Daycares

Staff working in daycare services are all too eager to make false allegations to Children's Services (in the US and some other countries: Child Protection Services.) and claim "the child's well-being is in danger in the parents' hands". if that happens, the parent is in real danger of his/her child to be taken away from him/her by the state.
If you can, keep your children away from daycares. For your own and your children's sake.
 

Chiosboy90

Woodpecker
abandoning babies in daycares would explain much of the narcissistic culture in the west today. credible research shows the deleterious effects on the child's development and the insidiousness of it does not show until later in life: depression, inability to manage anxiety, difficulty maintaining relationships, and so on.
studying cortisol levels in the baby's body, researchers have clearly demonstrated that the baby is basically bathed in cortisol the duration of the time he's separated from his mother. this only returns to normal when he is returned to his mother. this permanently damages the brain development of the child
if a woman is not sacrificing her child on the abortion altar for the maintenance of her pleasure, convenience, material gain and vanity at the workplace, she is torturing and twisting it in the daycare chambers, more or less hobbling it psychologically for the rest of its life
modernity is hell.

Could you send me some Links about those researches?

In my country its very normal to get kids at 45 and dump it in daycare 24/7. Im regulary having arguments and get looked down on when I say, giving your child away to some strangers isnt normal. The argument I hear from women and feminised men are always: "But children need to socialise!". Yeah sure....
 
Could you send me some Links about those researches?

In my country its very normal to get kids at 45 and dump it in daycare 24/7. Im regulary having arguments and get looked down on when I say, giving your child away to some strangers isnt normal. The argument I hear from women and feminised men are always: "But children need to socialise!". Yeah sure....
As if parent's can't arrange that outside of daycares.
 

DanielH

Pelican
Could you send me some Links about those researches?

In my country its very normal to get kids at 45 and dump it in daycare 24/7. Im regulary having arguments and get looked down on when I say, giving your child away to some strangers isnt normal. The argument I hear from women and feminised men are always: "But children need to socialise!". Yeah sure....
As if parent's can't arrange that outside of daycares.
Right, if the mother doesn't have a full time job, there's plenty of time to arrange this stuff, even if homeschooling. Especially homeschooling in fact if you can get a co-op. I really don't understand the socialization argument, I have to assume these are a lot older people who remember school as primarily academic - younger millennials and younger will laugh at such a notion. I don't think you will find a young repentant Christian making this argument. In public school I was socialized and encouraged to: blaspheme, drink, watch p*rn, gossip, pick on other kids, watch violent videos, and be proud.

A homeschooled child may in fact seem un-socialized to normies out there, but that's probably because they call people "sir/ma'am," speak at a higher level, can't associate with p*rn and Netflix, and don't curse. People like that don't fit in in many places.

My neighbors are homeschooling their children, and my mother in law said something about them not being properly socialized (because my wife and I mentioned we're considering homeschooling when we have children), when they've introduced themselves to me and been very polite. They seem better than most children, but that's not necessarily how society will view them.
 
My neighbors are homeschooling their children, and my mother in law said something about them not being properly socialized (because my wife and I mentioned we're considering homeschooling when we have children), when they've introduced themselves to me and been very polite. They seem better than most children, but that's not necessarily how society will view them.

Lack of "socialization" is one of the stupidest myths. I'll admit my children are slightly more shy/reserved but that's because they interact with us a lot and we talk to them in a more mature way. This means when they talk to other adults, who are effectively children themselves, my children will be somewhat more quiet if only because they don't know what to say when the conversation is about nothing. They also don't know much about pop culture but by elementary age could tell you all about Western culture and history, including which examples they loved most.

Forget about "socialization." Infantile adults talking to mature homeschool kids makes you wonder who's the grown up. However, homeschooling will be one of the best decisions you ever made for your family.
 

Eusebius Erasmus

Kingfisher
Lack of "socialization" is one of the stupidest myths. I'll admit my children are slightly more shy/reserved but that's because they interact with us a lot and we talk to them in a more mature way. This means when they talk to other adults, who are effectively children themselves, my children will be somewhat more quiet if only because they don't know what to say when the conversation is about nothing. They also don't know much about pop culture but by elementary age could tell you all about Western culture and history, including which examples they loved most.

Forget about "socialization." Infantile adults talking to mature homeschool kids makes you wonder who's the grown up. However, homeschooling will be one of the best decisions you ever made for your family.
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NoMoreTO

Ostrich
I like using the term "Day Orphanage" to describe daycare.

I picked it up off some talk radio host but it really fits the bill. It can seem harsh, but it reframes what parents are doing putting their kids in day orphages. I understand some are in a pinch but for me I prefer the old school babysitter. At least the child feels like they are in a home, and not an institution. Also, so much of the money just goes to corporate profit takers at these schools, pay the person who takes care of your kids and have a personal relationship with them.
 
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