Father's Day is Sunday, June 17, 2012

[Excelsior]

I tend to consistently forget this holiday. I've never actually seen my father, so there has never really been anything to celebrate.

"Boo-hoo, sad story...black-American dad story..."

Do you actually know where he is?

Yeah, know the address and all. Have pictures, and we've spoken a few times via phone.
I used to be more torn up about the whole absence as a boy, but I'm less bothered by the distance now (hence the sarcastic Drake quote). My goal now is just to see him at least once before he goes. He's in his late 60's, so that'll have to be within the next few years I guess. We'll see.

 

[YoungGunner]

A copy of Day Bang

 

[Moma]

I tend to consistently forget this holiday. I've never actually seen my father, so there has never really been anything to celebrate.

"Boo-hoo, sad story...black-American dad story..."

Do you actually know where he is?

Yeah, know the address and all. Have pictures, and we've spoken a few times via phone.
I used to be more torn up about the whole absence as a boy, but I'm less bothered by the distance now (hence the sarcastic Drake quote). My goal now is just to see him at least once before he goes. He's in his late 60's, so that'll have to be within the next few years I guess. We'll see.

From man to man, I think you should do it. Swallow your emotions and feelings of resentment. This is for you, not for him. And it is for you, not for him. You learn a lot about yourself by seeing your father.

I did this recently on my own dime. I hadn't seen him in a very looong time. He was very surprised and I didn't let him know I was even showing up.

It resolved quite a few things for me.

 

[Excelsior]

From man to man, I think you should do it. Swallow your emotions and feelings of resentment. This is for you, not for him. And it is for you, not for him. You learn a lot about yourself by seeing your father.

I did this recently on my own dime. I hadn't seen him in a very looong time. He was very surprised and I didn't let him know I was even showing up.

It resolved quite a few things for me.

It is definitely planned, though I'm not sure exactly when it will happen. I do not resent him anymore (that was more of a childhood/teen thing), which will make it possible for me to go do the meet without too much issue.

I'm sure you're right about the importance, so I won't forget.

 

[WestCoast]

From man to man, I think you should do it. Swallow your emotions and feelings of resentment. This is for you, not for him. And it is for you, not for him. You learn a lot about yourself by seeing your father.

I did this recently on my own dime. I hadn't seen him in a very looong time. He was very surprised and I didn't let him know I was even showing up.

It resolved quite a few things for me.

It is definitely planned, though I'm not sure exactly when it will happen. I do not resent him anymore (that was more of a childhood/teen thing), which will make it possible for me to go do the meet without too much issue.

I'm sure you're right about the importance, so I won't forget.

This is a common thing for a strong male. No fatherly figure, you end up extremely pussified or extremely strong.

My dad, dead at gun point (age 12) blood on my shirt 4 days later I am stealing food and living under a bridge doing homework to find a way to go to college only to be denigrated by my peers as a kid who will never make it. Clown shoes.

My brother? Broke. Can't get laid. Can't be helped, I have tried.

This is why I always laugh when people consider fighting as "strong men", joke. I agree it's stronger than the pussification of men. But you want to really man up stare down a barrel.

 

[Kona]

Just a heads up, Father's Day provides a wonderful opportunity to bang girls with Daddy issues.

As you guys know, roughly 95% of sluts foster some resentment towards their fathers.

We've put out some serious text messages and phone calls today in order to get lots of girls to my house. A lot of girls told us they were sad/lonely/angry about Father's Day and didn't celebrate it. The ones of that group that we got here went straight for the tequila/party favors.

A good idea would be to hit your local strip club tonight and talk up the girls. Just empathize with them. Usually when I sit at the bar, the girls open me with a simple "hows it going" type line. You could fire back with something that brings their fathers into the topic.

Just a suggestion.

Aloha!

 

[Kona]

Just a heads up, Father's Day provides a wonderful opportunity to bang girls with Daddy issues.

As you guys know, roughly 95% of sluts foster some resentment towards their fathers.

We've put out some serious text messages and phone calls today in order to get lots of girls to my house. A lot of girls told us they were sad/lonely/angry about Father's Day and didn't celebrate it. The ones of that group that we got here went straight for the tequila/party favors.

A good idea would be to hit your local strip club tonight and talk up the girls. Just empathize with them. Usually when I sit at the bar, the girls open me with a simple "hows it going" type line. You could fire back with something that brings their fathers into the topic.

Just a suggestion.

Aloha!

I'm Replying to my own thing because it was terrible advice to give.

First off, it's never good to take advantage of the disenfranchised.

Second, you wind up using your skills on someone that you at your core feel sorry for. Nobody better can sense this better than an Exotic Dancer. She could possibly turn the tables on you.

Third, the girls will actually tell you their tales of woe, and those tales will wind up depressing YOU. Then after you've take into account points one and two, you're now back at square one and depressed on top of that.

Luckily for me, after talking up a dancer for a few hours, I was able to snap back to positivity thanks in large part to my family and friends that surround me, and also due to Mezcal. That stuff is delicious and gets better as I age. The girl I'm talking about is high dollar at the best club in town, and was ready to take tonight off. I couldn't do it. I've moved on.

Please do not take the advice I gave earlier.

Aloha!

 

[MrLemon]

A series of great posts Kona. "Pig in ground" -- lol.

 

[R Smoov]

The most therapeutic thing in the world is to talk to the father that's never been there in your life.

I hated the man. It sucks growing up as a kid and having only your mother raise you on her own.

It sucks growing up as a teen with a stepfather. Especially since your mind is made up that no random dude can take your father's place. No matter how many times this guy tries to be your dad, you refuse to accept it because he's not your dad. He can scream at you, disagree with any decisions you make, and even try to fight you when you don't live life how he wants you to live it.

But your stubborn heart still views the stepfather as an assfaggot. No matter what fatherly things he does to you, you honestly don't give a fuck about him.

I've spoken with my real dad today and it was like talking to myself. He understands what I'm saying when I speak of my thoughts of life. When I told him I never want to get married he said "Good son. If I had thought like you when I was your age I'd never be in the bullshit I went through while you were growing up"

When I told him I wanted to get some muscles, he smiled and said he'd send me some protein powder when he can.

And when I spoken about traveling to Brazil, he excitedly said "Man if I was in Brazil I'd never come back".

So talk to your real dad if you haven't already. You'll feel like a better man afterwards.

 

[Excelsior]

 

[Timoteo]

Third, the girls will actually tell you their tales of woe, and those tales will wind up depressing YOU. Then after you've take into account points one and two, you're now back at square one and depressed on top of that.

When women are all emotional like this, and vulnerable, it makes my dick hard. I know, that's fucked up. But when women get tearful like that, I just want to fuck them. Bitches are ALWAYS whining about something, so it never brings me down. If anything, it annoys me and makes me want to shove my tongue in her mouth. Or something else...HA HA!