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<blockquote data-quote="Cr33pin" data-source="post: 311219" data-attributes="member: 2605">I don't think we should call someones way of coping with a legit violent rape wacked out.I knew a girl who did what you are referring to. She was legit raped by a black man when she was a teenager. Shes now a older married (to a white man) mother. An she steps out and sleeps with black men sometimes.&nbsp; I was confused as shit by i but after talking to a mutual friend who is also a psychiatrist, they explained it pretty well.&nbsp; I can't explain as good as they did but it has something to do with putting yourself back in that situation but this time being in control of it... instead of completely out of control as what occurred during the rape. Or for some people reliving the trauma with a different outcome helps them cope, instead of feeling helpless afterwards like when the rape occurred you could say cuddle with the man and feel comfortable when its over instead of like&nbsp; victim. Real violent rape is a awful thing. And men and women who commit it deserve harsh harsh penalties.&nbsp; I won't fault anyone's method for dealing with going through such a experience. Cause unless you have been the victim of it you don't know what crazy way your brain may come up with to try and deal with it.</blockquote>

[QUOTE="Cr33pin, post: 311219, member: 2605"] I don't think we should call someones way of coping with a legit violent rape wacked out. I knew a girl who did what you are referring to. She was legit raped by a black man when she was a teenager. Shes now a older married (to a white man) mother. An she steps out and sleeps with black men sometimes. I was confused as shit by i but after talking to a mutual friend who is also a psychiatrist, they explained it pretty well. I can't explain as good as they did but it has something to do with putting yourself back in that situation but this time being in control of it... instead of completely out of control as what occurred during the rape. Or for some people reliving the trauma with a different outcome helps them cope, instead of feeling helpless afterwards like when the rape occurred you could say cuddle with the man and feel comfortable when its over instead of like victim. Real violent rape is a awful thing. And men and women who commit it deserve harsh harsh penalties. I won't fault anyone's method for dealing with going through such a experience. Cause unless you have been the victim of it you don't know what crazy way your brain may come up with to try and deal with it. [/QUOTE]

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