robreke said:
Libertas said:
I see it quite often here in NYC. It's so sad. If they would just lose 20 lbs (which is not hard to do and can be done in the same amount of weeks) they would look fantastic.
This girl does not fit the category of this thread, but when I saw her I just had to take this picture because it displays, perfectly, the depth of the obesity problem:
http://i.imgur.com/p95jDAq.jpg
Look at her. Terribly overweight yet still unabashedly buys two gigantic sugary drinks. It's pure, unadulterated lack of effort. This is behavior that should be shamed.
Trying to get back on point with my question a few posts up: Do women who were significantly overweight....like used to be 200 lbs and are now 130 usually have bodily flaws when you get them naked?
Like things such as Stretch marks...extra skin around their belly/ twat, etc? Or if they lose weight is it hard to tell them from girls who have always been rather thin?
It's a slippery slope, but if shit lost the weight healthy and gradually then she may be alright. A lot of factors going on. If she got fat quickly she will have stretch marks and those never go away. If she lost the weight quickly she may have some saggy skin here and there especially if she was way fat. Regardless if you got a date with a girl who is thin and takes care of herself then play ball fuck it play ball.
On the OP - I 100% agree. America is sad. I see girls all the fucking time who would look so gorgeous if they just lost 20 lbs or more. I notice a lot of girls who haven't been thin their entire lives tend to fluctuate a lot too when they lose weight and can easily go back to being fat. Some also lose it and keep it off, but it's a gamble. Unfortunately we only hear about the miracle stories from TV and other media about morbidly obese people whipping their asses into shape and staying fit.
Perfect example: there is this girl whos a friend of a friend that came to my place a while back for a get together. My friend was talking her up because he banged her in the past and wanted to introduce her to me (he's wifed up hard now and wanted to share his old football trophies I guess). Anyway, this girl comes over and she is way too chubby for me. Thick all over round face pudgy fingers and all. No go. Fast forward a few months and she comes back to my place for a get together I was throwing. She lost probably 30-40 lbs since and looks quite bangable. My buddy goes through his phone and shows me old pics from her a couple years back on Facebook - fucking smoking hot. Thin and perfect curves in all the right places. Are you shitting me? How can you let yourself go like that back and forth?
Also, it irks me so bad how many decent looking dudes I see holding hands with fat girls. The hypergamy is real and women don't give a fuck.
Another story: I just got out of a mini relationship with this 6.5/7. Pretty face, very tall, long thin legs and arms, nice tits, but a thick mid section with no figure and no ass. Never really got over it, but she was a cool chick and gave top-shelf head so I let it slide. Weirdest part is that she is very active, goes running and goes to the gym several days a week and is very dedicated to it and claims she has been ever since her teen years. I ask her what her deal is with exercise without bringing up he less-than-perfect body that I assume she is trying to fix. She tells me she would "love to be anorexic-thin as a rail with little b-sized boobs" and be able to wear strapless maxi dresses and whatnot, but she is not willing to make the necessary changes in her lifestyle to facilitate that (drink less, eat better, work out more aggressively etc.). She works out just to do it because it makes her feel good - no measure of progress or maintenance of any kind. Just no fucks given.