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Dr. Howard said:Adonis said:Full response to her query on ask a manager.
Oooooohhhh.
Firing the whole group of you was a pretty extreme reaction, but I can understand why they were highly annoyed.
Y’all were pretty out of line. You were interns there — basically guests for the summer. Their rules are their rules. This is like being a houseguest and presenting your host with a signed petition (!) to change their rules about cleaning up after yourself. You just don’t have the standing to do that.
.... Honestly, if my summer interns banded together and this was what they decided to take on, I’d have some serious questions about their judgment and their priorities...
... The fact that they did fire all of you for it makes me wonder if there were other issues too and this pushed them over the edge. Were you getting good feedback before this, or had you noticed your manager trying to rein you in on other things? If there were other issues, I can more easily understand them just throwing up their hands and being finished with the whole thing.
Agreed. I wouldn't fire them. They are interns and are there to learn and they would learn a shit lesson.
I would tell them no, explain how they fucked up and then tell them that they now have a mountain to climb to get a positive review at the end of their internship. If they didn't like it, they could walk and if they didn't show me they were climbing that mountain in a week I would walk them out.
I might also make the one legged girl their new supervisor.
I fully agree with the response on askamanager. Very reasonable. Clearly and forthrightly expressed without a speck of hysteria.
I'd stress that the argument from us should not be that life is unfair in this case. It's fair that when you enter someone's house you must follow their rules. It's fair that when you are supposed to be there to learn you must not assume you know better than your hosts and seniors. It's fair that exception be allowed to disabled veterans. And there might be other factors involved in the decision to fire as well. For all we know, it might as well be that the decision was entirely fair but the interns either fail to, or refuse to understand it, or to honestly report it.
The problem with special snowflakes is not just that they can't handle unfairness against them, but also that they can't even handle fairness that's not in their favor. We should not let the SJWs hijack and redefine the concept of fairness to cater to their sense of entitlement, which they have been doing for too long.