Suits said:
You guys, better hold onto your seats, because here comes the real Suitsnalysis.
What's more likely? This girl has enough money to pay for a plastic surgery all on her own? Or she has two dozen beta "boyfriends" who have never met her sending her money?
One of the fun aspects of the Chinese mind is that they simply choose to ignore anything information that isn't what they want to acknowledge. So, when he sent her a picture of his airline tickets, it didn't fit with her plan (to gouge him for money) so she just ignored it. She knew he was coming, but is was easier to pretend that he wasn't.
Of course, living a lie was so important to her that she still needed to call up a radio station to share her side of the story.
Guys who think that Chinese women are submissive and great wives should keep this story in mind. Chinese women are actually sneakier and more underhanded than Western women. AWALT.
Give me a break with the MGTOW junk. Betting all in at the card table on a girl online with no backup plan is
beyond foolish. Even the girl thought he was fucking playing around and not really serious about it. To top it all off he used a dating site
notorious for scammers. The only site worse than this one is DateInAsia.com. Unless you are already inside China lots of Chinese women online will take you half serious on meeting up. That's just part of the culture. Do all of them do this? No.
Look how fast he rebounded. He got lucky and landed in the right place. He should stay in Hunan because if he went up there to Beijing with you, he would have it much, much harder. Unlike you, he has not given up on looking for love and it looks like his efforts will reward him. Even though his planning was foolish, his effort was stellar. If he is looking for wife material, he has the right attitude and now he is in the number one ranked (based on marriage visa data) province for foreign wives.
If I could just touch the bottom of his garment (Jesus), comes to my mind when I think about this.
911 said:
Suits said:
You guys, better hold onto your seats, because here comes the real Suitsnalysis.
What's more likely? This girl has enough money to pay for a plastic surgery all on her own? Or she has two dozen beta "boyfriends" who have never met her sending her money?
One of the fun aspects of the Chinese mind is that they simply choose to ignore anything information that isn't what they want to acknowledge. So, when he sent her a picture of his airline tickets, it didn't fit with her plan (to gouge him for money) so she just ignored it. She knew he was coming, but is was easier to pretend that he wasn't.
Of course, living a lie was so important to her that she still needed to call up a radio station to share her side of the story.
Guys who think that Chinese women are submissive and great wives should keep this story in mind. Chinese women are actually sneakier and more underhanded than Western women. AWALT.
Chinese women are some of the worst in all of Asia, many have that dragon lady streak in them. A lot of older married Chinese men are whipped.
This guy should be in a reality show, he would be a great PUA project and movie material... Maybe some film pros on this board can step up?
How would you know this? Based upon what? Vancouver Chinese? Have you ever been to Asia? If you ever spent time to China you would not say something so ridiculous. If you ever spent any time outside of Beijing you would quickly notice that women are far more likely to be slapped or beaten in public by their husbands than the inverse. I had a dude, next to me on a train, punch his pregnant wife for snoring. I'm not talking about a tap, a loud sucker punch.
Here is a tip for all you guys that think you know China or Chinese people and never been there before. Chinese Americans and Chinese Canadians are NOTHING like the Chinese in the mainland. The ones here are far more likely to be educated and are more Western-like than we give them credit for.
Date FOBs all you want, you won't be treated the same as meeting girls there. Get pissed off at their driving in the local Chinatown all you want, the driving in China is 100x worse. Think Chinese men are skinny, weak, and effeminate-like all you want, the ones inside "Real" China have 8-12 pack abs, smoke alot, drink alot, and would kick most of your asses.
For all you guys that have lived in China but live in a tier1 or 2 city. If you never seen local Chinese gang members take over a major street, seen firecrackers thrown everywhere for holidays, weddings, funerals, or bought your groceries at an outdoor market, you still haven't seen the Real China. Keep fooling yourself on what you think all Chinese people are.