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<blockquote data-quote="Dr. Howard" data-source="post: 1349693" data-attributes="member: 2271"><p>To OP. Time to break out the bible.</p><p></p><p>No divorce, time to drop your side piece and repent for your own sins. You've got to stick out that marriage until she passes away or she commits adultery. Don't justify your adultery with your unhappiness, uphold your end of the marriage commitment, remember its a covenant with her and with God.</p><p></p><p>If she makes $550k and you make $220k and you have a young son together I would guess that you currently have that kid in child care while you both go to work.</p><p></p><p>Cease that right away. $770/year is a lot of money, if you think that your marriage is really going downhill, just quit your job, take the kid out of childcare and stay at home with him to spend as much time with him as possible, this will do the following things:</p><ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Build your relationship with the child and put in time that you may never have to get back if you get divorced</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Build your relationship with the child into that of the primary parent</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Turn you into a 'house husband' who will get alimony and child support from someone making $550k/year if you get divorced. You will be Kevin Federline to Britney Spears.</li> </ol><p>Your son is 5, he will be damaged by divorce. You'd better take this time to do as much "Dad" stuff with him as you can. Some pathways that will result are:</p><ol> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Your wife will get jealous of your new stay at home Dad role and parenting time, and want to do what you are doing and be a woman</li> <li data-xf-list-type="ol">Your wife will flip out that you aren't working, disrespect you and cheat on you, which will grant you the divorce you seek, but also put you in a great position to get paid for it</li> </ol><p>Either way, you will be investing time with your son, which you will need for either outcome.</p><p></p><p>Also, either way, such a dramatic move should either bring her to the table for marriage reconciliation, or push her into adultery.</p><p></p><p>I will also reiterate, stop the cheating, drop the other woman and take the time that you are spending sneaking around with her to pull your kid out of daycare and spend time with him doing Dad stuff. When my son was 5 I would take him to the airport and we would watch planes take off and land, and tour helicopter bases, fire stations, construction sites etc. Essentially "big machines" 24/7.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Dr. Howard, post: 1349693, member: 2271"] To OP. Time to break out the bible. No divorce, time to drop your side piece and repent for your own sins. You've got to stick out that marriage until she passes away or she commits adultery. Don't justify your adultery with your unhappiness, uphold your end of the marriage commitment, remember its a covenant with her and with God. If she makes $550k and you make $220k and you have a young son together I would guess that you currently have that kid in child care while you both go to work. Cease that right away. $770/year is a lot of money, if you think that your marriage is really going downhill, just quit your job, take the kid out of childcare and stay at home with him to spend as much time with him as possible, this will do the following things: [LIST=1] [*]Build your relationship with the child and put in time that you may never have to get back if you get divorced [*]Build your relationship with the child into that of the primary parent [*]Turn you into a 'house husband' who will get alimony and child support from someone making $550k/year if you get divorced. You will be Kevin Federline to Britney Spears. [/LIST] Your son is 5, he will be damaged by divorce. You'd better take this time to do as much "Dad" stuff with him as you can. Some pathways that will result are: [LIST=1] [*]Your wife will get jealous of your new stay at home Dad role and parenting time, and want to do what you are doing and be a woman [*]Your wife will flip out that you aren't working, disrespect you and cheat on you, which will grant you the divorce you seek, but also put you in a great position to get paid for it [/LIST] Either way, you will be investing time with your son, which you will need for either outcome. Also, either way, such a dramatic move should either bring her to the table for marriage reconciliation, or push her into adultery. I will also reiterate, stop the cheating, drop the other woman and take the time that you are spending sneaking around with her to pull your kid out of daycare and spend time with him doing Dad stuff. When my son was 5 I would take him to the airport and we would watch planes take off and land, and tour helicopter bases, fire stations, construction sites etc. Essentially "big machines" 24/7. [/QUOTE]
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