Date Lab: black doctor set up with goofy beta

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Gotta love how our hapless protagonist, who may be a little soft and dorky decides to be nice and play by the rules society has constructed him, only to get marginalized and punished for it.

This is why I won't be shedding any tears when western civilization finally collapses and we're forced to kill each other for a tattered pair of sweat pants.
 

Bad Hussar

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basilransom said:
good way).

Yeah, most American guys, especially those over 30, don't have a clue when it comes to sizing. I was with some coworkers getting a company shirt, and they all requested sizes one to two sizes too big.

Haha. Now that's one of the most accurate observations on here. For guys it's all because of very misplaced vanity. If a guy is a "small" he will insist he is "medium", If he is a "medium" he will insist he is a "large" etc.

At one company outing I was almost the only guy who's polo actually fitted properly since I was likely the only guy who wrote down "S" on a form a few weeks earlier. You know, since I actually AM a fairly small guy. Every other guy wrote down something at east one size to big. Fine when you're writing it on a form, but you look like a clown when you actually have to wear something much too big for you.

But to actually comment on the OP:

To be honest a female doctor is not going to be happy with what she considers trading down. In her case she ideally needs to look for someone like a somewhat older and established medical specialist to balance the forces of nature.

The problem for her, and all women really, is that what women consider trading down, and what men consider trading down are worlds apart. A professional woman will be looking for a more qualified man (at least for a LTR). But that more qualified man will be using his value to attract a hot woman, not necessarily professional woman.

A woman with a position high on the totem pole (like a doctor) is pretty much screwed when it comes to LTR's. Unless she is also hot, but this is extremely unlikely. She has narrowed her pool of prospective men to the size of a puddle, while really not doing anything to increase her own attractiveness (Though of cause she imagines her qualifications have done so).

Go long Cat Food Manufacturers.
 

augen sehen

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kdolo said:
I understand that this guy is corny, but lets look at reality. He;s A 30 year old -I presume college educated - maybe more -black man in decent physical shape- gainfully employed - and obviously not a "player".

she;s a 28 year old - soon to be over the hill doctor. - black woman at that.

If she had any sense at all and any perspective, she would take this guy and whip him into shape and then settle down and have a nice family with a slightly corny, but totally devoted husband and father.

what is going to happen is that she;s gonna continue to wait for the "Denzel" she thinks she deserves and hit 35 in a hurry.

he will continue to earn- becoming more valuable with time, and if he is lucky will see the light regarding American women - most men do at some point in their 30s if they emerge unscathed..... at which point he will get his act together, be put off women like her and American women in general.

at which point he will attacked by this same woman for "not liking black women" or "not liking American women"
i personally know quite a few black guys like this guy

I want to believe, I really do. I feel that its more likely he doesn't find a good woman since they only date bad boys and there's no such thing as arranged marriage for a marriageable beta who doesn't approach.

So, he gets more and more desperate for a woman's touch until one day an over the hill garagantua lets him fuck her and he marries her and her three pre-existing conditions. At which point he's resigned to rarely getting sex and buys her lots of gifts so she'd let him hit it every once in a while.

Either that or he swears off American women in general.
 

thegmanifesto

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You guys are all over-analyzing this.

It was Game Over when he decided to step out of the house with the jeans and that T-shirt Underneath the Striped 2005 Mortgage Broker shirt.

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kdolo

 
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thegmanifesto said:
You guys are all over-analyzing this.

It was Game over when he decided to step out of the house with the jeans and that T-shirt Underneath the Striped 2005 Mortgage Broker shirt."

yes it was game over as far as she was concerned - but that is a fatal error on her part - and other women like her.

he;s not a bad looking guy - just poor fashion sense - he looks like he just came from work.

this is just the kind of guy a woman can fix up - the same way my mother buys all of my dads clothes because it it were up to him he
d wear the same pair of jeans and t shirt every day.

he;s not bad looking, in shape, educated, employed, taller than she is, a couple years older, and clearly impressed by her looks - i.e. perfect beta husband/dad material.

trust me: give it a couple of years and one trip by this guy to Brazil, DR, Colombia,Thailand, Phllipines etc., and that woman and her like will never have a shot at a guy like this ever again.

oh well.....to quote another poster: go long Purina!
 

kdolo

 
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I want to believe, I really do. I feel that its more likely he doesn't find a good woman since they only date bad boys and there's no such thing as arranged marriage for a marriageable beta who doesn't approach.

So, he gets more and more desperate for a woman's touch until one day an over the hill garagantua lets him fuck her and he marries her and her three pre-existing conditions. At which point he's resigned to rarely getting sex and buys her lots of gifts so she'd let him hit it every once in a while.

Either that or he swears off American women in general.
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I hear you but that this guy reached 30 and hasn;t been tripped up by "gargantua and the three" is a good sign. it means he has good impulse control during his most high testosterone years.

he;s not going out that way. - give it 2-3 years and this fvery same woman wont have a shot a him. I must know at least 10 guys like him.
 

pitt

Hummingbird
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I can tell that the US market is really tough for (nice) black guys interested in dating black women. This woman is clearly a beta woman and she says she didnt like him because he was a nice guy. So even the beta woman dont want to date nice guys, who is going to date them?

Also, he takes off her coat? Who does that shit?! Why did he say that she is out of his league when she is not even a solid 7.
 

Therapsid

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pitt said:
I can tell that the US market is really tough for (nice) black guys interested in dating black women. This woman is clearly a beta woman and she says she didnt like him because he was a nice guy. So even the beta woman dont want to date nice guys, who is going to date them?

Also, he takes off her coat? Who does that shit?! Why did he say that she is out of his league when she is not even a solid 7.

Reading between the lines, when he says right off the bat that she's out of his league he's just admitting that he usually dates fat chicks.
 

kdolo

 
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Therapsid said:
pitt said:
I can tell that the US market is really tough for (nice) black guys interested in dating black women. This woman is clearly a beta woman and she says she didnt like him because he was a nice guy. So even the beta woman dont want to date nice guys, who is going to date them?

Also, he takes off her coat? Who does that shit?! Why did he say that she is out of his league when she is not even a solid 7.

Reading between the lines, when he says right off the bat that she's out of his league he's just admitting that he usually dates fat chicks.

well he probably dates mostly black chicks and most are obese/over weight.

......as for taking off her coat...thats called ,being a gentleman - but as we have all learned the fast track to friend zone is paved with gentlemen.
 
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