.
Not to sound too pathetic but the
romantic loneliness is eating me up inside and I'm completely touch starved. I feel like this is someone I
need so any help is appreciated
I'm going to take a bit of an alternative approach here, with my secular red pill knowledge of male/female relationships intertwined.
First of all, I got the impression that you might be trolling saying you're socially retarded and so on, but I'll give you the benefit of the doubt. When you're your age there's no value you can offer a woman. A men's value to a woman primarily is derived from his character/success/masculinity, for a woman this is beauty/fertility/desirable behavior/chastity. So, what I'd advice you strongly is go and build your value, don't worry about the one (called ''oneites'' in old school game spheres, which is a Disney fairy tale delusion, your approach towards love/women should be more duty/responsibility driven, not too much the romantic fairy tale nonsense the West has fed you). If you're touch starved and you need someone, understand that needing something decreases value completely, there's nothing less attractive then someone needing something. Think about it, when someone comes up to you on the street and just wants to take something from you without offering something, you're likely to run away as fast as possible. Think of what you can give, not what you can take, and probably at this time in your life you just can't give that much.
So it's time to study and do things in the real world my man. Study this forum, the works that are mentioned, the links and websites that are provided, start to understand people who do what you want to do on a high level so you'll have good rolemodels and frameworks. Go to the gym, learn learn learn, study the Bible, grow in your spiritual life, build a social network, come into your masculinity by becoming a strong man who can take adversity, lead a woman, family and community, has boundaries, takes care of problems, is not a whiney crybaby, has rules and enforces them towards a woman/others around him, is respected by others. Then the women will become interested in you as a byproduct and you'll be able to find a good wife and choose, come from a position of abundance instead of scarcity like you do now, where you're thirsting for a drop of water in the desert. I had to learn all these lessons the hard way, and mostly through intense studying, so I wouldn't say I personally am the best example (I live single and never have been in a serious relationship), but I understand the underlaying frameworks of how all of this works very well. To study I'd recommend watching a couple of Fresh and Fit podcasts, I know this is a secular source but for your overall understanding of how male/female polarity is maximized (also with negative consequences obviously) in a liberalized sexual marketplace without marriage, monogamy and structure, this is a very insightful source. Also watch some stuff of Rollo Tomassi, The rational male, same idea: understanding the realities of male/female dynamics. Then you've got to take this and incorporate that in a Christian framework, a good source is Church of the Eternal logos, who has great streams on masculinity (e.g. Christian masculinity, check youtube). I also started a thread called Christian masculinity in the Orthodox subforum so check that out.
What I gather is that you, like many of us including myself growing up in the West are a very humble dude, who needs a bit of understanding of how the world really works, a kick in the back so to speak, and then developing yourself in a man who would even be qualified to be the leader of a woman/family. That doesn't just happen, men have got to work for it, especially if they didn't had that masculine, traditional rolemodel. The past days where everything was set up for you in a healthy, traditional society have long gone, so the earlier you wake up to this reality and that you've got to put effort in the better, and the more problems it'll avoid along the line, because without a solid understanding of this stuff you may very well be wrecked in marriage down the line. Good luck!
