Cuckold Fetish

[JayJuanGee]

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What happened in 2007? Something special.


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I think he is referring to the launch of the first Iphone, that was the point people started to watch more and more porn due to the larger screen and high quality image, before that the idea of watching videos on phone was rare, more phone had very small screen (think the popular Sony Ericsson w300), also the Iphone made homemade porn bigger, the Iphone in 2007 made watching porn almost everywhere a thing.

That makes some sense, even though there is probably quite a bit of exaggeration of the problem, and even took a couple of years before regular folks adopted Iphones... or even smartphone's with decent screens ... maybe 2009 or 2010-ish...

The online, and now mobile phone porn phenomenon is interesting. I'd love to watch a documentary on it.

I was a kid in the pre-internet era and was a teenager in the dawn of its common use and back then porn was akin to drug use. It was sort of under the table, you had to go out and get it and people really frowned upon it.

You literally had to walk into the curtained "adults only" section of the video store to get a video and then whats the most that you had...2 hours of video and you were attached to your VCR/TV in order to watch it. The novelty wore off quickly.

Now, you can watch thousands of hours of video wherever you are with literally no age or content restrictions. Parallel it to cigarettes pre 1980s. You could smoke anywhere, anytime and pretty much at any age. As you smoked, you went from 1 a day to a pack a day to pack(s) a day...you also had to buy the higher nicotene content all the way up to the heavy tar 'specials'. That is what porn is now. Its a cheap and unregulated drug.

Since we are walking down memory lane a little bit, I want to add a few memories that spring to mind regarding my various porn experiences.

When I was in high school (early 80s), I recall coming across stashes of porn mags (not easy to come by, but could find them in the trucks of workers or in other hidden places of guys).. I would look for these stashes when I got opportunities, and sometimes share the contents with guy friends (and trade a bit to the extent that it was not mostly a kind of hidden activity). Smaller towns probably did not really have easy access to this and even vhs - but bigger cities would certainly have vhs porn in the 90s, maybe even earlier. I did not really begin pursuing VHS porn until late 90s, and yeah probably by the 2005 or so time frame broadband speeds definitely increased. I'm still not sure if porn is ruining america because of its increased prevalence, ease and even seeming severity of fetishes..

 

[Latinopan]

You would think that with sexuality and mating being such a core aspect of human behavior that there would be more academic studies on the various kinks and fetishes that occur out there in the sexual market place. However, it appears that there really isn't. I suspect it's because it's too politically sensitive a topic for social scientists.

One female sexologist I read about (I don't remember her name but I think she worked at a Canadian university) said that after a study of hers found that a majority of women had rape fantasies, she received death threats and was not invited to present her study results at a conference as usual.

The denialism is hilarious - look at how well 50 Shades of Grey sold. Look at how many of the top-selling female romance novels feature rape or 'domination' fantasies. In fact some of the romance novels of the 1970s and before featured full-on rape; in the plots the woman actually "hoped" the male would rape her so she should have sex with him while still preserving her chastity.

The one thing I've yet to see however is an erotic romance novel featuring a vegan, Birkenstock-wearing, male social justice warrior. Most women would fantasize about being raped by Charles Manson or Adolf Hitler before fantasizing about consensual sex with the former, lol

It's like some prudish, ultraconservative Christian men pretending that men never masturbate or have any 'lustful thoughts' about anyone other than their wife.

In the "Story of O" and many from the same time the female after becoming sub for a dominant male she would be require to recruit other females, the dom therefore builds a harem.

Many romance novels implement the idea of taking a women with a particular set of belief and becoming a sub for a man with a complete opposite belief.

Force pregnancy and birth were the climax of romance novels back then, because the cultural change in the West that is not longer so open, but Japanese Anime porn has grown in popularity with women because as animation they are able to do things that in real life would be difficult, there is a term in in Anime porn called "fucked until they love you", a dominant males will rape a female under his power (doctor-nurse, CEO-secretary) until the point where she loves him endless.

What 50 Shades of Grey has done is taken old form of romance novels that reveal women desire for domination and submission and camouflage them the banner of "embrace their sexuality" because "she is the one in control".

Is a great marketing strategy for good money.

I suspect that most of the dudes with a cuckold fetish feel their woman is somehow beyond their league or else feel that somehow she is beyond them, and that's why they're so turned on by seeing her banged by more dominant dudes. I doubt that in most cases they choose some SJW, low-T, dipshit to bang their wives. That's why, even though it may seem at first to support the feminist narrative, why social scientists, who are predominantly Marxists, haven't published any studies on it, because it supports red pill philosophy.

And that's the reason why most of the guys in this forum can't relate, because we're the ones who do the fucking, not getting fucked.

I guess it has to do with what scorpion said, porn addiction has leads to a dysfunctional generation of men.

Men are visual animals, just 50-60 years ago seeing a tit was a glorious day to remember, now every man has a 24/7 visual simulation for sexual gratification in their hands sorted by categories, this is not normal, men are not supposed to have an infinite amount of stimulation available because reduce their desire to improve human interaction with actual women.

You think porn is hard? wait when sex robot become a normal thing.

 

[Malo]

These type of fantasies like cuckold start at a very young age, they have nothing to do with porn.

There are hundreds of porn categories, why do people find themselves attracted to a certain type and not another?

If you watch a ton of gay porn, you think you'll start liking men? No.

 

[Ozy]

I 100% believe that most cuckold fetishists are closeted gay guys. Believe me, LOTS of gay guys end up marrying women. Just go on any porn website and search for cuckold. It is 100% focused on the guy, especially his dick and ass. There is plenty of straight porn marketed towards gay guys with the camera focusing on the guy.

Lots of gay guys are drama queens and get off on doing anything nasty that gets a rise out of people. They also get off on degrading women in a weird way. You'd be surprised how much casual distaste for women they have.

 

[XPQ22]

Just go on any porn website and search for cuckold. It is 100% focused on the guy, especially his dick and ass. There is plenty of straight porn marketed towards gay guys with the camera focusing on the guy.

I will have to accept the conclusions of your research.

 

[Straw Hat Pirate]

Ok, enough stories. We need a datasheet, where do these people congregate?

 

[philosophical_recovery]

Ok, enough stories. We need a datasheet, where do these people congregate?

 

[Straw Hat Pirate]

Lol, what can I say? Banging a married chick is on the bucket list, for science of course.

 

[XPQ22]

Lol, what can I say? Banging a married chick is on the bucket list, for science of course.

It's honestly more trouble than it's worth. The one girl I hooked up with who was married was hot but all over the map, pushing and pulling ten times as much as a regular girl, asking to meet and then flaking then asking to meet again, looking for validation that what she was doing was OK

nobody has time for this, lady.

 

[Belgrano]

Stuff like that is nothing new, it happpens since the dawn of civilization and probably even longer.
The only difference is that before the spread of the internet and general degeneracy, people kept it on the down low due to fear of ostracization and punishment.
There's probably not a single fetish that's completely new or was unheard of in the past, at some place, at some time. Maybe the way it's expressed or the object it's focused on (something recently invented, etc.), but not the underlying driving force.
Some people are just wired differently.

 

[debeguiled]

Lol, what can I say? Banging a married chick is on the bucket list, for science of course.

With the husband watching and debasing himself?

Can't you just have an affair like a normal person?

 

[XPQ22]

There's probably not a single fetish that's completely new or was unheard of in the past, at some place, at some time. Maybe the way it's expressed or the object it's focused on (something recently invented, etc.), but not the underlying driving force.
Some people are just wired differently.

Yep, guys sitting around wondering why some chicks are down to have loads blown on their faces, as if it's some brand new thing that was only invented by porn in 1995.

 

[Malo]

Ok, enough stories. We need a datasheet, where do these people congregate?

The vast majority of cuckold chicks are fat and below average looking.

Same goes for chicks in the swinger society by the way.

There are exceptions, but that is unfortunately the norm. Most hot girls are simply not into this type of stuff.

So not only you need to enter the scene, you then need to filter out about 90% of the girls there until you find something bangable.

And then you need to bang, while some dude is watching you and wanking, and wants to lick your anus.

Or if in the swinger scene, you bang a chick surrounded by 5 other cocks trying to get a piece of that chick, at the same time.

Just know what you're walking into

 

[coverdoc]

I was once offered cash to bang a hot blond chick out ~mid 30s infront of her husband around 1:00 A.M.. They wanted me to drive to their house (really nice part of town). I almost did it until I called my good buddy and he told me not to do it. He explained to me that everything was working against my favor and imagine if the husband orgasms, comes back to reality to see some black guy banging out his wife and mother of his kids. Not a fantasy any more. I opted out and like someone said above, it's plenty of married chicks looking to step out without their husbands knowing.

-CD

 

[Latinopan]

I 100% believe that most cuckold fetishists are closeted gay guys. Believe me, LOTS of gay guys end up marrying women. Just go on any porn website and search for cuckold. It is 100% focused on the guy, especially his dick and ass. There is plenty of straight porn marketed towards gay guys with the camera focusing on the guy.

Lots of gay guys are drama queens and get off on doing anything nasty that gets a rise out of people. They also get off on degrading women in a weird way. You'd be surprised how much casual distaste for women they have.

Was reading this the other day:

It was during their rendezvous that Claire suggested he consider becoming an escort while focusing on his journalism career because 'straight' and 'well-endowed' men aren't very common in the industry.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-work-risque-lucrative-job.html#ixzz4LtwvfZS9

This is why you have lots of wealthy older women discovering the toy boy they have is fucking some men.

Another way I learned on forums was threesomes 2 or more men plus one woman, not straight man feel comfortable fucking a women and having other men in his field of view, stuff like double penetration is a total giveaway, not straight man wants his dick that close or worst, touching anther man's dick.

 

[XPQ22]

He explained to me that everything was working against my favor and imagine if the husband orgasms, comes back to reality to see some black guy banging out his wife and mother of his kids. Not a fantasy any more. I opted out and like someone said above, it's plenty of married chicks looking to step out without their husbands knowing.

-CD

Yeah I think you made the right call on that one. They think it's a really hot idea until they nut 45 seconds in, and then it's like "Welp"

Guys who aren't players probably get some of the worst post-nut depressions, who knows what they're capable of in that state.

Was reading this the other day:

It was during their rendezvous that Claire suggested he consider becoming an escort while focusing on his journalism career because 'straight' and 'well-endowed' men aren't very common in the industry.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-work-risque-lucrative-job.html#ixzz4LtwvfZS9

Banging well-post-wall 40 and 50-somethings with mental health issues for 30k a year hardly seems worth the effort and risk, you could make almost as much at nearly any other part-time job. Depends on how many hours he has to invest in it a week, though, if he's only putting in 5-10 hours a week on average to earn that income it could be a "maybe." Overwhelming majority of these broads are going to be nothing to look at, keep in mind.

 

[Sam Malone]

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[Latinopan]

He explained to me that everything was working against my favor and imagine if the husband orgasms, comes back to reality to see some black guy banging out his wife and mother of his kids. Not a fantasy any more. I opted out and like someone said above, it's plenty of married chicks looking to step out without their husbands knowing.

-CD

Was reading this the other day:

It was during their rendezvous that Claire suggested he consider becoming an escort while focusing on his journalism career because 'straight' and 'well-endowed' men aren't very common in the industry.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/a...-work-risque-lucrative-job.html#ixzz4LtwvfZS9

Banging well-post-wall 40 and 50-somethings with mental health issues for 30k a year hardly seems worth the effort and risk, you could make almost as much at nearly any other part-time job. Depends on how many hours he has to invest in it a week, though, if he's only putting in 5-10 hours a week on average to earn that income it could be a "maybe." Overwhelming majority of these broads are going to be nothing to look at, keep in mind.

Read the article:

Luke explained that he started his side-business eight years ago, and while he has found success as an escort,

Is a side income, just like many women with normal jobs do some escort on the side, 30K a year plus his normal income.

'For the rest of the weekend, we strolled the city, but that was it,' he recalled. 'She wasn't looking for sex, actually. It sounds nuts, I know. I felt like I was supposed to have sex with her: Why else was I there?'


And while he was confused at first, Luke said that over the course of his career as an escort, he realized that Veronica's desire for companionship wasn't that uncommon.

Women are different to men, a man get to fuck and he is happy done, women need companionship in a way that is a necessity like a man needs a blowjob.

I once personally met male escort at the gym, he told me women just need company, one woman just cooked for him, that was it.

Want to make good money as a male escort? pay attention her and give her company. That is it.

The vast majority of women who hire male escorts are women married to men who spend all the time working high paying jobs.

Luke said Veronica was 'blonde, blue-eyed, in her early 50s, and looked just like her photos'. Although Veronica was married, she and her husband had an arrangement that allowed them to explore other options.

Where do you think the stereotype of lonely older married woman in a mansion fucked by a young man comes from?


Her husband is clearly fucking younger women, at early 50s he really does not care that much who his wife fuck.

 

[Gmac]

That twitter game...

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[XPQ22]

Is a side income, just like many women with normal jobs do some escort on the side, 30K a year plus his normal income.

Right, I'm just curious as to what the time investment is to earn it. If it's just an extra $2500 in the bank each month for a couple days worth of work, yeah that's a good hustle.

If he has to be spending legitimately ~20 hours a week advertising, scheduling, and doing meets (because women are going to want a lot more time and "boyfriend experience" for their money than the average male john who feels a full hour is extravagant), than it seems more meh. You could likely earn nearly as much hustling for Uber and not have to put up with the unpleasantness of banging grandmas and the ever-present STD risk, unless he considers the ego boost of being a paid dick a significant "value-added" feature.

My guess is that if you had statistics and looked at the numbers carefully, one would find that for all but the highest-end escorts, prostitution simply isn't a particularly lucrative or rational career choice. It may give these girls "working through college" a feeling like they're saving time and somehow more in control of their own destiny, but if you actually got a hold of their deposit slips you might find that just taking that part-time closer barista position at Starbucks for 14/hr plus tuition reimbursement would've put them ahead of the curve, not even factoring in the intrinsic risk involved. "Sugar daddy" situations like SA are another story.

And I'd bet dollars to donuts he's switch-hit at one time or another.

That twitter game...

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Four texts in and she's already talking about the local dining experience. Ah, women.