The fact is that men want women to work. Double income = double fun. More money for a bigger house, more gadgets, more vacations, less economic stress on the man. How many men today will want a stay at home wife? Such a woman will be considered lazy by most men.
This is circular...
A woman working is quite an expensive proposition... A second car, insurance, expensive clothing/wardrobe for her to work, children being raised in day care, mental health services for the woman as she slowly burns out, criminal defense attorneys and rehab for the kids as they become teenagers and get into the juvenile correction system and the prison-industrial complex.
If you want your wife to work and your children to be raised by public schools and day cares then you should accept that you will one day talk to your children through a plexiglass partition using a phone anchored to the wall.
If you consider the extreme expenses associated with a woman working, most people cannot actually afford it if they crunch the numbers and weigh the costs. Most of the revenue generated by a woman working is almost immediately consumed covering the short-term expenses and ongoing expenses associated with her working.
Suppose your woman makes $40,000 per year, but now you need to spend $400 per month on a car payment for a second car, $200 per month in gasoline on that car, $150 per month on insurance for that car, $1500 per month on daycare, we're already at $2,250 per month in expenses associated with her working. See where this is going?
For most couples, a woman working is an absolute and complete waste and is actually a detriment to the family. She works to earn the money to finance her ability to get to work and work and have her children raised by strangers while she works.