Dude's girlfriend loses 60 lbs, and then promptly leaves him (pic)

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Wouldn't surprise me at all if they aren't having sex or they barely have sex. No way she is banging that dude 3x a week
 
reino341

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She's hot as fuck. I guess it's only a matter of time until the augmented SMV sinks in and the dude is promptly NEXTed at the first opportunity.

Little does he know his time is running out. Funny how it's so predictable to us but most people can't see it.
 
_GQ_

_GQ_

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She'll stay with him as long as he's willing to watch her get destroyed by black cock every now and then. Dat cuckold life.
 
Timoteo

Timoteo

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Even if this isn't 100% true, this scenario plays out often. Plenty of guys have paid for the wife to go back to law or business school, only to have her file for divorce once she's graduated and doing well professionally. It's a bad look to pay for the education of someone you aren't married to. I get that some guys will do anything for love, but in the immortal words of Meatloaf, I WON'T DO THAT. She'll probably resent the feeling that she owes you, and might cheat/leave for that reason alone. Then throw in the former-fattie factor, with more dudes coming at her, it almost guarantees she will.
 
Ovid

Ovid

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Even among blue-pill types, it's still common knowledge that a man better watch out if his wife suddenly decides to lose weight and get in shape, because it usually means she's looking to get back into the market soon and slap him with divorce papers. If this girl hasn't left him, she most likely will before long.
 
polymath

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scorpion said:
This girl raised her SMV tenfold simply by abstaining from junk food and going to the gym a few times a week. Combine that with minimal effort in upgrading her appearance through makeup, tanning and a sexier hairstyle, and she transformed herself from a 3 to arguably an 8.5. And the bulk of that change came from simply losing weight.

Can you imagine if we had it so easy as men? Imagine if I told you that you could instantly attract, say, 5x as many women as you do right now, simply by NOT doing something. Literally, you don't have to do anything. You just have to NOT do something. In this case, that means NOT eating copious amounts of shitty junk food. I think this would be a very easy decision for most men.

Yet despite the clear evidence of what an enormous difference obesity has on a woman's appearance, and the fact that avoiding the problem requires NEGATIVE action...literally doing nothing at all, simply abstaining from taking an undesirable action...most women simply can't do it. They choose the doughnut over the mirror. They choose the ice cream over the sexy dress. They choose the chocolate cake over their man's sexual attraction toward them.

Think of all the hard work that goes into improving yourself as a man. The hours of time studying and learning the game. The grueling process of overcoming your own fears and anxieties. The gallons of sweat spilled in the gym building muscle. The sacrifices made to increase your education. The the countless hours put into building new business ventures.

Think of all of that, then realize that a woman can make greater gains for herself simply by NOT doing something.

Amazing, right?

Even more amazing, even with it being so easy....most of them still can't do it.

It's unbelievable, really.
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There's more to losing weight than not eating. It's difficult to change your habits and your perspective on food's role in your life.

Everything you say about NOT doing something being so easy, could also apply to smoking cigarettes. But in order to NOT smoke cigarettes, you have to resist your addiction.

Easier said than done.

It's in a fat person's nature to stay fat. That's why it's hard to lose weight. Similarly, it is in many guys' nature to be meek and risk-averse. That's why it's so hard for them to overcome fears and anxieties. Those underlying impulses and feelings don't just disappear when you want to be fearless and confident. To bring it full circle, your cravings for food as a fat person don't just disappear when you want to be thinner.

Any guy who has lost a great deal of weight will tell you that it's more than just NOT doing something.

Plus she probably hit the gym as well.
 
scorpion

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polymath said:
scorpion said:
This girl raised her SMV tenfold simply by abstaining from junk food and going to the gym a few times a week. Combine that with minimal effort in upgrading her appearance through makeup, tanning and a sexier hairstyle, and she transformed herself from a 3 to arguably an 8.5. And the bulk of that change came from simply losing weight.

Can you imagine if we had it so easy as men? Imagine if I told you that you could instantly attract, say, 5x as many women as you do right now, simply by NOT doing something. Literally, you don't have to do anything. You just have to NOT do something. In this case, that means NOT eating copious amounts of shitty junk food. I think this would be a very easy decision for most men.

Yet despite the clear evidence of what an enormous difference obesity has on a woman's appearance, and the fact that avoiding the problem requires NEGATIVE action...literally doing nothing at all, simply abstaining from taking an undesirable action...most women simply can't do it. They choose the doughnut over the mirror. They choose the ice cream over the sexy dress. They choose the chocolate cake over their man's sexual attraction toward them.

Think of all the hard work that goes into improving yourself as a man. The hours of time studying and learning the game. The grueling process of overcoming your own fears and anxieties. The gallons of sweat spilled in the gym building muscle. The sacrifices made to increase your education. The the countless hours put into building new business ventures.

Think of all of that, then realize that a woman can make greater gains for herself simply by NOT doing something.

Amazing, right?

Even more amazing, even with it being so easy....most of them still can't do it.

It's unbelievable, really.
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There's more to losing weight than not eating. It's difficult to change your habits and your perspective on food's role in your life.

Everything you say about NOT doing something being so easy, could also apply to smoking cigarettes. But in order to NOT smoke cigarettes, you have to resist your addiction.

Easier said than done.

It's in a fat person's nature to stay fat. That's why it's hard to lose weight. Similarly, it is in many guys' nature to be meek and risk-averse. That's why it's so hard for them to overcome fears and anxieties. Those underlying impulses and feelings don't just disappear when you want to be fearless and confident. To bring it full circle, your cravings for food as a fat person don't just disappear when you want to be thinner.

Any guy who has lost a great deal of weight will tell you that it's more than just NOT doing something.

Plus she probably hit the gym as well.
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There's definitely some truth to what you're saying. I didn't mean to imply that resisting the temptation to overeat is effortless. The transformation this girl put herself certainly took some willpower.

I'm just saying that what she did (and what all women who lose weight can do) is much easier in comparison to the work that men have to do to improve themselves to such a drastic degree.

Compare the willpower needed to not gorge on junk food against the willpower needed to do the following:

- Maintain a 3x weekly gym habit doing heavy compound lifts
- Put in hundreds of approaches and go on dozens of dates to increase your skill in the game
- Learn a foreign language to facilitate travel and adventure
- Build a business from scratch
- Create a network of powerful and influential men in your area

These are the types of things that men must do in order to increase their SMV to a level even approaching what the average chubby girl can do by simply learning how to put down her fork. It's not even close.

This is just a byproduct of the natural imbalance between the sexes and the sexual dynamic that results: a woman is valued primarily for what she is, while a man is valued primarily for what he does. So the woman's path is easier but more limited, while the man's is more difficult, but with greater potential.
 
Nonpareil

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Sourcecode said:
Op trolled.
You guys fell for it.
Plus you guys are haters.
If anything..we should be hoping that this dude keeps his girl.
He might have been lame paying her college..but isn't it our goal to date up?
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I hope he does keep the girl...but I know he won't.

She's a former fatty who the first-time in maybe ever, is now experiencing the intoxicating high of attention from numerous men (despite what ugly, envious feminists say, women love attention from men like men love sex, no amount of 'Street Harassment!' posters or 'Maybe Rape!' charges will ever change that) and she's a sorority girl...those are long odds for even a good-looking guy with semi-respectable game.

Maybe my time in the game and seeing how women react to stuff has made me cynical, but I just can't see this playing out well for this guy in any way; there's a chance she might be the best girl in the world and will stick with him and reward his contributions to her future with loyalty, but I wouldn't bet on it.

I give it until Christmas, tops.
 
M

ManAbout

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She didn't leave him. That quote is from a DIFFERENT guy on Reddit. He saw these pictures and then posted his own sob story about how his girl left him after she lost weight, as a warning to the guy who posted the pictures. But, the guy who is quoted never put up any pictures or anything else to back up his claim.
 
augen sehen

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^^ Yeah, I got this picture from that same thread. I saw that quote on reddit and the photo, so I figured its the same guy. Plus the other thread where this picture was the original post was full of people saying that the OP is just recycling pictures from somewhere else so I didn't know what to believe. I would like to believe that they're still crazy in love, but call me cynical.

Also, this quote just rubs me the wrong way. What do you guys think? Does it sound like an in-love woman? It sounds like an attention whore.

My boyfriend started dating me when I weighed over 200 pounds and wore a size 16… He has always thought I’ve been beautiful, but he was a large part of what motivated me to get my fitness in check. He is an AMAZING guy and deserved a gorgeous piece of arm candy. Goes to that that when you love someone for WHO THEY ARE and not how they look in a bikini… you may just be their motivation to get in shape so you can show them off ;)
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jammer

 
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augen sehen said:
^^ Yeah, I got this picture from that same thread. I saw that quote on reddit and the photo, so I figured its the same guy. Plus the other thread where this picture was the original post was full of people saying that the OP is just recycling pictures from somewhere else so I didn't know what to believe. I would like to believe that they're still crazy in love, but call me cynical.

Also, this quote just rubs me the wrong way. What do you guys think? Does it sound like an in-love woman? It sounds like an attention whore.

My boyfriend started dating me when I weighed over 200 pounds and wore a size 16… He has always thought I’ve been beautiful, but he was a large part of what motivated me to get my fitness in check. He is an AMAZING guy and deserved a gorgeous piece of arm candy. Goes to that that when you love someone for WHO THEY ARE and not how they look in a bikini… you may just be their motivation to get in shape so you can show them off ;)
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Assuming those are her true feelings, that would be awesome. A girl who is motivated by trying to make you feel happy.
 
E

esperar

 
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She's basically the equivalent of a guy who just won millions. He should get all the sex he can get in there right now before she leaves.
 
soup

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scorpion said:
The main thing I'm taking away from this picture is just more confirmation of the astounding difference women can make to their appearance by gaining or losing weight.

This girl raised her SMV tenfold simply by abstaining from junk food and going to the gym a few times a week. Combine that with minimal effort in upgrading her appearance through makeup, tanning and a sexier hairstyle, and she transformed herself from a 3 to arguably an 8.5. And the bulk of that change came from simply losing weight.

Can you imagine if we had it so easy as men? Imagine if I told you that you could instantly attract, say, 5x as many women as you do right now, simply by NOT doing something. Literally, you don't have to do anything. You just have to NOT do something. In this case, that means NOT eating copious amounts of shitty junk food. I think this would be a very easy decision for most men.

Yet despite the clear evidence of what an enormous difference obesity has on a woman's appearance, and the fact that avoiding the problem requires NEGATIVE action...literally doing nothing at all, simply abstaining from taking an undesirable action...most women simply can't do it. They choose the doughnut over the mirror. They choose the ice cream over the sexy dress. They choose the chocolate cake over their man's sexual attraction toward them.

Think of all the hard work that goes into improving yourself as a man. The hours of time studying and learning the game. The grueling process of overcoming your own fears and anxieties. The gallons of sweat spilled in the gym building muscle. The sacrifices made to increase your education. The the countless hours put into building new business ventures.

Think of all of that, then realize that a woman can make greater gains for herself simply by NOT doing something.

Amazing, right?

Even more amazing, even with it being so easy....most of them still can't do it.

It's unbelievable, really.
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Just goes to show how little value men have in this world.

Sperm count > egg count

The ecomomics of game are black and white. One you get the to the top there are so many options. At the bottom there is nothing. The middle class is shrinking.
 
Mage

Mage

 
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I am glad for the guy, that they are still together. She looks nice now. However will that be for long?

He already made a huge beta move by paying for her education. What are his redeeming qualities?

It's so obvious he should bulk up in muscle to compensate for her weight loss that I cannot understand why he hasn't done it.

Someone should send a link to this forum to this guy.
 
Master Of My Own Kingdom

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UPDATE: She gone!
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The instagram profile of the beta...last activity september 2013-

http://instagram.com/suitandsaber?modal=true
Which coincides with their last pictures taken as a official couple, who were taken in september 2013.

http://instagram.com/p/eS71WnBjor/?modal=true- He even put together a paint splatter party to celebrate their 5 years together. :laugh:

http://instagram.com/p/eTilZbBjtc/?modal=true

she left to london, england, just after these pictures were taken. Probably for :carousel:

http://instagram.com/p/eZSooxBjqg/?modal=true

#extremelongdistance
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http://instagram.com/p/dOTDKrhjk6/?modal=true

Pic of the beta in geek gear, she's kissing him.

He didn't foresee that he was on borrowed time with this broad, his time was running out with her.
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Her new guy, predictably a good-looking, affluent fraternity dude http://instagram.com/p/lgesK5Bjgj/?modal=true

http://instagram.com/p/lEnu20hjlE/?modal=true


http://instagram.com/p/oR42O0hjo0/?modal=true

http://instagram.com/p/n6wQn7hjoZ/?modal=true


http://instagram.com/p/nRvEMpBjqh/?modal=true

http://instagram.com/p/mbIuOMhjv4/?modal=true



http://instagram.com/p/l3I3bShjip/?modal=true

So predictable....again I love how the poor beta endured 5 years of grueling obesity, paying her school tuition, and when she decides to get in shape, he never has the opportunity to fully enjoy the delicious fruits of her labor.
 
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