Facebook is now De Facto REQUIRED

[Dulceácido]

Fuck Facebook.

The next time some chick asks you for your Facebook, just look her straight in the eye and say, "I'm sorry, I'm not from your planet."

 

[lush1]

Agree with the OP, on one occasion when I was in the US recently I straight up had a girl walk away from me mid conversation when I told her I didn't have facebook.

 

[MrXY]

I've never had a FB and never felt the need for it. It's seldom that a girl asks about it and if they do I just say I deleted my account because it was causing too much drama and wasting my time. I don't think it's ever lessened a girl's interest in me. Since I play "mysterious man" game anyway not having FB helps my image.

 

[Andy_B]

I've never had a FB and never felt the need for it. It's seldom that a girl asks about it and if they do I just say I deleted my account because it was causing too much drama and wasting my time.

Agreed.

Girls never ask about Facebook.

It's beta dudes who feel it's "less risky" than going for a phone number, who feel the need to ask "lol so can I add youse 2 facebook?!?!"

 

[el mechanico]

I've never had a FB and never felt the need for it. It's seldom that a girl asks about it and if they do I just say I deleted my account because it was causing too much drama and wasting my time.

Agreed.

Girls never ask about Facebook.

It's beta dudes who feel it's "less risky" than going for a phone number, who feel the need to ask "lol so can I add youse 2 facebook?!?!"

Pathetic

 

[thegmanifesto]

Me: "I'm not on FB, it's a security liability in my line of work."

Her: "What do you do?"

Me: "I really can't talk about it. It’s complicated."

Me: "I'm not on FB, it's a security liability in my line of work."

Her: "What do you do?"

Me: "I really can't talk about it here. Let's go to my crib and I will tell you over a glass of red."

Always Be Closing.

 

[Screwston]

I've never had a FB and never felt the need for it. It's seldom that a girl asks about it and if they do I just say I deleted my account because it was causing too much drama and wasting my time.

Agreed.

Girls never ask about Facebook.

It's beta dudes who feel it's "less risky" than going for a phone number, who feel the need to ask "lol so can I add youse 2 facebook?!?!"

Pathetic

That's a joke right? Do guys really ask for her Facebook page instead of the number? That's like wanting to hold hands instead of fuck. Pathetic.

 

[DeusLuxMeaEst]

Deactivated a while back. If I can make it a cash cow or for business purposes I'll jump back on, otherwise it doesn't serve much of a purpose for me.

In terms of game I never found it to be a problem. IME giving a girl your facebook early on is almost guaranteed to dry up the pussy. I can see for college guys and guys in their early 20s that it's useful to mack the social circle though. Girls 25+ though don't really seem to ask or care that much. Considering I've had multiple girls show up to meet me off the internet who didn't even know my name, giving out too much information to me seems unnecessary.

 

[bacan]

I find it freaky when girls ask for it quickly or annoying when they go through my photos and add their likes to mark their territory or whatever

I've had so much shit happen from facebook. I've had girls log in and read my facebook. I've had girls post hearts on my wall and get me in trouble. I've had girls write stalkerish comments on photos that my family was tagged in. I've had girls start a conversation with each other on my wall and find out I was fucking both of them.

I've also caught girls in lies on facebook, with location tagged messages and stuff...

Now..

I have my facebook so no one can
see tagged photos
tag me in photos without my permission
see my events (this I just did manually by deleting every evenet - know a better way?)
see my likes
post on my wall
see my friends

I also have a group for girls where they can't see my albums and start liking shit

I wish I could de-activate my account in a way that it just had a plaeholder page with my picture and a littl ething saying de-activated

Currently there is no way a person can distinguish between when you block them and de-activate your account, which sucks ya know..

I'd also like to be able to have people still be able to send me messages with a semi deactivated account, just turn off all access for reading walls, photos, all that bullshit

 

[Lemmo]

Currently there is no way a person can distinguish between when you block them and de-activate your account, which sucks ya know..

Actually, when you deactivate aren't you still listed in the person's friends but if they click your name it says the account has been deactivated?

 

[Enigma]

I disagree. I routinely--if not exclusively at times--game the 19-24 set and have never had it overtly, or subtly, cost me any approach capital. It's either a neutral or a positive: "yeah, you're right. It's such a time-suck. I often think about getting rid of it too."

Agreed. As with most things game related, it's all about how you frame it.

 

[Samseau]

Dude, I probably spend more time on the shitter each day. I'm not worried about the 15 minutes "wasted." Plus if I'm checking it at work it's more like passing time than wasting it.

Dude, I probably spend more time on the shitter each day. I'm not worried about the 15 minutes "wasted." Plus if I'm checking it at work it's more like passing time than wasting it.

Except they are not analogous because spending time on the shitter is a necessary biological function. Of course, unless you are just sitting on there for no reason which is rather unusual. Let the rustling commence...

What are you guys talking about? The shitter is the only place I check my facebook

 

[iknowexactly]

Agree with the OP, on one occasion when I was in the US recently I straight up had a girl walk away from me mid conversation when I told her I didn't have facebook.

But did that actually just save you time with a girl who wasn't going to fuck anyway?

 

[bojangles]

Dude, I probably spend more time on the shitter each day. I'm not worried about the 15 minutes "wasted." Plus if I'm checking it at work it's more like passing time than wasting it.

Dude, I probably spend more time on the shitter each day. I'm not worried about the 15 minutes "wasted." Plus if I'm checking it at work it's more like passing time than wasting it.

Except they are not analogous because spending time on the shitter is a necessary biological function. Of course, unless you are just sitting on there for no reason which is rather unusual. Let the rustling commence...

What are you guys talking about? The shitter is the only place I check my facebook

haha exactly what I was going to say.

 

[Nascimento]

Being a college student, I find when girls I try to fuck ask me for my facebook, they are looking to become friends either to meet my friends or because they see my fun personality.

A girl I have fucked or have been close to fucking has never asked me for my facebook. They'd rather keep it away from me, actually.

It's almost as if the girls that truly want to be fucking you want to seperate you from the chumps and orbiter guys in her everyday life, so when she gets tired of their shit on facebook she will text you up for a good fucking, drama free.

 

[WestCoast]

Being a college student, I find when girls I try to fuck ask me for my facebook, they are looking to become friends either to meet my friends or because they see my fun personality.

A girl I have fucked or have been close to fucking has never asked me for my facebook. They'd rather keep it away from me, actually.

It's almost as if the girls that truly want to be fucking you want to seperate you from the chumps and orbiter guys in her everyday life, so when she gets tired of their shit on facebook she will text you up for a good fucking, drama free.

This is exactly it.

The last thing she wants to be doing is "checking in" to "Denny's" at 8 am on a Sunday morning after a night out in high heels and hoe skirt with a random guy she just met.