I remember several years ago being tricked by a SIF (secret internet fatty) on a dating site. She was very attractive in her pics, but when we met she was much larger. It literally looked like she had gained 100 lbs. or close to it. I had worked all day before the date and did a workout right before and was planning on eating a large meal at the restaurant with her. Since I was starving and didn't have anything else ready to eat at the house, I decided I would just endure her obesity for an hour and have dinner before excusing myself. But just walking around with her to the restaurant felt incredibly embarrassing. I could feel people looking at us, wondering what the hell I was doing with such a lardass of a woman. It was really an awful experience. The point being, I have absolutely no idea how a normal-looking guy can bring himself to date, much less marry a fat woman. Just walking around next to a fat woman for a few minutes was a completely humiliating experience for me. And these guys marry them? What the hell is going on? Is the thirst that strong? It's unbelievable.