Father gets joint custody, mother then murders child.

Number one bummer

Kingfisher
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An Orono woman discovered dead with her 5-year-old son Monday left a suicide note lamenting her long-running court battle with the father over custody that ended with them having joint parenting rights, according to a search warrant filed Wednesday.

Police have called the hangings of Gina Ilene Summers, 46, and her son Jude a murder-suicide. It appears to follow a lengthy custody dispute between Summers and the boy’s father, 51-year-old Jeff Sandberg, of Minnetonka.

Officers first stopped by the home Monday, after Sandberg notified police that he could not reach anyone there to arrange for picking up his son at 5 p.m., Police Chief Correy Farniok said. Summers and Sandberg have joint custody of the boy.

The home was locked and no one answered the door, Farniok said. Sandberg was advised to call back later if the situation remained the same, the chief said.

After the father called again, a relative who lived nearby and had keys let police in about 8 p.m. That’s when the bodies were found in the basement and a preliminary determination of murder-suicide was made, the chief said.

Summers’ typed and signed note, which was discovered nearby, “talked about prior domestic abuse and issues with the system and allowing a child to be ripped from his mother,” and it ended with, “Don’t let this happen to another child and mother.”

The article has a picture of her and there's the obvious thousand cock stare mixed with a mental illness glaze. Why you would intentionally have a child with a woman in her 40's is mind boggling. This bitch sums up what happens when the pussy pass doesn't work in a family court. Of course once the pass failed she made false allegations and when those failed she murdered her child.

Its a sad testament to the legal system that you need to be at the homicide level of crazy just to receive joint custody as a woman. While this is not the reaction most women would have, the idea that women will harm themselves just to get a token of revenge is still accurate in today's culture.
 

Jetset

Ostrich
Whatever the father might or might not be like, you can see the whites all the way around her eyes when she tries to smile. That's as red as red flags get.
 
That and she had her first child at 41. You don't think all those years of riding the cock wagon In her 20's and 30's didn't damage her further? She's clearly mental, but what man marries a 40-year-old spinster with crazy eyes to have kids with? What a disaster. Truly heartbreaking for the little boy and dad. If the father had game awareness, the son he should have had with another saner, younger woman would still be alive today. This is a cautionary tale.
 

Jetset

Ostrich
Summers worked as a Realtor in the west metro. In an online biography, she spoke at length about activities with her son, that ranged “from reading to painting, from racing cars to swimming with them, from gardening to building, all ball sports, and not to mention teaching him to downhill ski at 17 months old; the list of fun goes on and on.”
First, I don't trust people who carry on about their kids in irrelevant contexts like a real estate bio.

Second, tying nooses together is a hell of a finale for the "list of fun".

Third, even in her professional headshot, she can't control the "agony inside" look.

 

Samseau

Owl
Gold Member
I wouldn't be surprised if the whole reason the father won partial custody is because the mother was found to have mental issues like depression or bi-polar and such.

Just another feminist judge deciding a child's life doesn't matter, allowing primary custody to a mentally unstable bitch.

EDIT:

Jetset confirmed my initial thoughts 1 second before I hit post.
 

Kona

Crow
Gold Member
Jesus.

Imagine the level of psycho someone has to be to take a five year old down to the basement and hang him.

Aloha!
 
Jetset said:
Whatever the father might or might not be like, you can see the whites all the way around her eyes when she tries to smile. That's as red as red flags get.
There was me thinking only I knew that.
 

TravelerKai

Peacock
Gold Member
Samseau said:
I wouldn't be surprised if the whole reason the father won partial custody is because the mother was found to have mental issues like depression or bi-polar and such.

Just another feminist judge deciding a child's life doesn't matter, allowing primary custody to a mentally unstable bitch.

EDIT:

Jetset confirmed my initial thoughts 1 second before I hit post.
I wonder if the father can sue the city/county for exposing his son to that risk like that. Might be very expensive to go after that judge like this, but it could be worth it.

We all know damn well if this was the other way around, the mother would be on Good Morning America crying and the city would have to give her ass a big settlement just to keep the peace.
 

Samseau

Owl
Gold Member
Jetset said:
What a shitshow.

http://law.justia.com/cases/minnesota/court-of-appeals/2017/a16-1334.html

The mother's appeal of the custody decision noted that even the custody evaluation concluded she was mentally ill and needed therapy.
From the pdf:

failure to use collateral contacts to substantiate his conclusion that mother
has mental-health issues; (5) suggestion that mother should complete dialectical behavior therapy despite a lack of evidence that such treatment was appropriate
The mother tried to argue that the evaluator's conclusions were not valid because he did not use "collateral contacts" or that he lacked evidence the mother needed dialectical behavior therapy.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dialectical_behavior_therapy

What is DBT for?

Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a therapy designed to help people suffering from mood disorders as well as those who need to change patterns of behavior that are not helpful, such as self-harm, suicidal ideation, and substance abuse.

Holy shit, how can someone like that get this kind of diagnosis and keep primary custody?

:mindblown:

Damn, fuck Canada. Courts are beyond fucked up there.
 

Number one bummer

Kingfisher
Gold Member
Samseau said:
Damn, fuck Canada. Courts are beyond fucked up there.
This case was in Minnesota, the town involved just sounds Canadian. I found it interesting that they both went broke paying for the trial court to come up what should be a default position, that being joint custody.

I just wonder how much of the appeal case was the mother's crazy and how much was the shyster lawyers trying to make bank by promising her success in the appeals. I can't imagine being a guy that has to pay the attorneys of your ex-wife so they can take you to appeal, to make you pay them more of your money, only for you to win because they lied to your ex-wife.
 

Samseau

Owl
Gold Member
Nice catch, I thought it was Canadian. Minnesota, the land where Swedes settled :laugh: No wonder it's so bad. But seriously I do not trust the family law courts anywhere, they have way too much power, cost way too much money, and offer little to no fairness.
 

Matsufubu

Pelican
It's always about them, the eternal solipsism of the female mind. Every day I get older I increasingly ask myself why we let them vote.
 

infowarrior1

Hummingbird
John Michael Kane said:
That and she had her first child at 41. You don't think all those years of riding the cock wagon In her 20's and 30's didn't damage her further? She's clearly mental, but what man marries a 40-year-old spinster with crazy eyes to have kids with? What a disaster. Truly heartbreaking for the little boy and dad. If the father had game awareness, the son he should have had with another saner, younger woman would still be alive today. This is a cautionary tale.
The only consolation is that others are spared this monster and that this evil woman have no further ability to hurt him other than what she has already done.

God have mercy on the boy's soul.
 

Vaun

Hummingbird
Gold Member
If you just leave it at these two fundamental facts, you have enough to explain this horrible scenario. Old wife/mother, clearly too old to have children. Man must have been a trusting new agey/hippie, hopeful beta, to marry that.

As a man, you then have to ask what lessons should be gained from this. Don't marry old women. Don't have children with them.

Additionally, this illustrates why partner selection is extremely important. There are lots of books out about this. Doc Love's work covers this well. This book "The Tactical Guide to Women: How Men Can Manage Risk in Dating and Marriage", recently came out, and covers this topic in detail, by a psychologist who grew up in his dads bar, watching and listening to relationship horror stories. There are many tells you can rely on, to understand how "quality" of a girl she is.

We can cover this again because there are always men that need it, but the things I look for are;

Flexibility - how flexible is she for you.
Giving - how giving is she too you.
Age - for me under 30. That number will likely never change for baby making, if I ever wanted that.
Abortions?
Finances - in debt? Credit score?
Arrest record.
Driving record.
Work history.
Mental health history.
Education.
Cleanliness.
Her ex-BF history. The story she tells about this.
Parents and siblings. Arrest records, substance abuse, divorce, finances.
Drugs?
Drinking?
Overall health.
Her medical history, genetic diseases, etc.
No kids, no ex drama, no single moms, etc.

I would cover these, and check all of these off if I ever married someone again. You can never be too safe.
 
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